"Men" who complain about women shyt-testing. Right or Wrong?

[How Sway?]

I don't get these shyt tests

if a bytch asks me to hold her bag and I don't then I'm an "ass hole" but a strong man.
And If I do then I'm a gentleman but a pushover

That's why I really don't do shyt for a bytch any bytch that stay doing this deserves to stay single lol. These Dumb hos are a trip man.

 

[Claudex]

Listen man...

The better u do on shyt tests INITIALLY....the less u will get in the future..

If u set boundaries early and stand by em, ull barely get shyt tested...

Its in a womans best interest to do this..

If u cant stand up for urself, how are u gonna stand up for her?...


Thats why brehs say white women are “easier” to deal with, its cuz white women initially shyt test black men less cuz they perceive us to be naturally masculine (thru media)....where a white guy has to prove his masculinity...

Pass her initial shyt tests, and itll rarely happen...


And no, it will never change, women do this to find out if ur a p*ssy or not, they been doing it since Adam and Eve, Adam failed...

Real fukking shyt!

 

[Claudex]

Hell I never even had a conversation with another female about this type of stuff. To be honest, this is the first time I've even heard of this.

What are shyt tests? Is this the female version of what dudes do when they try to escalate with women?

To my knowledge I don't think I've ever shyt tested somebody...

This is fascinating!

Say "word"!

 

[Claudex]

What kind of shyt testing y’all been through. Christ. I thought it was light hearted fun. Like telling your dude his center is trash and watching him create another.

Nah fam, some of y'all women be on some other shyt. Using shyt tests to find out who the simps are to just full on take advantage of'em.
Guess it's just another type of hustle.

 

[Contrefaire]

It's interesting that few people have even tried to give examples of actual shyt tests other than some corny 80s sitcom "can you hold my bag" bullshyt that pretty much never happens in real life.

it's not in a woman's nature to do this bs

Well yes and no. It's in a woman's nature to subtly test for fitness and competence (it must be done), but it really ain't nowhere as deep as what some of these brehs are saying (or should I say insinuating since I haven't seen many real examples) in this thread. Woman will say or do certain things and observe the reaction as a way to gauge where the man's head is at. It's simply a woman evaluating certain behaviors exhibited and making judgments from there.

An actual example of a shyt test is a woman asking her partner whether he thought her friend was attractive. OR, how he would feel about a threesome (her and another girl). If we're talking about a woman you barely know or just met, she might say something like "Oh? I heard you were a player". Another would be if for instance, you've had plans to go to a BBQ or picnic for a min but on the day of (or before) suddenly your girl says she doesn't want to go because she doesn't think your auntie likes her, or she doesn't get alone with your homie's girl, shyt like that. She already has the answer(s) she wants or a few acceptable ways to respond in mind, but if you falter, are slow to react or say the "wrong" thing, you've failed her shyt test.

Any of y'all remember those social media joke posts from a couple years ago where it would be a picture of Deebo or some other beefy nikka and the caption would be something like "you out with your girl and this dude comes up and smacks her ass. WYD?" That's basically a shyt test put into meme form. It's highly dramatized but the scenario is basically a shyt test personified nonetheless.

 

[Caribbean lover]

Only used to hear this shyt testing stuff in Pua and red pill circles especially on Reddit

 

[Offthegrid]

I give women "the test" too which p*ssy can make me skeet under 3-5mins let the games begin

 

[tocedaw]

Only used to hear this shyt testing stuff in Pua and red pill circles especially on Reddit

shyt is a cult. I was a part of it. Its fukked up because it takes insecure/inexperienced men and reinforces this false reality that realtionships with women are these complex equations that only "Alpha" (dont exist by the way) males understand.

Its not that deep yall. Dude is funny, but lets not create 8+ page threads analyzing his rants. Following his advice is going to come off weird af in real life and only frustrate you further.

 

[Contrefaire]

Only used to hear this shyt testing stuff in Pua and red pill circles especially on Reddit

Same.

While the general idea is correct, this shyt test bullshyt is straight up red pill terminology. Mind you TRP was created by shiftless cacs who never got the respect of women OR their male peers. That being the case, they're MUCH more likely to perceive any little bit of (normal) human interaction as a "shyt test".

 

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

What’s a shyt test?

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Base your relationships on monologues from Vivica A Fox straight to DVD movies brehettes

 

[tocedaw]

What’s a shyt test?

The imaginary concept that women play mind games to figure out how much of a man you are. Or, to figure out how much youll put up with.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Thread is riddled with cac terminology.
nikkas be calling women "hot" on here, too...sometimes.
Very suburban, very white.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

shyt is a cult. I was a part of it. Its fukked up because it takes insecure/inexperienced men and reinforces this false reality that realtionships with women are these complex equations that only "Alpha" (dont exist by the way) males understand.

Its not that deep yall. Dude is funny, but lets not create 8+ page threads analyzing his rants. Following his advice is going to come off weird af in real life and only frustrate you further.

I mean I am who I am...

I'm not the type to not open a door for a women just to make some sort of dominant showmanship like that dude is

Some brehs were raised to be the first through door before women, and that's fine...

Most people with sense can see when you're faking..

 

[ignorethis]

Same.

While the general idea is correct, this shyt test bullshyt is straight up red pill terminology. Mind you TRP was created by shiftless cacs who never got the respect of women OR their male peers. That being the case, they're MUCH more likely to perceive any little bit of (normal) human interaction as a "shyt test".

Red Pill/PUA is just misunderstood pimp game, that's been reinterpreted for lame cacs to understand.

That why even though most of those cacs are racist they deify dudes like Iceberg Slim and consider shyt like "Whoreson" by Donald Goines to be required reading.

The biggest issue with nikkas like that they hate/are angry with women for being women, when pimps clearly tell you "that once you understand women nothing they do can make you mad because you'll understand why she did it".

Acceptance is one of the stages of grief that TRP/PUA preaches but majority of the followers of that shyt never truly reached acceptance of female nature, pair that with their own insecurities and you have a recipe for extreme women hating.

shyt is complex.