Goat poster
KANG LIFE
Agreed.
Nikkas really be shytting on good women always thinking it's something better out there.
The broads they put on a pedastal and dream about is someone's jump off
Women do this with men as well.
Most men 30 and up need to consider settling or just forget about starting a family
Nikkas really be shytting on good women always thinking it's something better out there.
The broads they put on a pedastal and dream about is someone's jump off
Women do this with men as well.
DjBhaled
More chune for your headtop ehh
That Instagram model is not worth itSo to clarify, your saying every nikka should hold out for that instagram model that will inevitably come his way?
Goat poster
KANG LIFE
Y'all dudes didn't catch my sarcasm.
Nonsense. Men with options will always find quality women without baggage. Met my fiancé at 29. I have a few boys that are now married and they got with their girls in their late 20s/early30s. None of my boys are with crazy women or single mothers.
Broke, D- nikkaz may have a different path though.
I have always filled with goal oriented professionals. Didn't consider single mothers. There's a large pool of quality broads if you have reasonable expectations and have something to offer aside from some peen.
Broke, D- nikkaz may have a different path though.
I have always filled with goal oriented professionals. Didn't consider single mothers. There's a large pool of quality broads if you have reasonable expectations and have something to offer aside from some peen.
Suleiman Bey
Banned
Everybody has options and everyone has baggage. If a person doesn't have baggage they have no life experience. And a grown women with no life is experience may be great at first but what happens when something shakes her foundation?
know actually I am shyt....dont project the thoughts that you feel about yourself on to me...Welp that's their L to take in many men who fall in line with them.
He's talking like he's God gift to women when he ain't shyt either.
People should take care themselves mentally, physically, and emotionally if you aren't then
Thats why I fukks with you breh. Seeing the forest for the trees.
With that in mind, I meet a lot of people due to the jobs I hold, and the best of the bunch typically rise above those situations in short order. If I'm out here looking for
a professional, fit, and intellectual woman, I can't expect that running around in the hood or something similar. I gotta get my mind and money right and be near
upper-class areas with esteemed academic institutions, likely a medical and technology hub, and cast my net in a place where people are building rather than just
living. It made me comfortable with being single because my primary focus is leveling up, and when I am ready to take that plunge, don't go to the grocery store for honey, I go
directly to the beekeeper, so to speak. I disagree with his premise about there being none as well, as I have realized that to get a certain partner, you have to position yourself
in all facets of life to be ready when you meet someone. There is still an element of luck, but I would be much luckier working IT in a major area and building a network of folks
who can introduce me to good women, rather than complaining that women ain't shyt while I'm still working at Walgreens in the hood.
I often wonder what men think dating as a black woman is like when there are literally 5 million men out of our community. And that's not accounting for those who are also illegitimate fathers or have baggage themselves? I dunno but I let them cook b/c I KNOW it's some trife chicks out there. But i just wonder if they give a thot about that from time to time?Since life ends at 30 for women, they will have all of these healthy, strong, masculine men in the 30s with good mental health.
Whatever will these good men do.
nikka really be talking about women like there's not just as many men out here "damaged"
Another poster had me laughing when there were dudes talking about blk women being horrid and raised in broken homes and she quipped "Where do u think blk men were raised, Narnia?!"
I felt my soul leave me body with the laughter. LMAO!
A lot of what blk men and women are complaining about in dating is nothing more than the fruits of years of systemic bullshyt placed upon our community. If I can just get average blk people to remove the chips from their shoulders and stop looking at everybody EXCEPT other average people, I think we'd be okay. But blks are HYPER critical of each other. I think it's because of a collective self-esteem issue. I've said it before and I've said it again: blk people dating for social validation, not love. So average won't do which is why a lotta people missing each other.
I met my girl in college during freshman year, she has no baggage like ex boyfriends or kids. But every year it feels like she gets a little crazier and a little more unreasonable. She's had nothing done to her in life that should turn her into one of those crazy, emotional, self destructive bytches. She's literally had the easiest fukking life ever.
But if you just met her today you would swear she was one of these damaged goods bytches. I don't get it. Her little group of friends are exactly the same way except they are worse. They do dumb shyt and sabotage relationships and then cry that it didn't work out.
But if you just met her today you would swear she was one of these damaged goods bytches. I don't get it. Her little group of friends are exactly the same way except they are worse. They do dumb shyt and sabotage relationships and then cry that it didn't work out.
BmoreGorilla
Veteran
Almost all the women I meet in their 30s are single mothers and/or divorced. Ive tried dating a few young ones but they be on too much bullshyt for me. Tbh tho being as a single father I have no problem with a single mother. Depending on the situation it might actually be a plus for me
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Suleiman Bey
Banned
What do you consider baggage? You don't have to have things happen directly to you to be damaged or have baggage.
philmonroe
Superstar
You do know Mr next level just because dude had a bad experience doesn't mean you will? maybe that dude was just trying to get a nut and didn't really pay attention to the red flags that "annoyed" him till after he got the p*ssy. Something I've saw many people make/female do. My point is I can't base what I'm doing cause it did or didn't work out for the next person.I'm in my 30s myself and I cannot see myself dealing with 20 year olds (This was if I wasn't married). I was listening to a radio show one morning and one guy was in his 30s and he dated I think it was a 21 year old, and he was just turned off because the whole time she was upset because she wasn't tagged on a FB post by her roommate
I feel that because I'm on a different level of my life where I don't want that kind of shyt on my plate at this point in my life.
I don't know what's more insane:
The fact u make 27384747 useless random threads giving advice on shyt u have no experience with
Or
The fact dudes really be in them commenting seriously
This why I believe the majority of posters on here have mental issues
The fact u make 27384747 useless random threads giving advice on shyt u have no experience with
Or
The fact dudes really be in them commenting seriously
This why I believe the majority of posters on here have mental issues
Your thoughts? @ultraflexed