"Most men don't have $1,000 left after paying all of their bills. 100k aint shyt"- Me explaining to my homegirls who say all their dates are BROKE.

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One thing I've learned dealing and interacting with women is a lot of them truly don't have a grasp or understand the concept of money management. Some of the baddest women with decent jobs are literally check to check or drowning in debt trying to front or live a certain lifestyle and are out and about every weekend just giving and having fun. I'm not going to knock it do your thing. But it's crazy to expect a potential mate to come in and just find that lifestyle while still maintaining his especially If y'all aren't married or in a long term committed relationship. I've bushed chics that hit me up for light bill money and they literally just came off a trip..... :mjtf: . But I also got called broke by a few as well too since I choose not to spend my money the way they think I should. Brehs should just ignore chics that move like this off first contact. Don't even entertain the foolishness. It's the only way things will start correcting themselves.
facts. SOme spend their lives spending men's money. some of those same women don't mind mild prostitution to earn extra money so they feel men should also have money from other sources to pad their finances (hence why some feel it's okay to work a 9-5 and trap on the side) birds will be birds. solid women will be that and be frugal and expect the same from you so you can build. anything less isn't worth engaging with. let the social media addicted try to live that shyt out without you, you'll be happier for it in the long-run.
 

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Bingo… these big homes a lot of white people live in was passed down and also through big life insurance policies

I know white people who make 50k a year living in a passed down 5 bedroom home but a lot of black people minds be thinking they going out getting these homes on they own


I think these reality show and social media has really confused our women and us. They all want this power couple relationship, with a lot of exotic traveling, expensive dining and high-end cars and fashion, That's just not possible for 99% of us.
 

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Average salary for a black man is 42k a year… white man 52k a year

Where do these women especially black women think everyone is making 80k above a year

And black women themselves …. overall only 25% make over 75k year and majority makes 50k or less.. look at the stats



This modern generation minds are not on reality

They add credit cards to their yearly salary cuz they don't worry about paying them off until to the bills come..

So if a female tells you she make 60k a year, she thought she made 75k because of the 15k credit limit she maxed out
 

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Lopsided in whose favor? 5% of BM make 100K or more compared to 3% of BW. Unfortunately, a lot of BW aren’t attracted to the majority of those men for various reasons until they hit that wall, friend.

The smart ones get them a good man early on with potential.

Most end up the single washed up lonely auntie with a cat at the end. It's a marathon brehettes.

A lot of women claim that they settle, but it works both ways too....but that's another thread :whistle:


Regular dudes win all the time.
 

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if you spend all your time complaining about women you aint got it like that.

two options for men that are winning...
...live the GMB lifestyle with a smile
...date like youre on The Bachelor and pick the woman/women you want to be with

once a woman recognizes you are a solid dude they will do everything in their power to stay in your circle

if youre not getting that reaction from them you need to upgrade yourself
 

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Some women you can't reason with....i was talking to this girl who wanted me to pay for everything....home, bills and car...no problem....but once i asked "Can you cook"? she started babbling and arguing.

All the good ones have been snatched up by 23......these leftovers either get the wake up call or die with their tinder profile still up saying "NO BROKE MEN" as their legacy:yeshrug:
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Wife is mad cheap/frugal so :blessed:

And once she retires...I'm out too. :pachaha:

Over the weekend, we reviewed our finances for retirement and uhhh.....looking at the shares of company stock she's gotten over the years (Works for a health insurance company) and her current 401k savings (not even mine)..
















































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She got like 4x the amount of I have....and i don't even have a shabby amount myself :damn:


Social Security will be like play money :banderas:

Tell her to put some racks on my books, kinfolk :feedme:
 

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Average salary for a black man is 42k a year… white man 52k a year

Where do these women especially black women think everyone is making 80k above a year

And black women themselves …. overall only 25% make over 75k year and majority makes 50k or less.. look at the stats



This modern generation minds are not on reality

Tv and social media.
 

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facts. SOme spend their lives spending men's money. some of those same women don't mind mild prostitution to earn extra money so they feel men should also have money from other sources to pad their finances (hence why some feel it's okay to work a 9-5 and trap on the side) birds will be birds. solid women will be that and be frugal and expect the same from you so you can build. anything less isn't worth engaging with. let the social media addicted try to live that shyt out without you, you'll be happier for it in the long-run.
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if you spend all your time complaining about women you aint got it like that.

two options for men that are winning...
...live the GMB lifestyle with a smile
...date like youre on The Bachelor and pick the woman/women you want to be with

once a woman recognizes you are a solid dude they will do everything in their power to stay in your circle

if youre not getting that reaction from them you need to upgrade yourself

Its this simple.. The problem is a lot of men over look solid women, to go after women their boyz would approve of. Usually women who don't want to be kept anyway.
 

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Average salary for a black man is 42k a year… white man 52k a year

Where do these women especially black women think everyone is making 80k above a year

And black women themselves …. overall only 25% make over 75k year and majority makes 50k or less.. look at the stats



This modern generation minds are not on reality
Metropolitan areas where populations are actually anchored
 
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