Outgroup bias, caping, and simpery...in the Coli

Supercoolmayo

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This is some real shyt. Society has ingrained in us that self worth is dictated by the opposite sex. If you can’t look in the mirror and be fulfilled by that reflection on the other end you lost
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I've found the opposite to be true.
In every ethnic group, males whether they are white, indian, asian, arab etc. appear to prefer the company of men over women.
Whites got the whole "bro culture" going on and not too long ago we had single-gender institutions. This was to emphasize the importance of in-group bonding.
With black men, I think it could go either way and it may be dependent on whether or not you grew up in a single parent household.
If you had a father in the house, like I did, you would have saw the importance placed on spending time with the buddies. Every weekend, religiously, my dad was with the guys, watching the games, bbqing, fishing, drinking or just shooting the shyt.
With me, it's the same way. I prefer my male friendships over my female friendships.
I've always felt that guys that preferred to be around females were either feminine or was raised by their mothers.
Obviously, there are exceptions but just a perception I've had.
 

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I don’t trust people in general, but I don’t trust women a little more than men. Both get on my nerves in different ways so it really depend on the person. Overall I think I’m selfish and plan to stay that way because that’s probably the only way you’ll win in life.
 
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That's a lil harsh, and don't forget: Elliot Roger's delusional ATTITUDE toward life made him snap. He did not have an outwardly dirty or broke appearance, yet nobody fukked with him for real.
There are more important factors in play.

Being broke is a state of mind not of wealth
These brehs can barely communicate on the internet yet alone with a woman.
Mother fukk CAC as Elliot willson
 

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I've been told I look "sneaky".
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I'm not into sports or video games.
It's even worse now that I don't drink.


Sneaky lmao:russ:


Yeah the bolded is a killer for you, damn.

Not liking those things pretty much eliminates a lot of brehs from the friend pool. That’s interesting actually, why no interest in sports? I hate watching sports too, but no one bats an eye since I’m a female, but as a man I can imagine that’s a huge offense lol. So many dudes I know watch espn regularly, even if they no longer have the time to play video games.
 
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Sneaky lmao:russ:


Yeah the bolded is a killer for you, damn.

Not liking those things pretty much eliminates a lot of brehs from the friend pool. That’s interesting actually, why no interest in sports? I hate watching sports too, but no one bats an eye since I’m a female, but as a man I can imagine that’s a huge offense lol. So many dudes I know watch espn regularly, even if they no longer have the time to play video games.
I never got excited about about watching nikkas run around chasing balls and gripping each other up
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not only females.. but, people in general can be annoying as hell.. i dont have much in common with females, to be just kicking it with them like that if we aint fukkin..

hold up- yall cats just kick it with females like that, yall aint fukkin.. :dahell:

maaaaaan.. i better not hear none of yall on some HOH sh!t, no more.. :mjlol:

and, its pretty much common sense why females kick it with females(more than males)- they have alot more in common..


Not just that, but tbh it’s hard to have platonic friendships with men. I actually like kicking it with men because I find them funny and refreshing(their perspectives and honesty) as hell, but every single male friendship Ive ever had, had to be ended because the dude liked me as more than a friend.

I do have more things in common with women though. I notice that a lot of men prefer each other’s company a lot. Not that they don’t like women, but they don’t like kicking it with women like that, unless it’s their girl. Whereas a lot of women I know, do enjoy kicking it with both men and women(some even like kicking it with men more).
 

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I never got excited about about watching nikkas run around chasing balls and gripping each other up
:dame:


Omg that’s how I see it too. I don’t get the love for watching sports either. It’s like a waste of time to me—i’d rather participate than watch.:yeshrug:

Interesting though. Were you raised watching sports and playing video games though?
 
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