Playing devils advocate here. Maybe her and her husband decided that she would give up work and stay at home take care of the kids etc. if that is the case then maybe he should consider paying some of the loan since he took the responsibility of the breadwinner.

If he told her not to work, she would have mentioned it. Don't know what it will take for men to break out of the habit of bending over backwards to rationalise selfishness from women.




