Most Single People over 30 are Sad, Broken, Broke and Lonely, but we put up a good front.

[ROFL_GUY]

Interact with people with no goal except learning about who they are..

You will be amazed how people will Open up to you if they feel your not "after something"

Ask questions don't be prying but take interest who they are.. enjoy each other company. You don't need to spend $$ and prove who your trying to be . . Big red flag

I'm a millionaire on paper!

 

[Deltron]

@Stuntone why do you make so many depressing threads?

he's depressed and seeks attention.

 

[Gloxina]

You can look at a title alone and know it’s from stuntone

I feel like the tone of this OP/thread is showcasing some progress, though.



Almost there

 

[Shadow King]

If you are above thirty and single, you should not be broke. Everything else you said maybe. Broke though?

It's not this simple...

 

[trillanova]

Nah. Relationships are stressful as fukk. Staying single is the easiest way to maintain peace. If you fukk up then it’s on you and living with that is much easier than walking on a tightrope.

As for the other things, Financial struggles and whatnot affect everyone. I think I had alot of good times in relationships but it’s the one thing I wish I could take back. I wish I would’ve got out of some relationships way earlier and focused on me.

Marriage would be cool if most of them didn’t end in shambles.

 

[ROFL_GUY]

Nah. Relationships are stressful as fukk. Staying single is the easiest way to maintain peace. If you fukk up then it’s on you and living with that is much easier than walking on a tightrope.

As for the other things, Financial struggles and whatnot affect everyone. I think I had alot of good times in relationships but it’s the one thing I wish I could take back. I wish I would’ve got out of some relationships way earlier and focused on me.

Marriage would be cool if most of them didn’t end in shambles.

Most who resent their relationships is their tied financially to that person/relationship. Feel trapped

 

[trillanova]

Most who resent their relationships is their tied financially to that person/relationship. Feel trapped

With me that wasn’t the issue. Eventually it just becomes way more than what you bargained for as most people do not reveal what’s really going on with them. You find out as time goes on that you’re with someone very different.

I definitely wasn’t perfect but too many times it just ended up being stressful. I’m like why am I trying to hold on to a person when if I let it go all the drama goes with it. I’m not about to tell you how much more peaceful my life is without having to deal with another person but it is. Loneliness is a problem for people who don’t know how to be by themselves. I already know I’m not entertaining a relationship for another 2 years minimum. They sap your energy and 9 times out of 10 waste your time when all is said and done.

 

[ROFL_GUY]

With me that wasn’t the issue. Eventually it just becomes way more than what you bargained for as most people do not reveal what’s really going on with them. You find out as time goes on that you’re with someone very different.

I definitely wasn’t perfect but too many times it just ended up being stressful. I’m like why am I trying to hold on to a person when if I let it go all the drama goes with it. I’m not about to tell you how much more peaceful my life is without having to deal with another person but it is. Loneliness is a problem for people who don’t know how to be by themselves. I already know I’m not entertaining a relationship for another 2 years minimum. They sap your energy and 9 times out of 10 waste your time when all is said and done.

I'm very comfortable alone.. but I have relationships still like my own space @ anytime I want..

Most are conditioned to have to be with someone anyone. All the time.. they can't be left in their own thoughts .