Most men 30 and up need to consider settling or just forget about starting a family

[75 Others]

You do know Mr next level just because dude had a bad experience doesn't mean you will? maybe that dude was just trying to get a nut and didn't really pay attention to the red flags that "annoyed" him till after he got the p*ssy. Something I've saw many people make/female do. My point is I can't base what I'm doing cause it did or didn't work out for the next person.

I know if I am dating a chick in her early 20s I am more likely to be in that kind of shyt vs a woman maybe 28 and up.

 

[William F. Russell]

its true. They're all sad and broken. Don't smile, no enthusiasm for life. they walk around like robots n shyt with no emotions.

Theyre mentally scared from being pump and dumped so many times and working some dead end job. shyt is sad indeed man

*They* won't touch this. :AyeshaBish:

 

[William F. Russell]

You got a lot of experience for a nikka who lives out of his trunk

Goddamn

 

[philmonroe]

I know if I am dating a chick in her early 20s I am more likely to be in that kind of shyt vs a woman maybe 28 and up.

Not really if you do proper vetting and where you meet them at. Some of y'all holding to them old stereotypes
You married it seems so I'm not trying to start no stuff. I'm just saying if you do your homework you'll be good even with younger girls too and age dont necessarily mean that chick esp nowadays ain't on the social media silly stuff

 

[William F. Russell]

Literally only 9 million single moms in America
Only 3 million of them are blk. If ur in an area saturated with single blk mothers, u wanna think about moving.

Do you say the same thing to women when they complain "there's no good men" or "men ain't shyt" or "dudes are fukkboys"?

 

[Mars Blackmon]

You right. I realize my circle sucks, and while I'm no baller or super-prize, I have plans in motion that theoretically should make me "In demand" soon.

With that in mind, I meet a lot of people due to the jobs I hold, and the best of the bunch typically rise above those situations in short order. If I'm out here looking for

a professional, fit, and intellectual woman, I can't expect that running around in the hood or something similar. I gotta get my mind and money right and be near

upper-class areas with esteemed academic institutions, likely a medical and technology hub, and cast my net in a place where people are building rather than just

living. It made me comfortable with being single because my primary focus is leveling up, and when I am ready to take that plunge, don't go to the grocery store for honey, I go

directly to the beekeeper, so to speak. I disagree with his premise about there being none as well, as I have realized that to get a certain partner, you have to position yourself

in all facets of life to be ready when you meet someone. There is still an element of luck, but I would be much luckier working IT in a major area and building a network of folks

who can introduce me to good women, rather than complaining that women ain't shyt while I'm still working at Walgreens in the hood.

Nothing but 100% truth here

 

[Spotja]

It's even better when you are in your 40s with no kids and no debt

You just can't make this up breh

 

[DrX]

@Cheeky thanks for the neg

and BTW how do u know u arent? do u self reflect sis?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Do you say the same thing to women when they complain "there's no good men" or "men ain't shyt" or "dudes are fukkboys"?

If only u knew my female friends. They go months without talking to me sometimes b/c they think im always taking men's sides. Lmao!
"But these nikkas always..." "I didnt call you for this." "You always on some bullshyt."

Don't ask questions u don't wanna hear the answer to. Dating can be hard these days.

 

[Spotja]

It's like every week single moms and single brehs fast approaching 30 are shytted on. But why?

 

[Huellz Santana]

I'm staring this shyt in the face right now. Single mothers and women who are single for very good reasons are everywhere in this age range.

Not to say I haven't met some nice women, but at least one kid lingers in the wings, and I have only ever had one girlfriend and that was a blip on the radar.

I have zero baggage. Asking for the same will require all kinds of high and low searching unless I date youngerReminds me of what Chris Jones

said on this interview. My best bet is to focus on this bread and my health, then relocate to an area where women are more career-minded and interested in

intellectual pursuits, someone who probably hasn't had much experience in the dating world just like me. I can't be bothered to deal with saved games. I want

pre-order bonuses.

who is Chris Jones and what's the interview?

and yeah, just date younger. I'm 33 and most of the girls I date are in the 24-28 range​

 

[BmoreGorilla]

If you a man of 30, why should you settle or forget about starting a family when there are 19 - 22 year old women who will throw themselves at you.
You playing the game all wrong.

these 19-22 year old chicks out here have nothing to offer these days to any man over 30 besides p*ssy. If that's all you want cool. If you're looking to settle down forget about it. This isn't back in the days

 

[David_TheMan]

these 19-22 year old chicks out here have nothing to offer these days to any man over 30 besides p*ssy. If that's all you want cool. If you're looking to settle down forget about it. This isn't back in the days

Depends on the girl actually.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Depends on the girl actually.

That's true. But in 2017 if you're a man over 30 who can actually be in a healthy, stable relationship with a 19-22 year old you gotta check your maturity level.

On top of that how you a grown ass man dating a chick that cant even legally drink?

 

[Mars Blackmon]

So to clarify, your saying every nikka should hold out for that instagram model that will inevitably come his way?

Sounds like he's saying either be well on your way or where your want to be in life socially/economically in life before you settle down to me. Most people settle down with others on their "level."

Edit: And for the record I don't necessarily agree with this. If you're in college you'd be best to snag a girl there and grow with her in my opinion. By the time you settle down or marry, you'll know what you're getting into for the most part.