Option C: Import a foreign woman 
Most men 30 and up need to consider settling or just forget about starting a family
thewarrior05
All Star
Im not going to lie I do wish women especially black women would be more open minded about guys they date and take serious but I also wish us as black men fought the white supremacy programming better and stop looking for only aestheticly pleasing women..... But one we will do betterI'm just outchea trying to eliminate excuses for shyttin on our own people.
It scares the holy shyt out of me that a rumor can gain so much momentum that it is spread as axiomatic truth and used to discredit millions of blk women just b/c u going thru a drought and not able to get ur dyck wet.
It's like those Sista Tales about blk men making less than blk women
"I just can't find a blk man with his act together!"
bytch! After student loans and credit cards and weave debt yo ass only bringing home $10!
I'm sorry. I luh ya'll. I'm bored today b/c I took a friend to the hospital today. She had surgery so I'm just wilding out online with ya'll today.
CapitalforCapital
Banned
But you took time out of your finite life to click the thread, read pages of comments, and then make a comment yourself. And not only do you frequent the site but give your hard earned money to it as well. All for what you think are a group of mental cases. Looking real funny in the light my guyI don't know what's more insane:
The fact u make 27384747 useless random threads giving advice on shyt u have no experience with
Or
The fact dudes really be in them commenting seriously
This why I believe the majority of posters on here have mental issues
. No shade neither.
why are you single cheeky if you don't mind me asking? that's not a condescending question. I'm just curiousYou're welcome.And yes I do self reflect, I do know that I'm not like this and I have had good male friends tell me they wish I were more bitter and jaded (for my own protection). I'm not. Sorry you attract that type of person to your life.
Blk women got that self-esteem issue I was ranting and raving about in an earlier long ass post. Blks dating for validation, not love.
So they overlook the average dudes b/c these dudes aren't good enuff to help them get revenge on the homecoming king that didn't want them in grade school.
Or some have been raised in desperate situations where they can't simply enjoy being with a man. Instead there is a HUGE impetuous to interpret male attention as a path out of poverty or a life of struggle. To those ends they looking for hyper-providers.
We got so much healing to do.
Notice how I stated "seriously comment"?But you took time out of your finite life to click the thread, read pages of comments, and then make a comment yourself. And not only do you frequent the site but give your hard earned money to it as well. All for what you think are a group of mental cases. Looking real funny in the light my guy
Of course I frequent this site and support it
shyt don't have anything to do with yall dudes who post the same fake sermons about the same dumb shyt
The fact u think u dropping science on me proves my fukking point
And the fact u as a man use the term "shade" like a fakkit or female would says most
thewarrior05
All Star
Bookrain is the E-Coli Oprah...... Hopefully we find wome like yourself but also develop ours as fitting men before we ask for a situation like thatBlk women got that self-esteem issue I was ranting and raving about in an earlier long ass post. Blks dating for validation, not love.
So they overlook the average dudes b/c these dudes aren't good enuff to help them get revenge on the homecoming king that didn't want them in grade school.
Or some have been raised in desperate situations where they can't simply enjoy being with a man. Instead there is a HUGE impetuous to interpret male attention as a path out of poverty or a life of struggle. To those ends they looking for hyper-providers.
We got so much healing to do.
shyt ... I'm 33 and just got out of a 8 year relationship. Before that I was in a 8 year one. So this is literally my first time in almost 20 years being a single man. Yes, I've been out here whoring. That's a given. I've also met some chicks that I could see myself being with. Just bad timing tho. Literally rebuilding myself from scratch. Why wife a chick and I'm not even whole yet???
I will say this tho... the little bit of dating I've done .. the game is messy. All these apps and illusions of having so many options. God bless us all lmao.
Just focus on yourself and don't even worry about a family lol.. just work on yourself and let shyt happen naturally
I will say this tho... the little bit of dating I've done .. the game is messy. All these apps and illusions of having so many options. God bless us all lmao.
Just focus on yourself and don't even worry about a family lol.. just work on yourself and let shyt happen naturally
no problem cheeky, u have a good day : )
ColdCutKing
Pro
Yeah I don't think people were ready to have access to lifestyles and how people are living beyond their immediate environment and has really messed up how people value each other as relationship prospects. Men and Women. You got nikkas like X who think he going to get Ashanti and women thinking they going to get Idris when really they need to line they standards up with something more realistic.
People eliminating folks in they same situation. No broke boyz but girls be broke themselves. No cellulite no stretch marks but dudes be fat themselves.
Its messy people want everything for nothing.
Glad I locked a good one down early cuz its crazy out here some of my boys struggling because they kept holding out for something better and now they starting to feel the pressure and they getting more
by the day.
MalikX
Superstar
I'll date white women for the rest of my life before I date even one black single mother
MalikX
Superstar
That's the problem....obviously....has nothing to do with options or not having your shyt together. Big cities attract career oriented people, especially cities with a large professional class like NYC, SF, DC, LA, Chicago, etc. Which means having alot of women who don't have kids or families yet. In small towns every chick above 24 has kids, some even younger. You said you're a DMV nikka right? Well in DC, you can find hundreds of thousands of chicks with no kids. Go up to Baltimore and its a different story because its a hole in the wall city. Go to the little towns in Maryland and its the same thing. Location plays a part.