Plan First Dates in 2016, Brehs and Brehettes...

[BmoreGorilla]

From a females pov...I'd much rather meet for coffee or drinks or a walk because the dude might be on straight creep mode. Or you may not have any chemistry beyond ig likes, #wcw's, and text convo. It could be dumb awkward and I don't wanna have to pretend my kid needs me or I'm all of a sudden sick to get away from a nikka. I wanna meet you, vibe, and be excited to see you again. But a man should have some kind of plan and time. None of that "let's chill" and expect me.to come to your house and sit on your couch to share a blunt and wait for you to try to make moves. Eew. Now if u say hey its game/card night at my crib. I might be down.

That worked so much back in the day

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Dp

 

[360dagod]

From a females pov...I'd much rather meet for coffee or drinks or a walk because the dude might be on straight creep mode. Or you may not have any chemistry beyond ig likes, #wcw's, and text convo. It could be dumb awkward and I don't wanna have to pretend my kid needs me or I'm all of a sudden sick to get away from a nikka. I wanna meet you, vibe, and be excited to see you again. But a man should have some kind of plan and time. None of that "let's chill" and expect me.to come to your house and sit on your couch to share a blunt and wait for you to try to make moves. Eew. Now if u say hey its game/card night at my crib. I might be down.[/QUOTE]

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...A nikka will say he having bible study if you gonna end up walking in the door...

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Oh a MoCo chick. No wonder

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Nikka these hoes can let me come over and I'll bring the lean. It's 2016, fukk a date

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

I used to take women to play pool. typically you can drink there, and you can talk to your date while playing the game. and if she needs help with her shot.........

Exactly. Pool halls, lounges, bowling, even Dave and Busters are all excellent first date spots. You can chill and talk with a chick, spend only a few dollars, and even if the bytch is wack you can still have a good time. Plus if ya both drinking, smashing is damn near guaranteed.

These kids need to read some books on how to spit game. Sad at what i'm reading here.

 

[360dagod]

I have also showed my brother and other males I got love for the same hospitality.

On the low.. I am saying you're broke if paying for dinner makes you go into self examination mode.

"Damn. That'll be like $70... Let me meditate on the importance of this life choice."

There have beeen females who have cooked me dinner and looked out for me years after the sex stopped.

i have no issue spending money on them to eat...red lobster or whateva

but they've built that rapport with me...and i know they look out for me as well

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

By the time the first date happens we already know we like each other. I won't go out with a random nikka. Therefore a dinner date could be in order. I don't fukk with Starbucks ever so why would I want to go there? You want me? You can pay money to go out on a proper first date. I'm cheap so it's not like much money is gonna be spent anyways.

How much do you charge for the evening?

Exactly what does a negro get for the entrance fee?


Is the price the same across the board? (you this demanding of non blacks )

The streets wanna know.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Oh a MoCo chick. No wonder

What's that supposed to mean?

 

[Larry Lambo]

Man,

I really don't even ask women out unless I have known them for a minute. These chicks changed the game and started to go out with dudes they aren't interested in (for whatever reason).

It's not all about the money. It's about the energy, time, and money focused on a chick that you don't even know is interested in you or not. There's a certain level of interest and proactiveness that I require before taking her out. If she doesn't show that, then it wasn't meant to be.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

What's that supposed to mean?

Females down there always had something negative to say when they would meet a Baltimore dude

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

That worked so much back in the day

Netflix and chill was a viable date until it became a meme and women started to pretend they weren't about that life.

 

[VFib]

Gorgeous

Id be tempted to simp but id stick to my guns

Ive never spent more than $30 on a 1st date. Real talk

Coppin a 20piece and drinks at a sportsbar has always been my go-to move. Never had any complaints

Anytime some men hear "dinner date" for the first date, they have an anxiety attack, because they think it means spending $300. Dinner doesn't need to be expensive. shyt, the first date period doesn't need to cost a lot. It's about using your brain and putting in a little effort so she knows you are interested, even if the date costs nothing.

You guys love to make your dating loves more complicated than it needs to be. Find someone who feels the same as you regarding dating and leave the rest alone to find someone who will feels the same as them.

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

I say this time and time again...the more money I spent on dates the less likely I was to get in them panties. If a chick is really into you...yall can go wherever and she won't care as long as she is with you.

 

[Medio]

if a women is not down for coffee the first date then bushes