PANIC Time: If you're around 30 (flabby and sick) and still single.

[DaChampIsHere]

You don't pass it on to anyone. It dies with you.
So do you think you're a better man then Clooney or 50 cent? Be Honest.
Do you also think think athletes should get married?
You were also crowing about black men/ white women marriages breaking up, so are you wrong in that thread or this one? Because to most people a marriage is a marriage, regardless of race,religion.

1. So you don't pass on family wealth? Maybe in your family. Home ownership, starting businesses are not big in the black community, so I see how this concept could fly over your head.

2. Don't mean to gossip, but if I google "Clooney" and "kids" a few stories will pop up where he recently said he wants some. From my understanding 50 Cent is in a relationship. Doesn't seem to compare to the "I'm still getting p*ssy" crowd.

3. I think every successful man wants a legacy to carry forth his accomplishments. Athletes tend to be prideful characters. They not ready for their glory to ever die our completely. I don't think the smartest way would be to knock up random women, but to definitely find someone of the same worth, or who has their own worth/income would be ideal.

4. Don't see what interacial marriages breaking up has to do with people who are afraid to make commitments.

5. I have already stated that marriage isn't the only form of commitment.

You're a Troll

But I'm not though. You could ask me all of this in real life, and I'd say the same thing.

 

[Pillowysoft83]

Kind of off subject, but why do nikkas keep throwing out marriage statistics like it's the end all be all. Statistics say that 100% of life ends with death, doesn't mean you should stop living.

Thirty is not old and neither is 40 in my book. However, some of you are kidding yourselves thinking yall gonna be the second coming of George Clooney or Derek ThisnikkaGotHerpes Jeter. I'm not saying rush to settle down..but some of you nikkas options ain't too good now or later.

 

[Stuntone]

A lot of lying and self-delusion going on in this thread.

 

[the next guy]

Kind of off subject, but why do nikkas keep throwing out marriage statistics like it's the end all be all. Statistics say that 100% of life ends with death, doesn't mean you should stop living.

Thirty is not old and neither is 40 in my book. However, some of you are kidding yourselves thinking yall gonna be the second coming of George Clooney or Derek ThisnikkaGotHerpes Jeter. I'm not saying rush to settle down..but some of you nikkas options ain't too good now or later.

I like that. But there is more to life then the chase, that does not mean you have to get married though.

 

[Listen]

Men go from cute to Handsome the older they get, well into your 40's and even 50's, younger women can and will find you attractive.

Women peak so damn young. Half of them look delectable at 16. By the time their 26, if they were into drinking and drugs at ALL, that shyt starts sliding away into dumpiness.

It takes a rare bird to look good through her 30's. By the time they hit 40, most just look like a pair of Michael Jordan's jeans. Loose, uncomfortable and out of style.

 

[jalamanta]

90% of this board will admit their are introverted/anti-social (which is probably why the shyt I'm typing seems so "wtf" to y'all")

you just cant stop with this shyt can you

 

[Nemesis]

Blah, blah, blah. Skip all the name calling. If you were any more mature than me, you wouldn't be engaging in trying to label me either. Show me a man who wants to be alone for the rest of his life, who has no plans on burdening anyone else's family with his health/economic/etc. problems.

You can't do that. The idea of having people to be by you at those last moments or hard times is "love", my dude. If a woman/man can manage to stick it out with you throughout your life up until that point, that is love. You don't know what that is. Like I said, don't be that guy who's to stubborn to see the value in certain things, but expects everyone else to step in for the things he was too scared to get.

I don't care if you think I see my kids as an insurance policy, because I don't. I'd see my kids as an extension of my family's legacy. And honestly kids have taken care of their parents for years; circle of life. There's no way for you to shame that. If you can help it, are you letting your parents croak out with no assistance of care/concern from you? You aren't unless you severely dislike your parents, so don't try to shame such.

I just did....obviously your reading comprehension is as flawed as your common sense....


Im not labelling you....you have labelled yourself....

Once again no one with an ounce of common sense or maturity assumes that everyone wants the same thing in life...

You remind me of those christians that are convinced that there is no way someone can be happy without accepting Jesus into their life....

your point blank refusal to acknowledge that in this world of 6 billion people not every heterosexual male wishes to be married or have kids makes you sound stupid....

once again grow up

 

[DaChampIsHere]

you just cant stop with this shyt can you

Someone on here could make a thread asking if people are extroverts or introverts, but when I use that information to show why a lot of people on here think I certain way about things, I'm the one that's wrong.

It's whatever. I've realized that people just like to be mad about shyt they admit they feel about themselves.

Once again no one with an ounce of common sense or maturity assumes that everyone wants the same thing in life...

For the 20th time, I never said that everyone wants the same things in life. Are you reading? All I am talking about is character traits that go along with these trains of thoughts.

Your friend has been the man through out his whole life? You've only talked about his financial state, ignoring everything else I stated. Has always been successful with women? Has a great social life? Has no problem communicating with people? You will probably say "yes" to all of these now to "prove" me wrong, but I find it funny you ignored all of those points before hand.

I haven't once told anyone what they should or should not do. I have never assumed that everyone wants to get married or have kids or even be in a committed relationship. I know a lot of people don't. I'm also pretty sure as to why they don't.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

All I am talking about is character traits that go along with these trains of thoughts.

