NOT having children is such a blessing

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Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha said:
if you had a child... you could not wake up tomorrow randomly go airport n go to japan to spend 3 months. and if you did do that you'd be a shytty father. you can't have it both ways. you're not financially free neither
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:yawn:breh i been there done that. 3 months ago i quit my old job and lived in brasil for a month. chilled on beautiful beaches, explored the country, fukked a bad bytch or 2, and just enjoyed myself. it's fun and cool but gets old after a while

because a portion of your money will go to the child, every aspect of being a parent is about losing freedom socially, financially, and even sometimes mentally.


a live in nanny? smh so they paying someone else to help raise their child to try and hold onto what little they have left of their freedom
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your view is so shortsighted breh. don't get me wrong that lifestyle is cool but i can see in a year or 2 i much rather focus on building a business that i can pass down to my kids and benefit the black community

travel with my wife & kids from time to time to different countries exposing the little ones to different cultures would be :blessed:

just gotta find the right brehette to build with :to:
 
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the bossman said:
:yawn:breh i been there done that. 3 months ago i quit my old job and lived in brasil for a month. chilled on beautiful beaches, explored the country, fukked a bad bytch or 2, and just enjoyed myself. it's fun and cool but gets old after a while


your view is so shortsighted breh. don't get me wrong that lifestyle is cool but i can see in a year or 2 i much rather focus on building a business that i can pass down to my kids and benefit the black community

travel with my wife & kids from time to time to different countries exposing the little ones to different cultures would be :blessed:
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different strokes for different folks i guess, id hate to have kids, you'd hate not to
 
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1984 said:
also I dont want to have explain stuff to kids. dont want to answer their questions about sex and sex related stuff in this overtly sexualized atmosphere.

right now Im waiting for someone with kids to guilt trip us into why we should have kids. Its never people without kids telling us why we should.

alot of young parents are absolutely terrible with this new age bullshyt and just irresponsible ways of parenting period.

twerking for your kids :scust:
inappropriate family photos with nudity and sexual undertones to them
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going out to the club to whore yourself out to guys while the kid has a babysitter. :scust:

and you wonder why i dont fukk with single moms.
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These parents are leaving their kids in hot cars, letting them wrestle with gators in Disney world lakes and letting them fall into gorilla cages.

lets now forget about the parents who let their kid walk down the street with a toy gun and got shot up by the cops

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YES Have kids brehs and brehettes
 
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Broad Street Bully said:
ding ding!!

that's really it. I just found out my girl was preggo like three weeks ago and it really got me thinking like "damn now you really got a purpose on this earth, it's time to put up or shut up." You get much more responsible with your money, how you say and do things , it's truly a blessing. for my brehs out here it's truly gonna make you look at yourself in the mirror and become a MAN.
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I dont need kids to find a purpose and be responsible. There are plenty of people without kids who have successful careers,manage their money well and are enjoying their lives. If you need kids to do that it means you were a fukk up at life.

While you are taking your snotty nose kids to Disney world and Universal Studios I'll be traveling around the world smashing models.
 
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Audemar said:
Just don't say this to people who already have kids or are about to have kids. Folks love telling you how wonderful the product(s) of their unplanned pregnancies are and why you should join them. :pachaha:
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Well we all got here some how lol
 
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Wise said:
To the people who dont want kids, when youre 40, 45, 50, where do you see your life then?

Not pointing fingers or anything, just wondering
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successful career, fly women on my arms, traveling the world, multipl beach front properties, exotic cars, retiring by 55 yrs old. most ppl cant live that lifestyle if they have kids

My coworker is 67 yrs old and his wife is 64. They both cannot retire because They have 5 kids to support. Total school debt between all kids is $590,000 and they have to bust their ass at work to assist them at paying it off. Hedrives a Kia and she drives Toyota ! No money in their retirement account, no vacations, basic ass house. Is that the American Dream? I'd rather be dead than live like that.
 
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