"Men" who complain about women shyt-testing. Right or Wrong?

[MaxPain]

Those don't exactly qualify as "shyt tests." shyt tests, means YOU test them. You give them "shyt" (be purposely difficult, annoying, rude, combative) to see how they handle it. Those things you listed are just personality traits or qualities in a person. A chick having kids isn't a test. Her not paying isn't a test. Not initiating contact isn't a test. Those are observations.

I get what you're getting at, but we as men don't test women like they do us. Our only tests are usually just trying to see if she's a hoe or not. But 9 out of 10 times we don't "test" we observe. Therefore them dealing with us is nowhere near the difficulty of us dealing with them.

Breh, maybe I didnt word it right


But if u try to fukk a woman as soon as possible thats a shyt test in itself to see how easy she is...

If ask her to do something and she gives u lip thats a shyt test to see how submissive she is...

If I trust her with something small and she fukks it up like giving her money to flip and she dont, she failed a shyt test...

If u let women do whatever without testing them, then u get what u get

If she keeps failing, drop the bytch...

Lol at bold!

Okay the spirit of what u are saying seems different from what @Hennessypapi was describing.

I think what he was saying is just common sense and people not being willing to put up with or being attracted to shyt that is a deal breaker, like literally not having a backbone.

But what you are describing is extra as hell and sounds dysfunctional. I don't think I've ever put on a bytchmode front with a man before unless i felt genuinely disrespected. That energy doesn't feel good to just wear w/o cause. I just feel like you don't have to do all of that. I can be firm in my standards without settin up emotional booby traps.

Lemme find out ya'll dealing with Jigsaw ass bytches outchea.
"I WOULD LIKE TO PLAY A GAME!"


Hell relationships hard enuff. I'm tempted to say those types of people ain't got nothing better to do.
A woman having standards yes. Hell u want ur woman to have standards b/c if she let anybody fukk what does that say about u depending on what u want from her.

But a bytch acting like she Predator and you in a jungle as Danny Glover...nah...the p*ssy ain't worth it. (Or maybe it is b/c I'm not a dude and can't call it.)

We are both saying the same thing... idk why yall are confused lol

There is no standard shyt test


It can be anywhere from a girl saying here hold my bag

Can u drop me off somewhere

Wanting to talk on the phone for hours (waste my time and use me for attention)

Taking forever to text back or responding hours later/leaving on read


To

Her testing my manhood

Being combative

Getting a bytchy attitude with me

It also depends on the man. If u are already perceived as masculine (like alot of thugs are) u will get tested less initially than a square dude ...

Im being very general cuz ive dealt with all shyt tests of the above and will not deal with the latter

 

[MaxPain]

But if we follow our nature and hoe test we are bad.

U need to, i just spoke on us testing them..


And keep hoe testing, fukk how they feel.

 

[the bossman]

LMAO! I feel you but that's not personally how I go about getting what I want. Like if I want affection, I'll ask. I'm big on communication. When I feel vulnerable, I'll ask my man to hold me. Or I'll tell him when I'm feeling anxious. Growing up we talked about anything and everything. Or we touched or held each other.

Spoiler: Example

With my ex, the overwhelming majority of our arguments came b/c he didn't clean up behind himself, and was too stubborn to allow ME to clean up.

But see I'm not a yeller or a thrower. When I get mad I just start asking questions...
"Soooo why your bathroom look like some shyt scene from Fallout 4? You really tryin to be the nikka king under the mountain of laundry?"

When I'm mad or hurt, it's not a test. Im literally frustrated or at my breaking point.
I just want a solution. Dykk is nice but that's not gonna fix that pile of nasty ass drawers or them rings around ur toilet.

Then my family come visit on some "This how u living?"

Lol! I just don't think tests work in something sustainable. At some point u gon HAVE to learn to use ur words. Nobody should be constantly made to feel like they jumping thru hoops or on unstable ground just to be with you. Like ur supposed to be that person's haven and vice versa. Hell the rest of the world testing you, so you gon have a final when u get home too?!

Who wants to do that type of stuff?

don't you have a PhD in psychology/sociology or some shyt like that? 80%(yes i pulled this statistic out my ass) of women are not that well in touch and have control over their emotions like that enough or well-enough to be able to communicate them verbally at least. You are outside the norm

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Im being very general cuz ive dealt with all shyt tests of the above and will not deal with the latter

I feel you. I just feel like you can't have something real if u always constantly being tested by someone who is supposed to be in ur corner.

If i dont trust you or don't feel like I'm on solid ground with you, or if I feel tested, I'm out. I try to shoot straight from the hip on what i need. Life too short for this type of shyt, especially when I know how good it feels to be able to be vulnerable with somebody and be real.

 

[MaxPain]

Speaking on men shyt tests

The majority of American women are failing most men shyt tests horribly.

Which is why so many are gettin ran thru or ending up lonely and unmarried into old age...

