Millennial marriage statistics

[AAKing23]

Just came in to say #GMB

 

[Unknown Poster]

I'm at the point where I've given up the idea of getting married and settling down.
fukk that.
Like people say marriage makes you a better man...but Hitler was married and murdered over 6 million people so what are you really trying to say?

Spoiler

#GMB

I'm so happy being single and childless!

And being able to be SELFISH and live for ME! I cause I look out for my me and mines first.
AYO! fukk everybody else and they dumb shyt....I'm living nice!

 

[Bossino]

Dudes ain’t trying to wife women that got kids

Or that dabbled in sex work,

that "no games" is the #1 sign of bird/thotdom

It's funny because critical thinking with ya big head will save you from sooooooo many Ls with women. No games is something that should be a prerequisite so if you state it, you expose that you previously played said games.

Same thing if a woman says "you treat me so much better than anyone ever has". That implies she's was letting ain't shyt dudes beat exclusively prior, and you're doing far more than you probably should. Give em rope, gain ground, and watch em hang themselves.



The quiet/reserved/smart women are the ones that have the most power outside of attractive ones, because they know to keep shyt you won't tolerate/like disclosed until later/forever.

 

[MMA]

Breh I'm your around your age (Gen Z) and it's not happening, for all the reasons listed ITT. Women don't want to build anything anymore, they want finished products, and they'll date older to get it. That's completely understandable from a resources perspective, but once I get to a place I have, I'm supposed to just develop convenient amnesia and forget the woman (who were just as if not more broke than I) who wouldn't piss on me if I was on fire in my early/mid 20s? I'm supposed to put forth manufactured/false/blind trust in women who place finances leaps and bounds ahead of character, chemistry, and compatibility? On behalf of what, a crumbling black community that doesn't even value/big up men that do things on the straight and narrow?

Call it selfish, call it p*ssy, call it risk averse, and I'll wear it like my skin. I'm going through some of the hardest times of my life, on the strength of family and personal fortitude, once you get past that it only get easier. Unless you really want kids it's very hard to justify the importance of a legal wife in modern society. In terms of sex you can get maaad milk without buying a cow even before you level up, if you know how to manipulate emotions. In terms of finances, how many women are really going to significantly elevate your quality of life by adding income through joint means, without hoarding some of their own money, or bringing in substantial/notable debt? I don't even have to get into the courts.

I'm 22, trying to finish school, and barring freshman year, lived at home my whole life, I'm supposed to finish get my own place and have less than 12-15 years to live on my own terms before again having to make decisions with input from other(s). I don't see it. I just don't. I may be skewed/bitter/jaded but when you contrast the opportunities and experience you have to forgo to live on the straight and narrow as a breh and match that up to the female counterpart, I can't see how I wouldn't end up more likely than not getting worked to some degree.

Outside of girls (now women, i guess) from hs and college, in the internet era you really don't know these women. I can't commit to a woman that used to have and OnlyFans or sugar daddy, but why would any woman who wants a chance at being taking out the game by a solid guy readily admit that early on, or at all. Older generations need to understand the world has changed and shyt isn't cut and dry.

I haven't even touched on finding a wife if you're a certain type of breh who only is seeking half black/bw exclusively.

You are too young and inexperienced to speak this heavy and jaded. While you make some solid points you show your age a lot in this post. Go enjoy your life - you shouldn’t be thinking about marriage unless you are in a long term situation at your age in this day and age.

 

[Houston911]

Marriage is for idiots.

Ehh

You could argue that people who don’t make a lot of money benefit from marriage the most

 

[Bossino]

You are too young and inexperienced to speak this heavy and jaded. While you make some solid points you show your age a lot in this post. Go enjoy your life - you shouldn’t be thinking about marriage unless you are in a long term situation at your age in this day and age.

Tough do when you're broke staying out of debt, working/going to school, and COVID is afoot. To your other points I've been told the same by other adults but I really think they discount how social media, the poor market, and 3rd wave feminism have made things transparently transactional out here. Regardless, I'm going to self improve, continue saving, investing, stacking, gain self sufficiency then search for peace of mind. I've had little outside of necessities in life so I'm very closed off to the concept of sharing what I've built/will build, let alone giving it away for the sake of "companionship". I agree with your last point but at this juncture a woman would have to check all the boxes and really sell me on anything long term. I am young, but unfortunately (or fortunately depending on perspective) I've had a bevy of experiences that have revealed to me the underbelly of life.

