"nice guys aren't really nice" is a Cop out women use

[12345A]

Not at all. If the attraction isnt there u cant guilt ur way around it. Its no different w/dudes. If u dont want to fukk a chick it doesnt matter what she does for u. How would she sound if she said 'i have been nice to u, i deserve the dikk now'

Okay so she has the right to chose who she fukks as long as he consents I get that, but what's this shyt about deserving? Just cause a dude doesn't measure up to a woman's standards he doesn't "deserve" p*ssy, or her p*ssy at least? fukk that shyt, yeah I agree she should be able to chose who she fukks as long as the dude wants to fukk her as well but honestly it doesn't make her p*ssy anymore valuble just cause she thinks you're too ugly to smash.

 

[12345A]

Because he thinks thats what women want. Just like the OP

don't try and play the shame game slander bs with the op he's just speaking his mind, and at times it's true, not for all women, but if you notice women are very combatant and they don't like hearing the truth about themselves or taking accountability for their actions, again not all but there is a large demographic of women who fit the description especially in the u.s.

 

[12345A]

Nice guys get computers puting

I'm a nice guy

*dodges tomatoes*

there's nothing wrong with giving an honest description of yourself especially if you're online attempting to explain your situation to others

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

don't try and play the shame game slander bs with the op he's just speaking his mine, and at times it's true, not for all women, but if you notice women are very combatant and they don't like hearing the truth about themselves or taking accountability for their actions, again not all but there is a large demographic of women who fit the description especially in the u.s.

U could change the word "women" to "men" and be equally correct. Your respond-to-every-post-wild eyed defense here and this whole fukking forum is an avalanche of proof of that. Fake ass nice guys are so corny, people can see them coming for miles. It reeks of fear and desperation.... two great ways to turn a woman on

But keep crying about how women are the problem lol. How dare they not fukk dudes they aren't attracted to.

 

[Blackout]

Um, that's the whole point of this "Nice Guy" shyt

http://gawker.com/5969878/nice-guys-of-ok-cupid-are-not-really

So basically they do all of this detective work with pics and charts to show why these fake nice guys are not good boyfriends?

Why don't they do this to a$$holes.

 

[PartyHeart]

I didn't even post in that thread. I saw a troll comment and took action. Note yours is the only opposition comment deleted. You're the problem. Post better. This is a learning opportunity.

Mine is the only one that was deleted because you have an agenda against me and have for some time. Anyone can glance on the first pages of that thread and see a plethora of actual troll comments--not opinions that you just don't like/agree with, but actual troll comments--and all of them managed to not be immediately deleted and are still there. Yet my response, a question to a poster who had already responded to me and would probably say himself wasn't a troll post, was worth you interfering and outright deleting? Amongst all the obvious troll threads that not only manage to not be deleted or moved but even featured and it was my comment that made you take action? You're a fraud.

How about this: you say EXACTLY what the post is that you deleted of mine said, and we'll let @Brooklynzson sort it out. I'm actually appalled at your cowardice. And its really sad you have taken to use your mod privileges to display it.

 

[12345A]

U could change the word "women" to "men" and be equally correct. Your respond-to-every-post-wild eyed defense here and this whole fukking forum is an avalanche of proof of that. Fake ass nice guys are so corny, people can see them coming for miles. It reeks of fear and desperation.... two great ways to turn a woman on

But keep crying about how women are the problem lol. How dare they not fukk dudes they aren't attracted to.

I never said women were a problem, I just said they blame good gentlemen for their choices when they see good gentlemen coming online and venting their frustrations, and it's simply because they don't want to take responsibility or feel at fault in any way.

Lets be honest here, it's a stupid choice to date a guy who isn't worth shyt. I'm not trying to bash any women by saying this, but it just is I'm simply being honest. If a guy comes online and vents on youtube, bodybuilder . com or where ever the fukk he decides to vent, why does it need a response from women, or "badboys" for that matter? Unless she feels defensive because she knows that most of what's said about her is true?

 

[12345A]

That's because you have an agenda against me. Anyone can glance on the first pages of that thread and see a plethora of actual troll comments--not opinions that you don't like, actual troll comments--and all of them managed to not be immediately deleted and are still there. Yet my response, a question to a poster who had responded to me and would probably say himself wasn't a troll post, was worth you interfering? You're a fraud.

How about this: you say EXACTLY what the post is that you deleted of mine said, and we'll let @cook (not sure if its him or someone else who has administrator privileges on here) sort it out. I'm actually appalled at your cowardice. And its really sad you have taken to use your mod privileges to display it.

You need to stop leaving troll posts, then maybe you won't get your posts deleted.

 

[12345A]

Mine is the only one that was deleted because you have an agenda against me and have for some time. Anyone can glance on the first pages of that thread and see a plethora of actual troll comments--not opinions that you just don't like/agree with, but actual troll comments--and all of them managed to not be immediately deleted and are still there. Yet my response, a question to a poster who had already responded to me and would probably say himself wasn't a troll post, was worth you interfering and outright deleting? Amongst all the obvious troll threads that not only manage to not be deleted or moved but even featured and it was my comment that made you take action? You're a fraud.