I'm also pretty sure as to why they don't.

Assumptions, and no.

You have a predetermined notion about dudes who choose not to marry, and create "evidence" to support said claim.

Nemesis DCIH goes to church. Not a swipe at going to church but it does put things into context.

 

[DaRealness]

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Assumptions, and no.
You have a predetermined notion about dudes who choose not to marry, and create "evidence" to support said claim.
Nemesis DCIH goes to church. Not a swipe at going to church but it does put things into context.

It's more than marriage. I keep saying "commitment", somehow out of that, you only pull marriage. Like I said, you ignore details/parts of arguments to prove yourself right, when you're still wrong because you have yet to address things in a holistic fashion.

I actually don't go to church (unless it's a required day with my frat brothers) and I'm not affiliated with any religious sect nor doI read any religious texts. Stop Encylopedia Brown

 

[in the NICK of time]

brehs i mostly read and dap in these forums, and post when i find something worth relating to. this thread popped out to me bc for one obvious reason, i hit the big 3-0 this coming sunday the 14th.....and trust me, this is not some ego trip, cocky makin myself look better than i really am type shyt, but i dont look a day over 23/24. ppl from either my job, or strangers i meet everyday when i tell them im turning 30 hit me wit that

i have always said that shyt is gonna bless me when i hit these older years of 30-40 even 50s bc i stay in shape, and probably helps i live in a warm climate year around (miami). now i do drink (ALOT actually), and have no care or even the mere THOUGHT of settling down. and never intend to. ppl that meet me or friends that know me always wanna know how i could never wanna "carry on my name" or all that traditionalized shyt. i tell em first of all, im SELFISH and i admit it

secondly, i NEVER want a kid, and in this day and age, especially a town like miami, i feel almost privelaged that im hitting 30 and am kidless without any baby mama drama. its sad to say that but in this world we live in, its kinda true. ive seen so many "perfect relationships/engagements/marriages" last for years and turn UGLY over one minor foul slip and both parties ruin the others lives with either court battles over money, kids, to ruining the others credit bc they have their SSNs bank accounts, credit card, things u would trust wit your significant other of many years.

im not saying dont go for it, bc i clearly realize im in the minority and most ppl wanna grow old wit someone.....but i never got that. maybe its a strain of DNA that got cut outta me, i been called cold by many women. having an icecube for a heart. whatever the case may be, this is who i am. i live in paradise city that most ppl save bread to visit for a few days out the year. beauitful women, any night out the week i can head out to go somewhere entertaining. perfect weather, beaches.....im never getting married. and 30 hits me this sunday, i am the happiest person i know. just a shared thought

(ps sorry for the novel, lemme guess you guys.....

 

[Nemesis]

Someone on here could make a thread asking if people are extroverts or introverts, but when I use that information to show why a lot of people on here think I certain way about things, I'm the one that's wrong.

It's whatever. I've realized that people just like to be mad about shyt they admit they feel about themselves.


For the 20th time, I never said that everyone wants the same things in life. Are you reading? All I am talking about is character traits that go along with these trains of thoughts.

Your friend has been the man through out his whole life? You've only talked about his financial state, ignoring everything else I stated. Has always been successful with women? Has a great social life? Has no problem communicating with people? You will probably say "yes" to all of these now to "prove" me wrong, but I find it funny you ignored all of those points before hand.

I haven't once told anyone what they should or should not do. I have never assumed that everyone wants to get married or have kids. I know a lot of people don't. I'm also pretty sure as to why they don't.

I dont agree with this, as impossible as it may seem there are many well adjusted people who want to remain single.... doesnt mean they want to live a second childhood, doesnt mean they cant find a partner, doesnt mean they dont want to grow up and be responsible, it also doesnt mean they have problems interacting with people socially.....
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[Ronnie Lott]

I never said that getting married will prevent you from getting old and sick. That doesn't even sound right. Read.

I think y'all are missing that I never said anyone had to do anything or feel a certain way about something. I'm just saying that there's a certain character profile that goes along with such actions/feelings. I'm not trying to convince anyone in here to get married. I haven't told anyone once what they should do.

U stay moonwalkin bruh I kept tryna tell nyggaz that u be trollin. U argue with everybody, including yourself. U stay doubletalkin and give the most ambiguous responses. U twist around peoples positions and point out only portions of a persons post,then u adopt this passive agressive dsposition. I see right thru your bullshhyt and many of us see thru your bullshhy too. You are pretty pathetic, I actually feel sorry for u.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

U stay moonwalkin bruh I kept tryna tell nyggaz that u be trollin. U argue with everybody, including yourself. U stay doubletalkin and give the most ambiguous responses. U twist around peoples positions and point out only portions of a persons post,then u adopt this passive agressive dsposition. I see right thru your bullshhyt and many of us see thru your bullshhy too. You are pretty pathetic, I actually feel sorry for u.

Yep, which is why several people in here have agreed with my point of view.

I dont agree with this, as impossible as it may seem there are many well adjusted people who want to remain single.... doesnt mean they want to live a second childhood, doesnt mean they cant find a partner, doesnt mean they dont want to grow up and be responsible, it also doesnt mean they have problems interacting with people socially.....
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Sure thing breh. I've already stated why what you are stating is a joke and completely contradictory to the character traits listed, but keep saying such. Logic really isn't some of y'alls friends.