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Call it whatever you want. You might as well said this to at least half of the worlds population of women cause men been paying for dates for centuries. It's only been in the last 10-15 yrs that men been bugging out on it. If u don't feel I'm worth paying for on a date that's cool I can fukk with a man who will pay with no problem. And I don't use men for free dinner if I'm going out with you I like you in some sort of way.
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This sounds like he's purchasing you. But that's not the case is it?:sas2:
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Real talk I ain't mad at her. If she's a decent woman worth having she probably gets spit at on the regular. Why waste your time meeting up with cats on the regular for coffee? Put it this way: If I'm really feeling a woman initially, I wouldn't have any problem planning to actually take her out. Doesn't have to be a ton of money but I'd be cool with dropping some change to show her a good time. And a woman having those standards is an even better look for me. Not like she said she gotta eat lobster, just said if a dude wants to spend time with her make it interesting. If you can't rock with that you either broke or mess with too many garbage females :yeshrug:
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From the jump how would you know if she is decent women...just cause dudes hit on her left and right she dereseves a dinner date :wtf:
 
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Dollfacecraze said:
If someone declines a gift that you buy them bc they don't like it, that would make them a pompous prick because gifts are made to be received whether you liked it or not, it's the principle. The same principle doesn't apply to this situation bc someone not accepting your "date" isn't a sign of their character.
and it's ironic because a man will call a woman and entitled bytch bc she declined a date:pachaha:
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KinksandCoils said:
Call it whatever you want. You might as well said this to at least half of the worlds population of women cause men been paying for dates for centuries. It's only been in the last 10-15 yrs that men been bugging out on it. If u don't feel I'm worth paying for on a date that's cool I can fukk with a man who will pay with no problem. And I don't use men for free dinner if I'm going out with you I like you in some sort of way.
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You never actually wondered why men started bugging out, did you. Of course not because this shyt benefits you all the same. Something used to be expected of a woman if a man paid for a date, could be a kiss at the end of the night could be more. You liking me in some way doesn't reimburse me for my time or money if I realized I don't like you after I've shelled out my cash.
 
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Damn niqqas. A date? I have taken girls out who said they wasn't tryna cut beforehand.

I have dropped $80 in bars on a good night. Niqqas throw $100 at strippers in a night.

I guess if she means nothing then Applebee's might be too far but a decent woman is well worth the "gamble". Or is another PS4 game more important?
 
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Like I said, me personally by the time the first date happens we already know we like each other. I don't rush dates, I don't ask to be taken out either. I expect for the man to pay for at least the first date just like his black ass is going to be expecting to get some after sticking around for a while. See u men these days don't want to do absolutely nothing but u want shyt in return. If a man ain't willing to pay for me then why would I want him? He could say the same for me. If I never wanted to pay for nothing why would he want me either? I've paid going out as well and I expect his ass to cough up some money too.

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You never actually wondered why men started bugging out, did you. Of course not because this shyt benefits you all the same. Something used to be expected of a woman if a man paid for a date, could be a kiss at the end of the night could be more. You liking me in some way doesn't reimburse me for my time or money if I realized I don't like you after I've shelled out my cash.
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I am curious how well the two even knew each other before this exchange....I generally ask out or go out with women I have had at least enough interaction with to discern enough of their character to know they are worth any effort, time, or money. I can see where this could potentially happen a lot more in 'cold approaches', or just linking through facebook or IG. Thing is, I like restaurants I like expensive, exclusive places, and I go anyway, by myself or with a date, so it's nothing to bring someone along, but I'd have to know she was at least somewhat interested in me, we don't have to end up as anything more then a few fun nights....dating to me is being a good judge of character and reader of others...
 
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