Plan First Dates in 2016, Brehs and Brehettes...

[The M.I.C.]

Yeah I think that people are not considering that the first date may not be what you are looking for. You can meet someone you are attracted to at an event, and after a week of talking on the phone then you go out with them. You guys go out to eat and the bill is $50+. This person burps, licks their fingers, snaps at the waiter/waitress, then ask for a doggy bag. They sound nice over the phone and then you see how they act. $50 down the drain. Now imagine you went on 3 other dates like that with different people. $150 down the drain in a week. It is best to keep first dates simple because you honestly do not know the personality of a person. I think that when you get to know each other more then i can understand the $50+ dates. In a relationship I can definitely see the $50+ dates.

Repped. You never fail me with the logic of your posts.

 

[Ooh Marty]

I already lift heavy shyt at the gym ya know...you're probably a warmup

If only u knew

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[Docaveli]

How is essentially, doing too little, as I just laid out with my approach..doing too much?

The construction of your reply to mines is a bit ill-formed. If you're fine with spending top dollar on a woman who essentially hasn't earned the right to eat that much from your pockets, than fine by me. Most women and men do not have the ability to discern who's emotionally and mentally compatible nowadays, it's all hump and dump..separating those with that mentality from the ones who actually desire real relationships requires the ability to test and find out as much as you can with as little collateral involved as possible in case it's not a good match. Not everyone is rolling like millionaires, protecting your capital and your time is always a prerogative when you're screening someone who will potentially have a life altering effect on you for the long term. If you're willing to go in blind then kudos to you and your bank account.

All dat grammar, and u still missed the point. You are doing too much by even setting aside 200 dollars which implies that u feel u have to woo another human that has the same basic needs as u with dollars

A lot of guys complain about a 200 dollar a month child support being too much, but will set aside money just to court women

You guys are not making sense. Be consistant, you either gun trick on the bytch or u not

Me I keep all my money, most of the hoes that leave come running back, my phone number hasn't changed since 2008. I get the "hey" or " I was just thinking about u" out the blue texts all the time

I draw a line and stand firm, i'm the one doing the approaching, therefore I make the rules, if I walked past a bytch and hey wassup, or i motion to a hoe to come here and she tell me to come here, i turn and walk away

i don't do no work for these bytches, y'all to soft on these hoes. Every body always hollering they are real men, until it come to bytches and white folks

Set the rules, make that bytch show sum intitiative and take u out. Show her u can take care of u and her in the long run, but she got to do the work first cus u picky and not like the rest of these guys

Some bytches will bite, and u come out on top

 

[iBrowse]

If only u knew

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:kissynikki:

Woman I live in St. Thomas and y'all are a commodity

 

[KinksandCoils]

Pay on the first date. It's that simple. Don't ask me no retarded ass questions like its a foreign concept.

How much do you charge for the evening?

Exactly what does a negro get for the entrance fee?


Is the price the same across the board? (you this demanding of non whites )

The streets wanna know.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Woman I live in St. Thomas and y'all are a commodity

U talk so much shyt

Hit me when u come to Chicago tho

 

[KinksandCoils]

If u think a girl just after a free meal then why even talk to her? Oh...... Cause u want the buns. Looks like u want something too

Yeah read the story I mentioned about a girl using my homie for a meal in this thread then feeding him a Bullshyt line. Come off that shyt women want something for nothing too. Whether it's p*ssy or to "feel special " everyone is looking for something. I stopped paying for dates because I wasn't sure if i was getting thing out of it and I'd be damned if I'm wasting my time (I could be writing or renting apartments or working out) and money on some broad who wasn't giving me anything and wasn't bringing fukk all to the table except an ass, a pair of t*ts and a smile. If I decide she's worth it then she can get a date and dinner, but never before I decide.

 

[iBrowse]

U talk so much shyt

Hit me when u come to Chicago tho

IG

 

[agnosticlady]

Personally I think first dates should be casual. I'm not trying to get all dolled up to go out with a guy I barely know and could turn out to be an a$$hole.

Also what does dolled up mean for a casual date? I was on another forum and a young lady asked for dressing advice for her first date. I felt like this was a nice outfit for a first date , but the other posters said that was doing the most

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I wore something like this on my first date with my guy minus the heels

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I always thought something like this was dolled up. I'm thinking the lady in OP wanted to dress like these women

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[Kokoro]

If only u knew

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Wow

I need me a bbw on the team. 2016 here we come

 

[Neuromancer]

If u think a girl just after a free meal then why even talk to her? Oh...... Cause u want the buns. Looks like u want something too

Didn't I just say that? Reread my post. Everyone wants something. . And for the record I didn’t start paying for my current until after we were an item, which was after we had sex.

 

[iBrowse]

Wow

I need me a bbw on the team. 2016 here we come

I'm about to tell my girl to start eating burritos and to stop working out

 

[iBrowse]

Also what does dolled up mean for a casual date? I was on another forum and a young lady asked for dressing advice for her first date. I felt like this was a nice outfit for a first date , but the other posters said that was doing the most

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I wore something like this on my first date with my guy minus the heels

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I always thought something like this was dolled up. I'm thinking the lady in OP wanted to dress like these women

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Yellow dress and teal skirt

 

[Spatial Paradox]

That still doesn't prove anything. In certain contexts, cheap can be used to describe the quality moreso than the actual price. You ever seen a girl with some cheap ass weave? How do you know it's cheap? By the quality and raggedyness.
Now no way am I for this girl but there are better examples of gold digging and from this sample of text, there isn't much info to come to that conclusion.
She emphasized that she wanted a date "worth having". Now do you know what she considers worthy besides starbucks not qualifying? no.
Starbucks is a cheap date that requires no type of thought or effort whatsoever so if a man ever even suggested that as a first date, I would kindly decline.
There are a multitude of ways to show a woman you are actually interested in her without breaking the bank. The problem with you guys is, you expect women to just be okay with your run of the mill date that you by in large use as a ploy to get the most out of your little investment.
I see both sides. Just like you men don't want to get got for your paper, a lot of women are weary of wasting their time so yes the good ones from both sides are going to lose but hey that's life.
A trip to the museum with a nice picnic followed by a walk in the park by definition is a cheap date but most logical non gold-digging women aren't going to consider it such cuz like I said, the quality is there.
But then again, I don't think a meet and greet qualifies as a date, nor am I a serial dater and nor would I go on a date with a guy I wasn't interested in so

The bolded puts a lot what you said in a somewhat different context though. Not too long ago, a coworker of mines was talking about a date she had lined up after work. She made it clear she wasn't interested in the dude ("he doesn't seem all that interesting", "I'm not really excited about this date"), but she was going to go on it anyway.

A lot of people out here seem take a shotgun approach to dating and will go out with people they're not really interested in.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Wow

I need me a bbw on the team. 2016 here we come

Bbws can become addictive

U might replace ur whole starting lineup with heavyweights