Most men 30 and up need to consider settling or just forget about starting a family

[Rhapscallion Démone]

 

[David_TheMan]

If you a man of 30, why should you settle or forget about starting a family when there are 19 - 22 year old women who will throw themselves at you.
You playing the game all wrong.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

U have two options

Option A. Settle for some local chick with baggage or a single mother

And/or

Option B. Just forget about the family and focus on self.

Because at 30 no magic unicorn bytch that exist. These are your options: single mom, naive young girl you have nothing in common with the personality of sand paper, ex hoe that wants to settle, mentally unstable crazy bytch, the ex dime that's now going through an identity crisis because she isn't a star anymore.

IMO ALOT of these woman are damaged goods at this age. They're all mentally broken and just sad. Like damn WTF happened to these chicks. They're whole demeanor is all depressed and they have no excitement about life. What man in his right mind want that?

If you have the resources I guess you can go foreign

If you cant find a good mate IMO its better to never settle. fukk it. Die alone. Don't get trapped by one of these last resort chicks.

cmon breh...with this depressing shyt

im about 10 years older that you...

the good thing about that is the women with kids have kids that are older and in some instances grown....shyt i have a 21 year old myself

the bad thing is that they have 20+ years of baggage from doing their own dirt....being ran through....and dating/mating/procreating with the wrong nikka.....

i dont like the term settling but i will say you have to be patient and investigate ANY woman you plan on investing time and money into....otherwise you set yourself up for failure.....

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

False Dilemma.

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[75 Others]

If you a man of 30, why should you settle or forget about starting a family when there are 19 - 22 year old women who will throw themselves at you.
You playing the game all wrong.

I'm in my 30s myself and I cannot see myself dealing with 20 year olds (This was if I wasn't married). I was listening to a radio show one morning and one guy was in his 30s and he dated I think it was a 21 year old, and he was just turned off because the whole time she was upset because she wasn't tagged on a FB post by her roommate

I feel that because I'm on a different level of my life where I don't want that kind of shyt on my plate at this point in my life.

 

[Sterling Archer]

I'm staring this shyt in the face right now. Single mothers and women who are single for very good reasons are everywhere in this age range.

Not to say I haven't met some nice women, but at least one kid lingers in the wings, and I have only ever had one girlfriend and that was a blip on the radar.

I have zero baggage. Asking for the same will require all kinds of high and low searching unless I date youngerReminds me of what Chris Jones

said on this interview. My best bet is to focus on this bread and my health, then relocate to an area where women are more career-minded and interested in

intellectual pursuits, someone who probably hasn't had much experience in the dating world just like me. I can't be bothered to deal with saved games. I want

pre-order bonuses.

The thing is you and OP are saying two different things about the same subject. You recognize that they most certainly do exist and perhaps your environment doesnt provide enough access to them. OP is speaking in hyperbole as if there are no options available aside from the choices he gave which just isnt the case. It all comes down to the options you can command and like you said, working on yourself will put you in the position to obtain the blue chips. I can put you in a room right now with 12 attractive, 27-32yr old women who are single, no children and down to earth professionals. Now, they may not check for you, OP, or me or the next man because they are looking for something else (more) but they are definitely there. No such thing as settling as OP claims. You get what you CAN get. If you cant get what you want then you need to level yourself up. If you are already leveled up, then you put yourself in the environment more suited for your appetite.

You can't fish open waters in a lake.

 

[606onit]

or u could go rouge:

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Literally only 9 million single moms in America
Only 3 million of them are blk. If ur in an area saturated with single blk mothers, u wanna think about moving.

 

[Vandelay]

Says broke mothafukkaz...

 

[Mars Blackmon]

I just turned 30 not too long ago....

challenge accepted


Not saying I'm looking for a unicorn, but there are plenty that don't have baggage/are single mothers

The thing is you and OP are saying two different things about the same subject. You recognize that they most certainly do exist and perhaps your environment doesnt provide enough access to them. OP is speaking in hyperbole as if there are no options available aside from the choices he gave which just isnt the case. It all comes down to the options you can command and like you said, working on yourself will put you in the position to obtain the blue chips. I can put you in a room right now with 12 attractive, 27-32yr old women who are single, no children and down to earth professionals. Now, they may not check for you, OP, or me or the next man because they are looking for something else (more) but they are definitely there. No such thing as settling as OP claims. You get what you CAN get. If you cant get what you want then you need to level yourself up. If you are already leveled up, then you put yourself in the environment more suited for your appetite.

