I understand that. My point was, that's not up to you. It's up to HIM. Like you said, there's million of other women trying out to be the 15th all the way to the 500th sister wife of the wealthiest men. If he chooses you congrats, but do you think you're worthy of his choosing?
If he chooses a woman who's not willing to work, and will spend all his money all day, than he'll probably choose up with the hottest of them. Why choose a regular broad who'll spend the doe, when you can choose up with the top of the line.
Depending on his wealth, you may even have to be above aveage to qualify for the Sister Wife number 15 Spot. Which leaves regular women out in cold with the regular men.