"nice guys aren't really nice" is a Cop out women use

[Godless Socialist CEO]

And you don't think his "L's" have anything to do with maintaining long term relationships being inherently more difficult and requiring more factors than just having sex with whoever and moving on?

I mean flip the argument. Many women are legitimately looking for a relationship and are probably also constantly taking L's. What does that say about men and what they like? Or does it suddenly not say anything about the opposite sex at all, and instead is about who that woman in choosing?

I swear, some of you are so biased against any and every perspective besides your own you should be studied.

Biased against any perspective except my own? I gave an example of why I believe women don't like nice men. I've seen it over and over again and where good guys, with great communication skills, great intellectual skills, and good looks get the L because when it comes down to it they're just really really good guys. I'm not saying you're wrong, but Christ some of you get so fukking defensive. You accuse me of being biased yet you're attacking my opinion and claiming "I'm biased against any opinion but my own" when I literally posted one example about my own experiences.

How can you go in attack mode when I never attacked your opinion or anyone elses in the first place?

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

Nice guys get computers puting

I'm a nice guy

*dodges tomatoes*

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

It's because women are boring as fukk and the only way they can entertain themselves is by talkin shyt about us. I can sit around and talk about any number of topics and women don't even have to be brought up. All women can do is talk about men.

This isn't true at all.... I seek women who can discuss a wide variety of subjects. I test them by seeing how they feel about certain world events, and testing their world views. If they can't answer any of those questions they'll at the most get some dikk and then . I like looks, but that aint at the top of my list of what I care about most. I'll take an intellectual cute female any day of the week over a bombshell who cares more about the Kardashian's than she does who the next president is. Intellectual women are out there, you just got to know where to look for em.

 

[HoloGraphic]

My nikka, gentleman wear gloves specifically to slap each other in the face to have pistol duels before noontime tea. This the savage life.

 

[FlyRy]

It's a bunch of "physically attractive" guys who're are plagued by those issues, also.They get p*ssy by accident(because they're attractive to females), but they can't keep a chick around more than 30 days.

But I guess that's a better problem to have than the "non attractive" nice guy.


One of my boys is like that.NH, but first glance, you'd probably go "I bet that nikka's getting MAJOR p*ssy".....then you get to know him and you realize his self esteem is

a lot of truth in this post.. i'm a good lookin dude but went through a lack of confidence stage for a while. i would get with good lookin women but i wanted a relationship and they would lose interest very fast.

once i got past that and got my confidence up and just treated em as a piece of a55 the floodgates opened.

and now 4 years later im about to get married. (#getmarriedbrehs)

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

Ignorant horseshyt. If someone came in here yappin' about how black men hate education and love crime, and based it off some set of personal anecdotal experience that fool would be swimming in red, but for a lot of ya you dont mind painting a whole group as being mentally, emotionally, and intellectually inferior, and use demeaning and offensive stereotypes to accomplish it.

Think rationally. Humans regress to the mean...the bulk of our population desire a nice life, good spouse, blah blah, so when women talk about wanting a "nice guy", they dont mean they want to sacrifice having a partner they are attracted to, has a good personality, compliments them emotionally, etc. Nice is part of the equation.

Im sure you want a nice girl, right? But that doesnt mean you want that nice girl to look like shyt, have the personality of a pine cone, doesnt fit with you emotionally....so until then you sleep and have casual flings with women whom you're attracted to but arent interested in long term until you meet someone special.

Once you remove your biases when talking about others, things become a lot clearer..

"Ignorant Horseshyt" eh.... Then you proceed into some ridiculous comparison to attempt to further your own argument. NEWSFLASH I WASN'T ATTACKING WHAT YOU BELIEVE ABOUT WOMEN, NOR AM I JUDGING WOMEN FOR THEIR CHOICE IN MEN. My experiences over the course of my time on this planet is that women don't really want a guy who's overly nice. That's my opinion because that's what I've consistently experienced and seen. The fact that this isn't a belief that applies to just a select few means MANY men(a$$holes and nice guys) have experienced this as well. Hell there are women that will straight up admit to it if you press them on it.

Also you pretending to know what I want from women at the very end of this was a nice touch. You have no idea who I am or what I want. Most would say I'm pretty different from your typical person who wants a white picket fence, two kids and a wife. My casual flings come from a desire to have sex, I don't care about or even know what my "nice girl" would be. Those are not things I'm concerned with. I have no biases because I don't give a shyt about who women are with. There's no judgement on my end they can do whatever they want because in the end none of it effects me .

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

you just got to know where to look for em.

I know where to find them but don't let their "education" fool you. She can be intelligent and still not have shyt to say. I saw this all through college

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Women who pretend to be wifey material to get married, and switch up when they get married, aren't really wifey material

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

Just dont understand the. Logic of some of ya

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Then they come out looking extra creep when they show out acting like ol girl owes them sex.

This is it. U cant passive aggressive/guilt your way into the p*ssy. If all u bring to the table is a "good personality" u dont deserve p*ssy. U dont deserve anything.

 

[12345A]

Dude, nice guys are actually nice. They're just frustrated, and most nice guys don't try to mask their true intentions, at least I haven't heard of anything like that personally besides these hypothetical situations you've all made up in your head for whatever reason and have decided to share with us. Good gentlemen do approach women and they make their intentions VERY clear, it's just that when a woman rejects him and goes for a guy who's good for nothing and has nothing they do tend to get a bit frustrated, not from it happening once, but the fact that it happens constantly. It's a re-occurring thing, it happens over and over. And yes some men do use the internet for an outlet to vent their frustrations, but it's natural. I honestly, think that it's wrong for women to try and point the finger back at men for their choices.

 

[12345A]

This is it. U cant passive aggressive/guilt your way into the p*ssy. If all u bring to the table is a "good personality" u dont deserve p*ssy. U dont deserve anything.

I love how you say "don't deserve p*ssy" as if it's financial compensation. You're obviously the type of man to jump through hoops for a chance to get his tiny widdle dikk wet.

 

[12345A]

A nice guy wouldnt say he's nice, because that's not something a nice guy would do.

What would a nice guy lie and say he's an ass hole? That would make him a liar.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I love how you say "don't deserve p*ssy" as if it's financial compensation. You're obviously the type of man to jump through hoops for a chance to get his tiny widdle dikk wet.

Not at all. If the attraction isnt there u cant guilt ur way around it. Its no different w/dudes. If u dont want to fukk a chick it doesnt matter what she does for u. How would she sound if she said 'i have been nice to u, i deserve the dikk now'

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

What would a nice guy lie and say he's an ass hole? That would make him a liar.

Because he thinks thats what women want. Just like the OP