Y'all say this, then complain about lack of generational wealth, low morals, and single mothers in the community.Marriage is for idiots.
Millennial marriage statistics
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probably even lower lol
I think you lean a little too heavily on "black people are broke, why ya'll worried about divorce."
Our numbers are low for one MAIN reason; Women (regardless of race) do not marry "down." aka Hypergamy.
Your logic is sound. But, even in the anecdotal sense; "Fat" women want Prime Morris Chestnut. "Hustlers/CEO/Businesswomen" (when it's shown thta 98% of black [women] businesses are sole proprietors) who hustle off IG want a Fortune 500 employee who plans on branching out to their own business.
If I got "nothing" why bond myself legally to another with "nothing" and the problems that come with not meeting the expectations of "The White Picket."
Those post were great--I disagree. But, I'd like it read more about what you think on this topic. I can be wrong.
agree with this post heavily, Some of the reasons to our low stats as ADOS people are very simple really more than complicated or politically correct for the academic world imo
you got fat Black women who wont even entertain a nikka unless he got money, buff, or some other type of feature.
nvm the other types of Black women that may have more options and attention. That still have their barrier up of not wanting a relationship or have a shallow list of things they want from a nikka
Who is it not a priority for? We have biological urges. We try to satisfy them. Don't get fooled by the fact we have tried to rationalize these base instincts with words like love.
Maybe you're unique but most men don't desire having sex with just one woman for the rest of their lives. Marriage is simply a mechanism society has created to make men settle for that. I choose to follow my natural insticts rather than the constructs of society.
It's an overvalued construct and people have bigger priorities. Some of folks can't even eat or work, Marriage ain't even on the bottom of Maslows. A certain language on here particularly about women is on deepcel shyt.
Y'all say this, then complain about lack of generational wealth, low morals, and single mothers in the community.
The bolded largely falls on women, they have all the legal power to create life, and choose the men that nut in them to do the aforementioned quiet as kept
Mirin4rmfar
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I don't care for it. I just want to cohabitate with a financially and emotionally stable woman, don't want to gamble signing papers 
. I live comfortably by myself, if the moves I am working on work, then I will be in an even better place in the coming years. Why would I gamble that marrying a woman .
. I live comfortably by myself, if the moves I am working on work, then I will be in an even better place in the coming years. Why would I gamble that marrying a woman .
So men are just bestial children driven purely by instict with no sense of logic or planning for the future? I thought men were supposed to be the thinking, rational leaders in the community.The bolded largely falls on women, they have all the legal power to create life, and choose the men that nut in them to do the aforementioned quiet as kept
It takes two to tango. Maybe dudes shouldn't nut raw into women they have no intention of staying with to raise the offspring. If they're out after they knowingly get a chick pregnent, they have no right to complain about the single mother they helped create, and the moral degeneracy that is the result of the next generation of rudderless children with no men to lead them.
I don't care for it. I just want to cohabitate with a financially and emotionally stable woman, don't want to gamble signing papers
Finding the first part is tough brehbreh, but to get a woman to agree to being with you as a life partner without marriage
, but seriously best of luck breh ideally that's how most men would want to give it up Mirin4rmfar
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Y'all say this, then complain about lack of generational wealth, low morals, and single mothers in the community.
I only have an issue with women that are single moms in their 30's suddenly requiring marriage after some bum seeded them up bailed then suddenly want to have all these standards that they should have had from the jump
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BlackDiBiase
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im pro-marriage this is sad but its how the system is designed to be, lets be real.
eat.
- whites are minority 1/10 of the people on the planet.
- genetic recessive status
- etc.
eat.
- whites are minority 1/10 of the people on the planet.
- genetic recessive status
- etc.
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
Them divorce statistics tho 
People aren't in a rush to get married for a lot of reasons and people who wait are more likely to have a lasting marriage since they've grown to know the person well. Men and women in their 20s and 30s now are also resistant to social pressure. You can't really push us into it as easily.
People aren't in a rush to get married for a lot of reasons and people who wait are more likely to have a lasting marriage since they've grown to know the person well. Men and women in their 20s and 30s now are also resistant to social pressure. You can't really push us into it as easily.
So men are just bestial children driven purely by instinct with no sense of logic or planning for the future? I thought men were supposed to be the thinking, rational leaders in the community.
It takes two to tango. Maybe dudes shouldn't nut raw into women they have no intention of staying with to raise the offspring. If they're out after they knowingly get a chick pregnent, they have no right to complain about the single mother they helped create, and the moral degeneracy that is the result of the next generation of rudderless children with no men to lead them.
No you're sounding like women, no offense. Scummy men do the bolded. However in our community women disproportionately have kids by scummy men. Most men would provide for their family to their best of their ability even if it's creation was "unintentional", but in our community a lot of these men are lames, broke boys, etc. in the eyes of tons of a large share of the women, we've seen studies and had thread on this site going in depth on this. Not every Ciara gets Russell Wilson. Your beef lies with the Futures of the world, not black men at large
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