Most men 30 and up need to consider settling or just forget about starting a family

Larry Lambo

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There's no such thing as settling.

If you can only pull local single mothers with baggage, then that's what you can pull.
Neither of you are settling, this is just your new reality.

If you're not maximizing your potential as a person you're settling. If I deal with the woman I can get as a 300lb broke dude with no social circle, I'm settling in life and my woman will be reflective of that.

Also, if your life is headed on a certain trajectory and you go with the woman you can get now (with no plans to ditch her after your come up), you are settling vs. your potential. That may be the best you can get now, but looking at it holistically, that's not your value in general. After a certain age, most women start looking to date for potential life partners so this has to be considered.

The key is if somebody is actively improving themselves or not. If not, then the best they can get is their reality. If they are, then it's probably best to keep thing casual with women until the cypher is complete, because the options they have now, is not going to match the options they will have in the future. So by choosing what they can have now, they are limiting the caliber of a potential partner.
 

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Since life ends at 30 for women, they will have all of these healthy, strong, masculine men in the 30s with good mental health.

Whatever will these good men do.

:deadmanny: nikka really be talking about women like there's not just as many men out here "damaged"
 

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Since life ends at 30 for women, they will have all of these healthy, strong, masculine men in the 30s with good mental health.

Whatever will these good men do.

:deadmanny: nikka really be talking about women like there's not just as many men out here "damaged"
Life doesn't end for women at 30 it's just the age where alot of women hit the wall and are not as desirable as they used to be this ain't to say they not going be able to get nikkas anymore it just means they become more humble
 

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Stop talking like your God it's millions upon millions of women in this country that's too many different people to just be held down to that standard you hold, acting like you can't find true love after 30 nikka it's much harder when you in your 20's with more hormones and less clarity of vision
 

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Life doesn't end for women at 30 it's just the age where alot of women hit the wall and are not as desirable as they used to be this ain't to say they not going be able to get nikkas anymore it just means they become more humble
Yes some women do hit the wall but maybe I'm living in a dream world but I see beautiful women with no baggage externally anyways that's doing fine.

The problem I have is nikkas be talking about women like they not walking round here with their own set of baggage, pot bellies, and for some, kids.
 

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Yes some women do hit the wall but maybe I'm living in a dream world but I see beautiful women with no baggage externally anyways that's doing fine.

The problem I have is nikkas be talking about women like they not walking round here with their own set of baggage, pot bellies, and for some, kids.
But for women the external fall off effects them more than a man, and most older women may look good but internally they tend to be bitter and damaged people who haven't learned to how to be accountable for their fukk ups over their life
 

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If you're not maximizing your potential as a person you're settling. If I deal with the woman I can get as a 300lb broke dude with no social circle, I'm settling in life and my woman will be reflective of that.

Also, if your life is headed on a certain trajectory and you go with the woman you can get now (with no plans to ditch her after your come up), you are settling vs. your potential. That may be the best you can get now, but looking at it holistically, that's not your value in general. After a certain age, most women start looking to date for potential life partners so this has to be considered.

The key is if somebody is actively improving themselves or not. If not, then the best they can get is their reality. If they are, then it's probably best to keep thing casual with women until the cypher is complete, because the options they have now, is not going to match the options they will have in the future. So by choosing what they can have now, they are limiting the caliber of a potential partner.

So to clarify, your saying every nikka should hold out for that instagram model that will inevitably come his way? :ohhh:
 

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U have two options

Option A. Settle for some local chick with baggage or a single mother

And/or

Option B. Just forget about the family and focus on self.

Because at 30 no magic unicorn bytch that exist. These are your options: single mom, naive young girl you have nothing in common with the personality of sand paper, ex hoe that wants to settle, mentally unstable crazy bytch, the ex dime that's now going through an identity crisis because she isn't a star anymore.

IMO ALOT of these woman are damaged goods at this age. They're all mentally broken and just sad. Like damn WTF happened to these chicks. They're whole demeanor is all depressed and they have no excitement about life. What man in his right mind want that?

If you have the resources I guess you can go foreign

If you cant find a good mate IMO its better to never settle. fukk it. Die alone. Don't get trapped by one of these last resort chicks.
Most people settle it doesn't matter what age and most people have baggage. Get over it.
 

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Some men simply can't afford to wait until their 30's to start getting serious about relationships if they have certain standards.

Most women don't meet my standards even morally so it would be like searching for a needle through a haystack for me if I were to wait that long.
 

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But for women the external fall off effects them more than a man, and most older women may look good but internally they tend to be bitter and damaged people who haven't learned to how to be accountable for their fukk ups over their life
Welp that's their L to take in many men who fall in line with them.

He's talking like he's God gift to women when he ain't shyt either.

People should take care themselves mentally, physically, and emotionally if you aren't then :yeshrug:
 

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Welp that's their L to take in many men who fall in line with them.

He's talking like he's God gift to women when he ain't shyt either.

People should take care themselves mentally, physically, and emotionally if you aren't then :yeshrug:
I personally don't date or have sex it's a stressful expensive lifestyle that doesn't fulfill me on a deeper level the day I realized people are just opportunistic and looking for a come up is the day I stopped trying to find love, anything I do it's for the improvement of me and building a stable lifestyle for the future, these nikkas and bytches who put so much value into how good they look and how much they fukking have nothing else better to do with their lives
 
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