How about this: you say EXACTLY what the post is that you deleted of mine said, and we'll let @cook (not sure if its him or someone else who has administrator privileges on here) sort it out. I'm actually appalled at your cowardice. And its really sad you have taken to use your mod privileges to display it.

It's not good to talk shyt to the moderators. You need to learn to show respect or you probably won't remain here for very long.

 

[How Sway?]

It's a bunch of "physically attractive" guys who're are plagued by those issues, also.They get p*ssy by accident(because they're attractive to females), but they can't keep a chick around more than 30 days.

But I guess that's a better problem to have than the "non attractive" nice guy.


One of my boys is like that.NH, but first glance, you'd probably go "I bet that nikka's getting MAJOR p*ssy".....then you get to know him and you realize his self esteem is


In my boys case, his moms fukked him up.She's a dark skinned/pro black/afrocentric chick, but his mom somehow had a baby with a white man and produced him.I think back in the day she was in the "fast lane"

But anyways....He told me he always felt like his mom resented him for being light skinned.He said his mom would look at him like and tell him he looked like a Mexican....He has a brother, but his brother is Tyrese dark.He told me his mom and his uncles used to tell him his brother was going to take all his girls because he was too "soft" and "pretty".


Normally it's the other way around in black families(the dysfunctional black families).The put the light skinned people on a pedestal and diss the dark skinned ones.

My boy got caught up in the reverse.Being a light skinned nikka in a extremely afrocentric/pro black family

lol its always those so-called 'problack' natural hair wearing afro centric women who somehow get knocked up by a cac.

I like the Afrocentric look (ie Erykah badu ) but some of them just come off like they're trying to overcompensate for some psychological civil-warfare brewing deep in their subconscious.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I never said women were a problem, I just said they blame good gentlemen for their choices when they see good gentlemen coming online and venting their frustrations, and it's simply because they don't want to take responsibility or feel at fault in any way.

Lets be honest here, it's a stupid choice to date a guy who isn't worth shyt. I'm not trying to bash any women by saying this, but it just is I'm simply being honest. If a guy comes online and vents on youtube, bodybuilder . com or where ever the fukk he decides to vent, why does it need a response from women, or "badboys" for that matter? Unless she feels defensive because she knows that most of what's said about her is true?

What are you talkin about

So let me guess, a "good gentleman" is "worth shyt" and thus women are obligated to cooperate with their requests?

I would bet you are not so forgiving with women who are fat/unattractive. If they were to complain about men not giving them what they want you would say they need to lose weight. Well "good gentlemen" who cry on Misc about women not wanting them are the unattractive women of the male species. They need to stop crying and get a personality or stop trying to date outside of their league.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

I know where to find them but don't let their "education" fool you. She can be intelligent and still not have shyt to say. I saw this all through college

Trust me, I know education has nothing to do with intelligence. I've met plenty of dumb women in college too.

 

[12345A]

What are you talkin about

So let me guess, a "good gentleman" is "worth shyt" and thus women are obligated to cooperate with their requests?

I would bet you are not so forgiving with women who are fat/unattractive. If they were to complain about men not giving them what they want you would say they need to lose weight. Well "good gentlemen" who cry on Misc about women not wanting them are the unattractive women of the male species. They need to stop crying and get a personality or stop trying to date outside of their league.

Never said that women are obligated to date good gentlemen. They make their own decisions and they live with them, not me you or anyone else. I'm simply referring to their inability to take responsibility for their decisions, and their juvenile cowardly habit of pointing the finger at others, when A) They hear the truth about themselves or B) Things don't go their way. In the later scenario(B)) I'd pose the example of a single mother with multiple kids by different men, the same woman who you will see online and post her vents claiming "All men ain't shyt" or "black men ain't shyt"(Cause that's usually what they say) when it's so not true. It's not that all men are bad and certainty not all black men, it's just the ones she CHOSE. As I've stated before they are free to chose whoever they want. If they want a guy who doesn't have much going for himself and isn't good to a woman that's her choice; however, if a rejected man does decide to share his experiences of pursuing women and being rejected, only to find out those women are interested in a man of lessor income, maturity and emotional conscience, they shouldn't feel the need to attack him simply for venting. As long as his vents are honest and sincerer. I'm well aware that there's a certain demographic of men who get online and exaggerate, but judging from my observations, that doesn't even account for a quarter of the men who are actually honestly addressing their issues with women and women choosing lesser males. As for having a personality, can you aid me in understanding your hypothesis that good men don't have personalities? What proof do you have? Last I checked almost everyone has a personality in some form or fashion. And you don't have to be a dead beat no life sorry bum with no job to be smart funny articulate or considerate to a woman or ANYONE for that matter.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Man u nikkas need to get some p*ssy. I cant go back and forth with yall.

People have been fukking since the dawn of man. If u cant get women of the caliber u want to cooperate u are the problem. All this shyt about women not being able to hear the truth about themselves is a diversion. DUDES cant hear the truth about themselves, so they have to blame women for their inability to generate cooperation. shyt is corny. Yall can have this thread though @ this late nite pity party

 

[Citi Trends]

be yourself they said
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