If I ask a woman to do a simple task and she gives me attitude, or she plays phone games I cant take her serious outside sex...

They cant pass the simple test of being feminine, virtuous and submissive...

The only men who are still wifing them up are simps who have no shyt tests or standards of their own...

 

[the bossman]

I messed around with a chick who would do this shyt

I got a bj from her in a park once,she was drunk but I was in a homeless shelter, she lived in a hostel so I was confused and didn't know how I was gonna fukk her...(Hindsight I should've gotten a hotel,or even fukked her in the park) ..we didn't fukk and she went home horny. I was acting like I didn't know wtf I was doing,she was right and picked up on it..

jeezus breh. vc nao e brasileiro? apenas paga as 30 reais para love motel and keep it pushing

 

[010101]

those corny ass terms and theories

it's common sense to cut her off when she's being disrespectful and retarded

if you put up with abuse in hope of getting puzzy you a lame

duh

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[Spiritual Stratocaster]

jeezus breh. vc nao e brasileiro? apenas paga as 30 reais para love motel and keep it pushing

Lesson learned ..

Was wanting her to tell me to get the hotel

I've learned but man I took some L's with that..I deserved all the shyt she gave me...I was legit oblivious, and out of my league ..

If I were an ugly nikka,and didn't play guitar I would've been thrown to the bushes quick..

I ended up smashing months later but it was awkward

Brehs need to be honest and assess if they giving off feminine energy and correct it...I damn sure was

 

[MaxPain]

I feel you. I just feel like you can't have something real if u always constantly being tested by someone who is supposed to be in ur corner.

If i dont trust you or don't feel like I'm on solid ground with you, or if I feel tested, I'm out. I try to shoot straight from the hip on what i need. Life too short for this type of shyt, especially when I know how good it feels to be able to be vulnerable with somebody and be real.

Everything Im saying should be a natural state of a man

This shouldnt be something u have to remind urself. Its just u.

Most men in this country are feminized and brainwashed to the point everything im saying is frustrating to them so they feel like they have to go out of their way to do this shyt.....

But with shyt like “toxic masculinity” or shaming tactics against men, thats why so many are passive and feel like simply setting boundaries and standing up for urself is too much work when its what u should naturally be.

Its hard eating healthy if u been eating fried foods all ur life...

One thing I noticed from alotta foreign men from developing countries is that they dont compromise, they make all the decisions, and expect a submissive feminine women....

Women have shyt they needa fix too, but id be dragging this topic out. I know why u asked that and why dudes are so frustrated in this tooic and i dont blame them.

 

[Entropy Fan]

U need to, i just spoke on us testing them..


And keep hoe testing, fukk how they feel.

Oh I know. I'm just saying broads trynna stifle what comes natural to us while going wild with what comes natural to them. I ain't with the blatant hypocrisy

 

[010101]

it's not in a woman's nature to do this bs

most men have terrible taste in women

they aim for the easy targets the slack common promiscuous mean girls

motherfukkers be playing themselves

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[151_Pr00f]

don't you have a PhD in psychology/sociology or some shyt like that? 80%(yes i pulled this statistic out my ass) of women are not that well in touch and have control over their emotions like that enough or well-enough to be able to communicate them verbally at least. You are outside the norm

I enjoy most of her opinions but what she doesn't realize is that she's an outlier.

 

[The Fade]

Facts.

I like all races of women(mainly black or mixed) but I constantly get the white women shyt

I randomly got accused by some broad of liking a white girl by some girl I know and it came out of nowhere

I’ve tried changing the way I dress and shyt to adapt but it was making me miserable so instead I just turned up my true personality.


shyt tests can erode at your confidence if you arent naturally assertive and don’t understand them

Gotta learn to say shyt for your own amusement. Even if you don’t, just tell them you’re more of a Latina type of guy to piss her off. You have nothing to prove to her and she’s a disrespectful bytch.

Turn everything into a joke and sometimes act oblivious about it. Throw out outrageous shyt from left field. If you can use witty logic for a double entendre ether. It’s the best shyt when it goes over they head. Also be extra honest and turn up the a$$hole meter doing it.

I love when chicks test me cuz then I get to try new material and the reactions I get from these dumb bytches they giving you the ok the be an a$$hole cuz they wanna be disrespectful

The point is not to go back and forth, it’s to dead that shyt she started. Some dudes just literally walk away. I have a friend who loves fukking with women for a reaction and they know he’s good at it. They love him. They shyt test him and he has them looking stupid​

 

[MaxPain]

those corny ass terms and theories

it's common sense to cut her off when she's being disrespectful and retarded

if you put up with abuse in hope of getting puzzy you a lame

duh

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We can talk all day but this sums it up

Dont deal with games subtle disrspect and emasculating behavior. Demand respect in all human interactions. Cut her off if she dont get the program.

 

[ezrathegreat]

Brehs, women are going to shyt test you. It's how they determine the alphas from the betas. No need in getting angry about.