I appreciate the guidance though

 

[Houston911]

The gap between black marriages and all the other groups is pretty big

It’s pretty much reparations or bust for us to get out of last place in wealth

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Or that dabbled in sex work,


It's funny because critical thinking with ya big head will save you from sooooooo many Ls with women. No games is something that should be a prerequisite so if you state it, you expose that you previously played said games.

Same thing if a woman says "you treat me so much better than anyone ever has". That implies she's was letting ain't shyt dudes beat exclusively prior, and you're doing far more than you probably should. Give em rope, gain ground, and watch em hang themselves.



The quiet/reserved/smart women are the ones that have the most power outside of attractive ones, because they know to keep shyt you won't tolerate/like disclosed until later/forever.

A lot of millenial and gen Z women dabble in sexwork. There's just no way of knowing because they keep it a secret. It is what it is.
The quiet smart ones will make their sexual past unknown

 

[SuaveyBoi115]

I'm at the point where I've given up the idea of getting married and settling down.
fukk that.
Like people say marriage makes you a better man...but Hitler was married and murdered over 6 million people so what are you really trying to say?

Spoiler

#GMB

I'm so happy being single and childless!

And being able to be SELFISH and live for ME! I cause I look out for my me and mines first.
AYO! fukk everybody else and they dumb shyt....I'm living nice!

 

[Bossino]

A lot of millenial and gen Z women dabble in sexwork. There's just no way of knowing because they keep it a secret. It is what it is.
The quiet smart ones will make their sexual past unknown

That's a part of why I'm out on marriage. Can't kiss no ex-sugar baby every morning. I've always thought of starting the business/online service of Ho-Fax. I'd need a staff of hackers who based off personal info could more or less make a profile/portfolio of doxxed info on women including a past in sex work (stripping, sugar babying on sites like seeking arrangements, prostitution, onlyfans, etc.) I could charge for individual reports or sell monthly/annual memberships to get unlimited search access on former hoes. I'm sure there's legal gray area I could work within to get it done. Market it on sites like reddit.

Just spitballing

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

That's a part of why I'm out on marriage. Can't kiss no ex-sugar baby every morning. I've always thought of starting the business/online service of Ho-Fax. I'd need a staff of hackers who based off personal info could more or less make a profile/portfolio of doxxed info on women including a past in sex work (stripping, sugar babying on sites like seeking arrangements, prostitution, onlyfans, etc.) I could charge for individual reports or sell monthly/annual memberships to get unlimited search access on former hoes. I'm sure there's legal gray area I could work within to get it done. Market it on sites like reddit.

Just spitballing

Now that I think about it, that information is freely available on the internet. You would need some kind of facial recognition software though to verify identity.

 

[Bossino]

Now that I think about it, that information is freely available on the internet. You would need some kind of facial recognition software though to verify identity.

If someone does it before me I'd apply for their marketing/management, but if I had enough money to start a business I'd do that one first

 

[Crayola Coyote]

And guess what, when they turn 25-27 (if they white latina), 27-29 if they (black) they'll magically switch their IG from clubbing/Cardi B/twerking to Housekeeping/Snoh Aalegra/working out type shyt. Using buzzwords like consistency, no games, something serious, build a future, etc. Some unsuspecting dude will then hit the

Ooooh, I think I came up. She works out listens to decent shyt and looks like she down for the long haul. When in reality she just doesn't want to HAVE to support herself/ask her parents for money for the rest of her life, and wants to experience playing house irl. She take anyone who'll hitch their truck to her trailer as long as their finances are average/decent and their looks are average. But her OG nature/traits will resurface as soon as she feels she has control of the man.

It's becoming more transparently transactional. Hell it started as a business deal with dowries and all, but people recently tried to sprinkle love on that ish, while keeping rules strictly business. I'll never tell anyone to not get married individually/directly/personally, but I will say I don't think it's for me/most people in it's current construction.

Women want to play games in their early years but want a sucker to take care of them when they are run down. I see it all the time. Like a poster said I cannot marry a woman that did only fans, goes to the club and talks about “m*n are trash” on social media. No thanks

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

If someone does it before me I'd apply for their marketing/management, but if I had enough money to start a business I'd do that one first

Nah but for real though. All you need need to do is make a WebCrawler with facial recognition capabilities. The webcrawler will look for your girl's image (similar to reverse image search). Once it finds the image it would filter for results from sites like Onlyfans, twitter, reddit etc. It would also only bring up publicly available information from those sites (to avoid legal pushback). If you host the website outside of America(.ru or some other European domain name) then you can avoid American legal issues

 

[Crayola Coyote]

If someone does it before me I'd apply for their marketing/management, but if I had enough money to start a business I'd do that one first

this would save lives and plus it would get banned cause you cannot allow men to know the truth about female nature