No, Hope Solo Is Not "Like" Ray Rice

Do you think the Hope Solo situation should be perceived the same way as the NFL situations?

  • Yes, domestic violence is domestic violence. It should all be viewed as equally appalling.

  • No, the present and historical contexts of the issues justifies the different public responses.

  • No, but I still think the response to Ray Rice and AD has been overblown.


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philmonroe

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. That's not what a lot of dude are saying. Many are in here refusing to view DV as primarily a male issue....
I don't think you have to say it when we know all of this talking about the subject is mainly cause of bold you quoted. Its already implied but if you want to be technical yes people aren't saying that.
 

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the ironic thing about people using Hope Solo as a "what about her?" is that for years the major professional sports leagues have had domestic violence issues and its been quiet or put by the wayside. Not nary a peep about it. Nothing.

Institutional sexism in our society isn't beneficial to black men nor is it something that black men are responsible for maintaining.
thats completely untrue.
 

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Aside from this Reb vs everyone war

TC lost me with the random name dropping of Pac and Sam Cooke

He's brilliant and I agree with the premise of what he's trying to say

but this is not his strongest piece :manny: it happens i guess
 

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the tea party and their ilk don't realize that if they didn't dislike minorities so much they could run the fukkin country because there are a lot of black and hispanic men who support their ideology.

thank god for racism i guess because that's the only reason they're not the majority.
 

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:krs: @ this poll...

The question was phrased as loaded but still..

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I wasn't meant to be loaded. I asked specifically about public perception because that is what the article is about and that is what the supposed outrage is about. If anything the question was flawed in that I gave people the simple phrase "domestic violence is domestic violence" which probably clicked off the "wrong is wrong" in their head instead of causing them to think critically about distinguishing. I'm still shocked at this poll though, I made it anonymous on purpose to see where people REALLY stood. The coli really is the home of the IT cert having, hard on hoes clique.

But what's disturbing to me is how poorly read a lot of people are. @GoFlipAPack and @mrken12 literally said that (a) they had to skim and article that small and (b) that one of the best cultural racial commentators today must have some ulterior motive in mentioning famous black people so they won't even read the substance of what he's saying. It's just some childish, "these are our heroes and we don't want you saying their names in a piece involving Hope Solo and domestic violence so we're going to ignore you."
 
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Let's be real here brehs. As a man you can put a woman through a fukkin wall and there isn't shyt she can do about it, but cry for help from another man. Conversely, a woman can't beat your ass unless she has a weapon, or she's some big Samoan chick and you're a little bytch.

So it's not exactly the same thing, Ray Rice's woman couldn't do shyt against him, but Hope Solo's 17 year old brother and grown woman sister aren't at the same disadvantage. Now should she be suspended? Yes. Should she be defended and given all this team captain bullshyt? fukk no.

It's like the biggest strongest dude in the room picking on the smallest dude in the room, it's some bytch made shyt. However, the term "Don't start none, won't be none" also comes to mind. Your small ass can get that work too if you fukk with me, understand?
I'd like to see you try and put Lela Ali through a wall and see who'd be crying for help. Or half the women in the ufc

It's funny how women get hit and suddenly they are some poor defenseless damsel in distress that needs saving. Same thing they were running from being through the entire feminist movement

Wake up with your dikk cut off and thrown in a field somewhere. Then watch your girl get celebrated for it on some, well he deserved it cause he MUST have hit her, type shyt. Then we'll see if you have the same feeling
 

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I wasn't meant to be loaded. I asked specifically about public perception because that is what the article is about and that is what the supposed outrage is about. If anything the question was flawed in that I gave people the simple phrase "domestic violence is domestic violence" which probably clicked off the "wrong is wrong" in their head instead of causing them to think critically about distinguishing. I'm still shocked at this poll though, I made it anonymous on purpose to see where people REALLY stood. The coli really is the home of the IT cert having, hard on hoes clique.

But what's disturbing to me is how poorly read a lot of people are. @GoFlipAPack and @mrken12 literally said that (a) they had to skim and article that small and (b) that one of the best cultural racial commentators today must have some ulterior motive in mentioning famous black people so they won't even read the substance of what he's saying. It's just some childish, "these are our heroes and we don't want you saying their names in a piece involving Hope Solo and domestic violence so we're going to ignore you."
Honeslty IMO wrong is wrong and should be seen that way. Now if you want to give different punishments depending on the wrong ok but just switching wrongs don't think will ever work. Its the genesis of a lot of problems with race, religion, etc. Somebody thinks somebody else is getting preferential treatment because of their race, sex, religion, etc and then starts the resentment, bitterness, and all the other problems that not being consistent on similar issues bring.

I know its utopian but the best solution is to treat similar things similar and it will save a lot of junk IMO and if you not going to do that at least if you going to say this is what you stand for don't be flimsy about it like the media has shown with the Ray rice, AP, Hope Solo stories. I don't think that means somebody is HOH or anything.
 

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a local radio dj in my city was going off about the double standard today


word has finally spread


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I'd like to see you try and put Lela Ali through a wall and see who'd be crying for help. Or half the women in the ufc

It's funny how women get hit and suddenly they are some poor defenseless damsel in distress that needs saving. Same thing they were running from being through the entire feminist movement

Wake up with your dikk cut off and thrown in a field somewhere. Then watch your girl get celebrated for it on some, well he deserved it cause he MUST have hit her, type shyt. Then we'll see if you have the same feeling
There's one Lela Ali for every 100000 women out there but y'all making them a common thing just to win an argument
 

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Rice hit her twice. Where is this pummelled shyt coming from? pretty sure that one pornstar got pummelled from the MMA fighter, that's a fukking pummelling.

Anyways, KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF. what do people not understand about that? these people all fukked up equally in the fact all of them failed to do that one simple thing.
 
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