
You right. I realize my circle sucks, and while I'm no baller or super-prize, I have plans in motion that theoretically should make me "In demand" soon.
With that in mind, I meet a lot of people due to the jobs I hold, and the best of the bunch typically rise above those situations in short order. If I'm out here looking for
a professional, fit, and intellectual woman, I can't expect that running around in the hood or something similar. I gotta get my mind and money right and be near
upper-class areas with esteemed academic institutions, likely a medical and technology hub, and cast my net in a place where people are building rather than just
living. It made me comfortable with being single because my primary focus is leveling up, and when I am ready to take that plunge, don't go to the grocery store for honey, I go
directly to the beekeeper, so to speak. I disagree with his premise about there being none as well, as I have realized that to get a certain partner, you have to position yourself
in all facets of life to be ready when you meet someone. There is still an element of luck, but I would be much luckier working IT in a major area and building a network of folks
who can introduce me to good women, rather than complaining that women ain't shyt while I'm still working at Walgreens in the hood.