You can't fish open waters in a lake.

^^ These. Men with their shyt together and have shyt going for them aren't complaining about their options. This is especially true for my fam that live in the DMV area or most large metro areas in general. I have cousins in D.C. and the amount of childless single Black professional women they run into is crazy. Now if you're a dude that's desirable in a small town or city of course that's different because by the population you're limited.

 

[GrindMode]

U have two options

Option A. Settle for some local chick with baggage or a single mother

And/or

Option B. Just forget about the family and focus on self.

Because at 30 no magic unicorn bytch that exist. These are your options: single mom, naive young girl you have nothing in common with the personality of sand paper, ex hoe that wants to settle, mentally unstable crazy bytch, the ex dime that's now going through an identity crisis because she isn't a star anymore.

IMO ALOT of these woman are damaged goods at this age. They're all mentally broken and just sad. Like damn WTF happened to these chicks. They're whole demeanor is all depressed and they have no excitement about life. What man in his right mind want that?

If you have the resources I guess you can go foreign

If you cant find a good mate IMO its better to never settle. fukk it. Die alone. Don't get trapped by one of these last resort chicks.

lmao u just described urself

 

[At30wecashout]

The thing is you and OP are saying two different things about the same subject. You recognize that they most certainly do exist and perhaps your environment doesnt provide enough access to them. OP is speaking in hyperbole as if there are no options available aside from the choices he gave which just isnt the case. It all comes down to the options you can command and like you said, working on yourself will put you in the position to obtain the blue chips. I can put you in a room right now with 12 attractive, 27-32yr old women who are single, no children and down to earth professionals. Now, they may not check for you, OP, or me or the next man because they are looking for something else (more) but they are definitely there. No such thing as settling as OP claims. You get what you CAN get. If you cant get what you want then you need to level yourself up. If you are already leveled up, then you put yourself in the environment more suited for your appetite.

You can't fish open waters in a lake.

You right. I realize my circle sucks, and while I'm no baller or super-prize, I have plans in motion that theoretically should make me "In demand" soon.

With that in mind, I meet a lot of people due to the jobs I hold, and the best of the bunch typically rise above those situations in short order. If I'm out here looking for

a professional, fit, and intellectual woman, I can't expect that running around in the hood or something similar. I gotta get my mind and money right and be near

upper-class areas with esteemed academic institutions, likely a medical and technology hub, and cast my net in a place where people are building rather than just

living. It made me comfortable with being single because my primary focus is leveling up, and when I am ready to take that plunge, don't go to the grocery store for honey, I go

directly to the beekeeper, so to speak. I disagree with his premise about there being none as well, as I have realized that to get a certain partner, you have to position yourself

in all facets of life to be ready when you meet someone. There is still an element of luck, but I would be much luckier working IT in a major area and building a network of folks

who can introduce me to good women, rather than complaining that women ain't shyt while I'm still working at Walgreens in the hood.

 

[David_TheMan]

I'm in my 30s myself and I cannot see myself dealing with 20 year olds (This was if I wasn't married). I was listening to a radio show one morning and one guy was in his 30s and he dated I think it was a 21 year old, and he was just turned off because the whole time she was upset because she wasn't tagged on a FB post by her roommate

I feel that because I'm on a different level of my life where I don't want that kind of shyt on my plate at this point in my life.

I was 30 and I had a 20 year old girlfirend, talked to a girl who was 19 as well.
Its there for the taking if you refuse to allow women to shame you.
I do feel the dude on the social media shyt. I just told the girl I was with I'm not on that shyt because the government is watching you and she left me alone.

 

[ball15life]

^^ These. Men with their shyt together and have shyt going for them aren't complaining about their options. This is especially true for my fam that live in the DMV area or most large metro areas in general. I have cousins in D.C. and the amount of childless single Black professional women they run into is crazy. Now if you're a dude that's desirable in a small town or city of course that's different because by the population you're limited.

I live in the DMV ....you speaking 100% facts breh

 

[AquaCityBoy]

. I can't be bothered to deal with saved games. I want

Then you should have saved up for the game when the release date was announced.

Hard to get pre order bonuses when the game's been out for months.