For some reason, it seems that if the non-Black parent was not White, there seems to be less issues with adopting/balancing a Black identity than if a parent was White. Just anecdotally knowing a lot of mixed people in college, while most mixed people period identified with Black folks (this was the 90s though), the ones mixed with Asian or Indian seemed to be cool with Black folks at nearly 100% even though they embraced both sides of their culture many times. I have seen that later if life too
. I have no explanations besides maybe the fact there are less illusions about calling yourself Chinese, Korean, or Tamil given the insularity of those cultures and knowing up front neither parent is White so there are no illusions about claiming that.
I'm sorry breh