"nice guys aren't really nice" is a Cop out women use

[Remote]

I have trust me, on more than one occasion. But you are right, even if its something as little as the act putting a smile on my face i still got sort of a momentary pleasure out of it. Its hard out chea for a people pleaser tho. My ex was one of these guys he fooled everyone including me to the point that when i found out his true character no one believed me and thought i was crazy. It is so hard to trust that some peoples niceness are genuine. So many people are users and abusers, looking out for only theirselves. I could never respect someone like that.
Shout out to all the genuinely good people out there.

Yeah but you know what gets me? It's that people will always want to assume the worst and then claim THAT is the truth.

A guy could do 10,000 nice acts and the second he does one dikk-ish move...women will point and go "See! I knew you were an a$$hole"

It's like, bytch...all the other acts were a lie? GTFO

The shyt doesn't work in reverse. A guy can't be a douchebag 10,000 times, do 1 nice thing and have people be like "See, I knew he was a sweetheart"...now can he?

Pardon my tone....but I'm just trying to make a point.

And for the record, I think it's great that you do things out of the kindness of your heart.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Nice guys don't realize that's not what turns women on.Women don't want to feel their better or even equal to you they want to be controlled and dominated

A women will lose attraction to you the minute she has to make a decision in the relationship instead of you

you nikkas are hella dramatic.

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

you nikkas are hella dramatic.

Ur a masculine female

 

[Ashley Banks]

Yeah but you know what gets me? It's that people will always want to assume the worst and then claim THAT is the truth.

A guy could do 10,000 nice acts and the second he does one dikk-ish move...women will point and go "See! I knew you were an a$$hole"

It's like, bytch...all the other acts were a lie? GTFO

The shyt doesn't work in reverse. A guy can't be a douchebag 10,000 times, do 1 nice thing and have people be like "See, I knew he was a sweetheart"...now can he?

Pardon my tone....but I'm just trying to make a point.

And for the record, I think it's great that you do things out of the kindness of your heart.

lets not act like dudes don't do the same.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Ur a masculine female

go away

 

[Remote]

lets not act like dudes don't do the same.

Fair enough

 

[The ADD]

If you caught fishes in the river by using A As ur bait

But never caught fishes in the river by using B as ur bait

What are u gonna keep using when u go to the river

Shallow existence but whatever.

 

[Jen The Prude]

That whole "nice guys aren't really nice" argument is just a cop out for talking to the thugs, bums, and a$$holes of the world. ur in ur late 20s and 30s here, you can do what you want fukk who u want you only make yourself look stupid trying to justify YOUR bullshyt.

Um, nah. 'Nice' guys who are low key emotionally manipulative and entitled a$$holes definitely exist.

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

Shallow existence but whatever.

Am.i right or wrong

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Treat hoes like the hoes that they are

 

[The ADD]

Am.i right or wrong

By the letter right

More importantly what does it say that people would be something other than themselves in a relationship.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Yeah but you know what gets me? It's that people will always want to assume the worst and then claim THAT is the truth.

A guy could do 10,000 nice acts and the second he does one dikk-ish move...women will point and go "See! I knew you were an a$$hole"

It's like, bytch...all the other acts were a lie? GTFO

The shyt doesn't work in reverse. A guy can't be a douchebag 10,000 times, do 1 nice thing and have people be like "See, I knew he was a sweetheart"...now can he?

Pardon my tone....but I'm just trying to make a point.

And for the record, I think it's great that you do things out of the kindness of your heart.

I get you. I feel the same way. Its why i believe in second chances. The only thing is that one fukked up thing they did could be the worse thing ever. Or it might be the only fukked up act you caught them doing. Anyways an a$$hole gonna show his ass eventually. Its only so long fake ones can pretend. Lol youd' be surprised, thats what keeps some of these women with these douche bags sometimes. They look pass all the messed things the guy did and act like they only see the good. So the guy cheats, beats her ass but its okay cause he bought her flowers or some crap like that. Some women (including me in the pass) can be very delusional when it comes to the man they claim to love. They dont have that saying "love is blind" for nothing.


Thanks, i have days where i wish i was a straight up bytch, but alas thats just nit me. I have my moments tho. Its why i love the internet lol, i dont have to be so nice

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Women don't like nice men. I have a buddy who's a legitimately good dude who just wants a relationship. He meets these women and puts in time getting to know them. He doesn't want sex he actually wants a relationship... Yet he's constantly taking L's....

I on the other hand am an a$$hole who has no interest in dating and I do just fine for myself. I don't even put effort in majority of the time and things tend to go in my favor. Women love to bytch to nice guys and claim there are no good men... The problem is they hate good men because they'd rather have the excitement factor than a good dude who treats them well

It's because women are boring as fukk and the only way they can entertain themselves is by talkin shyt about us. I can sit around and talk about any number of topics and women don't even have to be brought up. All women can do is talk about men.

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

By the letter right

More importantly what does it say that people would be something other than themselves in a relationship.

Doesnt say a whole lot

Guys are gonna do whatever is successful In the field of dating

If its being a a$$hole then its being a a$$hole

If its being nice then its being nice

Men dont mk the rules in dating

Women do .

 

[Jen The Prude]

Women associate niceness with dishonesty

Interesting point.


A little side note: In my experience, people who are nice have no choice but to be nice because they have little else to offer in terms of intelligence, etc.