facts. SOme spend their lives spending men's money. some of those same women don't mind mild prostitution to earn extra money so they feel men should also have money from other sources to pad their finances (hence why some feel it's okay to work a 9-5 and trap on the side) birds will be birds. solid women will be that and be frugal and expect the same from you so you can build. anything less isn't worth engaging with. let the social media addicted try to live that shyt out without you, you'll be happier for it in the long-run.One thing I've learned dealing and interacting with women is a lot of them truly don't have a grasp or understand the concept of money management. Some of the baddest women with decent jobs are literally check to check or drowning in debt trying to front or live a certain lifestyle and are out and about every weekend just giving and having fun. I'm not going to knock it do your thing. But it's crazy to expect a potential mate to come in and just find that lifestyle while still maintaining his especially If y'all aren't married or in a long term committed relationship. I've bushed chics that hit me up for light bill money and they literally just came off a trip...... But I also got called broke by a few as well too since I choose not to spend my money the way they think I should. Brehs should just ignore chics that move like this off first contact. Don't even entertain the foolishness. It's the only way things will start correcting themselves.