Once and for all, buying a woman a drink at a club, simping or not?

[King Poetic]

That woman better be your woman... the hell I'm going to be the 18th plus dude buying a chick a drink....

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

I'm broke so I make women pay for my shyt

 

[Supa cat]

So you was on that red pill site huh, aint them dudes racist

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

A woman isn't going to fukk you because you bought her a drink.
That's not why you buy her the drink.

You buy her the drink to be friendly and start a conversation.
It's an opening.

That second part, it's a no go. I watched my sister and her friend literally do nothing all night and made it known she wasn't interested in conversation while guys bought back to back drinks for them trying to "open them up for conversation". When they were tired of drinking and dancing they bounced without dudes even getting a good bye or thanks for the drinks. Hell, they even had the guys buy them drinks only for me to end up drinking them

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Last chick I was at the club with we alternated in rounds paying for each other's drinks. She's an old coworker from way back. We had a blast.

 

[-DMP-]

I buy out the bar and spit chris through the mic

 

[Remote]

A lame one, buying a drink won't change her physical attraction which really what that matters. If you are respectful with your approach and she finds you attractive, you will be in.

Ok so don't buy the drink.
It's just one way to crack the ice. Nobody says it's the standard.

 

[2stainz]

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

I never buy a woman a drink unless we're dating

 

[Ahadi]

If the convo is good & we’re in sync mentally, sure.

As an opener? Never

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Depends on your intentions behind it

 

[Wildhundreds]

If the convo is good & we’re in sync mentally, sure.

As an opener? Never

Why is the simple things complicated around here?

 

[Ahadi]

Why is the simple things complicated around here?

Too much listening to youtubers and less time living your own life and making your own rules as a man.

A lil $15 dollar drink is nothing. Shots for her and her friends? No. Sending a drink to be smooth? No

 

[Womb Raider]

whats the word on this in 2025


im personally over buying women drinks just to talk to them…regardless of the cost Im just not a fan of investing my money into something as flighty as women straight like that.

 

[jesc07]

whats the word on this in 2025


im personally over buying women drinks just to talk to them…regardless of the cost Im just not a fan of investing my money into something as flighty as women straight like that.

Only buy if you already know them or if the vibes are good like y'all talking for 10+ minutes. Other than that...nah.

I love when random women ask me to buy them a drank and I respond with hell nah.