People say "be better" like most guys can just up and do it.
I have two degrees, a six figure+ job, two nice cars, a very nice condo, a closet full of clothes, good sense of humor, good social presence, a great wife, and a great physique.
You know how hard it was and how long it took to get all that? It took decades, an unspeakable amount of work, and the shyt could still go left at any moment. Women chase me, but all they have to offer at this point is p*ssy, and once you grind so hard and become a man of your own, you realize p*ssy ain't the end all be all, it's just p*ssy and the bullshyt that comes with it usually just stresses you out and fukks up your situation.
If you do all of that, become succesful to the point where upper caliber women chase you-which requires A LOT for the average man who's not famous- just so some goodlooking decent chicks sleep with you you will wake up one day after busting a nut in some broad and want to blow your head off.
No woman alone is worth that much time effort and money, none of them.