Hold on there.This is what I try to get some of these guys to understand. The friend zone doesn't exist and women don't owe you anything for being nice. Being nice is a part of being a decent human being, and sometimes crushes really are oblivious to unrequited feelings. If you're crushing on somebody who teases you because they like attention and you stick around hoping it will evolve even after they shoot you down, that's on you at that point. You did the right thing cutting them off once you realized what was happening.
Yes, the zone DOES exist. However, it is the "victim" who puts themselves there. They can always opt out. Ironically, I've been turned down after asking a lady out, but when I cease contact, she
wanna be upset cause im not interested in friendshipAnd no one said we are owed anything for being nice. The issue most have with the friendzone is being stuck in neutral.
Do I ask her out again?
Will she ever change her mind?
She seems to still like having me around...why wont she date me though?
Its the self doubt and the beating of one's self up that leads to mawfukkas getting complexes and lashing out. Not everybody is mature enough to handle rejection so it is what it is.