This is ignorant as fukk. You never heard of John Wayne Gacy? He raped and killed dozens of teenage boys and young men, and most of the ones who survived never reported it to police. It wasn't like he was getting boys from some gay club, he was raping guys who answered work ads. And John Wayne Gacy wasn't even a famous star figure with charisma and leverage and power like R. Kelly, he was just some ugly antisocial creep.
The narrative of "if they let it happen and/or didn't report it, they must be complicit" is a full-on lie.
When people didn't report their rapists... (NSFL)