Too bad, you can't read a good mans mind because not all men are looking for just sex. The majority of GOOD men who want to pursue a relationship with a woman are looking for a long term relationship.
Back to the TOPIC of the discussion, yes it is a COP OUT because although you can't read a good mans mind, I'm sure most of you women know damn well he's just not looking simply for sex , but rather a committed relationship and with every committed relationship comes what? SEX. Yeah and having a man want to have sex with you WHILE BEING COMMITTED TO YOU is a huge difference between some loser fukking you every other day, when he's not some where fukking his side piece or having some loser basically play you by fukking you once then tossing you aside along with the used condom. Which leads me to the point. Before you all continue to make hasty judgments about these "nice guys" as you put it, you'd be wise in understanding how this entire Nice Guy Complaining situation came about in the first place. Do you honestly think a bunch of guys just decided to get online and start ranting about how no woman wants them? If you think that you're just short sighted and probably taking a biased stance on this situation. This shyt all started in retaliation to women CONSTANTLY complaining about being treated like shyt. They'd frequently rant and throw out dialogue I'm sure you're all familiar with, things like "where are all the good men at?" "Why do men treat us like shyt?" "What happened to chivilery?" "All men are dogs!" After this uproar of bull shyt, it didn't take long for men along with OTHER WOMEN(Usually older more mature and unbiased) to reply to these accusations of there being no good men with logic and reason "It's not that there are no good men those are the men you chose." Which is absolutely true. Because the truth is there are GOOD, CONFIDENT, MEN who are NOT looking for a one night stand and who DO want a committed relationship. There have been sooo many generalizations and biased assumptions that have been basically pulled out of the asses of people who sit on the other side of the fence in this discussion. 1) "All nice guys are timid passive aggressive and do not know how to interact with a woman." FALSE. If you can provide any evidence to support your claims then please do so, but if not it's just a ridiculous broad speculation about an entire demographic of men, because lets be honest here, there are probably millions these "nice guys" out there, how many can you actually account for and how many have you come across? If you're just going off of the ones you see on the internet, sucks to have to burst your bubble, but you can't decipher any sexual motives though their rants. Went they post things like "women say guys treat them bad and only want sex but only date jerks" what is illogical about that statement? Furthermore what makes you think that his soul reason for pursuing any woman is just for sex? It's nothing but paranoia and speculation. But speculation based off of what? NOTHING, unless you're a guy and your mindset is "Me and my ass hole friends only want sex so every other man must have the same motives regardless of if he's good man or an ass hole" then that just means you're projecting your personality off on others making you some what of a narcissist. Women only have a problem accepting this because they know damn well they're choosing the guy who's more likely to cheat or do whatever over the guy who's not and it used to be a TREND for women to come online and vent about how their men treat them badly, UNTIL men started replying with, well you chose these types of guys. Today in 2015 you rarely see women come online and call men dogs. Now they admit to liking guys who aren't any good and claim that the reason they don't like good men is because they're timid, or ugly or whatever else(And trust me depending on what forum you're on each reason is different) when the claims they make about these good men aren't true. There are plenty of self confident good looking educated men, but are still either over looked for a loser or dumped for one. It's an excitement factor for most women, I get that. But the problem lies when they vent then people tell them the truth and they try pointing the finger back at men by using that same dumb ass worn out line "nice guys aren't really nice" as a fukking cop out. Not only is it badly delivered the statement itself is illogical, the reasoning and backing is biased and flawed and it's just straight out bull shyt.