"Men" who complain about women shyt-testing. Right or Wrong?
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Hell I never even had a conversation with another female about this type of stuff. To be honest, this is the first time I've even heard of this.
What are shyt tests? Is this the female version of what dudes do when they try to escalate with women?
To my knowledge I don't think I've ever shyt tested somebody...
This is fascinating!
Hell I thot hanging out and getting to know the guy WAS the test! Lmao! You're figuring out if ya'll click or can stand being around each other w/o wanting to slit ur wrists...
Lemme find out I been doin shyt wrong this whole time!
Lemme find out I been doin shyt wrong this whole time!
“She fukked the first night, she a thot”When?
“She never initiates contact”
“She hasnt let me fukked by the 2-3rd date”
“She never offers to pay”
“She fukked my friend/someone I know”
“She slept with too many guys”
“She has kids”
“She was on her phone during the date”
Etc etc
Me and u both know 9/10 women in this country arent shyt. So if she exhibits any bad behavior shes failing ur test to become ur main.
These are things only simps accept from women. Men with no shyt tests. If a woman cant even show me any cooperation and disrespects me shes failing my shyt test. And if she has all of that baggage shes already failed before we met.
Have a shyt test or accept anything. Women with no shyt tests or the wrong ones end up just as bitter.
U have u just dont know it. Its in ur nature.
Just like me as a man, I am visual. I couldnt help that if I tried.
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So really these are just standards?
Like if a dude I'm dating is constantly talking about fukking to the point that it literally ruins the vibe and connection, I'm ghosting...
Or if a dude is on his cell phone being rude 24/7 or something like that?
Or we talking about chicks trying to disrespect ur manhood by buying u pink shirts or dying the tips of ur hair blonde or trying to paint ur fingernails? (Don't ask
)It's like I get it but I've legit never had a p*ssy meeting with my homegirls and outlined a "vagenda" to discuss this shyt.
I love ya'll. Learn something new everyday. Lol!
Standards is a part of it...but its just subtle things..So really these are just standards?
Like if a dude I'm dating is constantly talking about fukking to the point that it literally ruins the vibe and connection, I'm ghosting...
Or if a dude is on his cell phone being rude 24/7 or something like that?
Or we talking about chicks trying to disrespect ur manhood by buying u pink shirts or dying the tips of ur hair blonde or trying to paint ur fingernails? (Don't ask
It's like I get it but I've legit never had a p*ssy meeting with my homegirls and outlined a "vagenda" to discuss this shyt.
I love ya'll. Learn something new everyday. Lol!
What would u think of a man that never said NO to you?... no matter how ridiculous it is....
Has a man done something that lowered your attraction to him?So really these are just standards?
Like if a dude I'm dating is constantly talking about fukking to the point that it literally ruins the vibe and connection, I'm ghosting...
Or if a dude is on his cell phone being rude 24/7 or something like that?
Or we talking about chicks trying to disrespect ur manhood by buying u pink shirts or dying the tips of ur hair blonde or trying to paint ur fingernails? (Don't ask
It's like I get it but I've legit never had a p*ssy meeting with my homegirls and outlined a "vagenda" to discuss this shyt.
I love ya'll. Learn something new everyday. Lol!
He just did something, his behavior was in a way that you just didn't like and make you go
It's like some women who like men to make decisions for them because they're passive.
Might be a women out there who doesn't know what she wants to drink,eat and wants a guy to make that choice for her, so she might be indecisive spending like 5minutes trying to decide to see if the guy will suggest something or sit there waiting for the women to make a decision.
I don't have a percentage but I bet the women would give up the drawls to the guy who said
"
YOU TAKING too long..try this!"or
"
You taking too long..in the meantime i'm gonna eat"
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Agreed. This man said he been on thousands of dates?
I’m like breh, what’s the point? Aren’t you too old for dates? Right now
He should have a roster that he just calls up, the cook for breh,
He slang em wood, watch a little Hulu, smash again for good measure
And then send her on her way with a peck on the forehead and a thanks
For a lovely evening. Secondly, breh smacks his lips way too often which
Is a dead giveaway for ole boy moistness. That’s probably why he mastered a
shyt test. It’s probably because women are always trying is zesty ass.
I'd think I was dating a damn android. Not really tryin to fukk Siri. (Shudders) I don't think anybody wants a doormat.
On the other hand, I hate people who say no just because too...lol!
Me: "You might wanna try holding ur breath when u go underwater...
""NO! Don't try and control me!"
Those don't exactly qualify as "shyt tests." shyt tests, means YOU test them. You give them "shyt" (be purposely difficult, annoying, rude, combative) to see how they handle it. Those things you listed are just personality traits or qualities in a person. A chick having kids isn't a test. Her not paying isn't a test. Not initiating contact isn't a test. Those are observations.
I get what you're getting at, but we as men don't test women like they do us. Our only tests are usually just trying to see if she's a hoe or not. But 9 out of 10 times we don't "test" we observe. Therefore them dealing with us is nowhere near the difficulty of us dealing with them.
I'd think I was dating a damn android. Not really tryin to fukk Siri. (Shudders) I don't think anybody wants a doormat.
On the other hand, I hate people who say no just because too...lol!
Me: "You might wanna try holding ur breath when u go underwater...
"NO! Don't try and control me!"
There u go
You build a roster by going on dates..going for drinks,etc .
I've gotten p*ssy the same night by just stepping up to a chick, but to be honest i'm attractive,was carrying my guitar around and those chicks were already loose from the alcohol
