*new vid* My Cold Approach Game Is Improving

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Been avoiding saying this Breh...

Maybe you need to work on your physical appearance and body language.

Even if you are dumb as a box of rocks, a cougar will throw you some buns.

:francis:

How is nobody saying op needs to change up the venue? The grocery store is hard as fukk. Does handsomegang even get numbers at the grocery?


@Pdiddy you ain't got no bars, beaches, singles events near you?
 

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Bro im on the frontline everytime. lol yall guys gotta post a video and show me how its done

:dwillhuh:

The title of the thread is “my post game is improving” meaning you want to CONTINUE to show us what you’ve USED (from thecoli) to improve approaching women. I personally think you’re getting better. Just like you accept rejection from women, you gotta accept constructive criticism as well. Especially since you’re asking for it.

Nobody is buying glasses just to approach women.
 
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How is nobody saying op needs to change up the venue? The grocery store is hard as fukk. Does handsomegang even get numbers at the grocery?


@Pdiddy you ain't got no bars, beaches, singles events near you?

Said it to him in one of his other threads. A supermarket is where someone is in their own little world they don't want some guy stepping to them unless they've shown clear choosing signals. Even more during covid where you can't see someone's mouth it makes it slighty more weirder.

A bar, a beach, an event where women haven't gotten their guard up. Heck a coffee or bookshop.

Places where conversation would be more welcome.
 

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Halloween weekend will be epic:ufdup:,,,this is just practice.

Rule #1:

1. Grocery Stores are always bad places unless you work there. Women are in and out and unless you are 100% her type, you gonna get rejected.
2. You weren't lame which is good. While she wasn't comfortable, she wasn't scared for her life and trying to run from you. That said,
3. You come off like a simp and give simp energy. Not attractive. No need to be talking about cooking dinner for her. You would do better making sexual innuendos than that and NO, don't make sexual innuendos. Your mouthpiece isn't crisp enough to get away with it.

Three things, make sure your appearance is sharp. She jocked you and didn't like what she saw from my what I see. Nothing you said was gonna get her.
If this is practice, I don't mind but if she moves away from you and leaves your space, the conversation is doa. That said, sometimes you gotta do uncomfortable shyt to get better at it to know what works and what doesn't. Asking about a barber is what I call an ender. You want to focus on what you want. Once you complimented her appearance, you go for what you want. Pointless chatter is just that.

Nothing you said would have worked from what I saw. She wasn't feeling you but that said, it never hurts to try at the beginning. I just don't think grocery stores are pick-up zones. Never have been unless it's big ass Wegmans.


Women and Men rate each other on DESIRABILITY. It's critical. How well you rate here overall will determine your level with the opposite sex. That said, game and everything aren't included with that.
 

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1. Attractive women are always scanning (subconsciously as well) for situations to avoid unwanted attention. They probably saw you before you saw them. Your energy is real and they can pick up on what you're doing once you speak to them.

2. You got to be naturally funny Breh. Either you have it or you don't. Humor is the equalizer, to get you in her head. If you make her laugh...that's a good sign.
Some women are sexually stimulated by humor and intellect. Again...either you have it or you don't.

3. I understand you're working on your craft...but Stop giving old ass ladies and bottom barrel women your attention. They probably feel creeped out because they are not used to that attention and they might feel cheap or ridiculed and throw your confidence off. Just be friendly with them and let them make the first move. You'll just have to bait.

You're hand fishing and getting your whole sleeve wet...

Just back up. Toss that reel and relax. Entice and bait em and have fun with the process. I can sense the stress in your voice Breh.

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1. Facts. Women in general, not just attractive ones.

2. Comfort comes with experience. That just takes practice and proper training. I can teach a nikka that shyt.

3. He gets the truth from them. I would rather you start here to see what we need to work on and from what I see, it's a lot.

Even his voice doesn't ring confidence, that said, confidence comes with success which once again can be worked on.

@Pdiddy here's my advice to you.

I want you to write all of the quality both good and bad you got to me but short. like 5 points on both sides. Then I want you to post styles you think are fly. I then want to know your profession, your thought process, and what do you really want from a woman? Sex, a relationship, a wife, etc?

This shyt is easy breh but it's hard when you don't know what you are doing
 

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How is nobody saying op needs to change up the venue? The grocery store is hard as fukk. Does handsomegang even get numbers at the grocery?


@Pdiddy you ain't got no bars, beaches, singles events near you?
I think he’s waiting for a certain number of subscribers first
 

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Op u need to move to atl or Houston or something like that

If im going to get shot down I rather it be by good looking women :mjlol:

Anyway this was better. I thought shorty in the sweater was going to give you the number. She seemed engaged in the convo. Maybe it was because you didn't really ask about anything other than cooking that might be too personal for a stranger.. somehow transition off that onto going out and getting to know each other and throw a few jokes in there(but don't be goofy) but who knows...:yeshrug: keep shooting your shot and trying different things something will stick
 
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Op u need to move to atl or Houston or something like that

If im going to get shot down I rather it be by good looking women :mjlol:

Anyway this was better. I thought shorty in the sweater was going to give you the number. She seemed engaged in the convo. Maybe it was because you didn't really ask about anything other than cooking but who knows...:yeshrug: keep shooting your shot
If he moves to ATL he’d needa verify that they are indeed women :dame:hit a music festival OP, I wanna see ya get at hella baddies. You like the Thanos of cold approach, the more hoes you approach the stronger you get
 
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