Plan First Dates in 2016, Brehs and Brehettes...

[Neuromancer]

Yeah I think that people are not considering that the first date may not be what you are looking for. You can meet someone you are attracted to at an event, and after a week of talking on the phone then you go out with them. You guys go out to eat and the bill is $50+. This person burps, licks their fingers, snaps at the waiter/waitress, then ask for a doggy bag. They sound nice over the phone and then you see how they act. $50 down the drain. Now imagine you went on 3 other dates like that with different people. $150 down the drain in a week. It is best to keep first dates simple because you honestly do not know the personality of a person. I think that when you get to know each other more then i can understand the $50+ dates. In a relationship I can definitely see the $50+ dates.

You’re a fukking genius

 

[Ooh Marty]

IG

I gotchu

 

[Kokoro]

I'm about to tell my girl to start eating burritos and to stop working out

It's this girl in my piano class that's borderline thick

Imma have to introduce her to that McPick 2 diet

 

[Birdie]

Any woman who thinks you have to spend your money to simply get to know one another isn't worth going out with. A date shouldn't require you to wine and dine her, if she really was attracted to you she would just want to and enjoy being around you. If she wants to go out she should have the money to pay her own way.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Also what does dolled up mean for a casual date? I was on another forum and a young lady asked for dressing advice for her first date. I felt like this was a nice outfit for a first date , but the other posters said that was doing the most

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I wore something like this on my first date with my guy minus the heels

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I always thought something like this was dolled up. I'm thinking the lady in OP wanted to dress like these women

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Third pic is definitely what I consider dolled up
too. The first pic is something I would wear to brunch or something lowkey. Second can be dolled up if worn with heels and accessories.

I'm doing the whole make-up, eyebrows, nails, fresh hair do, heels and maybe even a new outfit if I really want to show off, lol.

Men don't realize how much work we put into ourselves trying to impress them.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

From a females pov...I'd much rather meet for coffee or drinks or a walk because the dude might be on straight creep mode. Or you may not have any chemistry beyond ig likes, #wcw's, and text convo. It could be dumb awkward and I don't wanna have to pretend my kid needs me or I'm all of a sudden sick to get away from a nikka. I wanna meet you, vibe, and be excited to see you again. But a man should have some kind of plan and time. None of that "let's chill" and expect me.to come to your house and sit on your couch to share a blunt and wait for you to try to make moves. Eew. Now if u say hey its game/card night at my crib. I might be down.

congratulations, youre not a bozo

 

[#1 pick]

That sense of entitlement

That stray bullet to white girls

Rule #1: Stop dating DC hoes.

Rule #2: If it ain't a fukk, then leave DC hoes alone. They will suck your pockets dry.

Rule #3: Start traveling and leave DC hoes alone.

Rule #4: If DC hoes is that important, get a female friend to hook you up with one of her friends who has your best interest. Otherwise, good luck but you likely to take L's.

 

[The M.I.C.]

All dat grammar, and u still missed the point. You are doing too much by even setting aside 200 dollars which implies that u feel u have to woo another human that has the same basic needs as u with dollars

A lot of guys complain about a 200 dollar a month child support being too much, but will set aside money just to court women

You guys are not making sense. Be consistant, you either gun trick on the bytch or u not

Me I keep all my money, most of the hoes that leave come running back, my phone number hasn't changed since 2008. I get the "hey" or " I was just thinking about u" out the blue texts all the time

I draw a line and stand firm, i'm the one doing the approaching, therefore I make the rules, if I walked past a bytch and hey wassup, or i motion to a hoe to come here and she tell me to come here, i turn and walk away

i don't do no work for these bytches, y'all to soft on these hoes. Every body always hollering they are real men, until it come to bytches and white folks

Set the rules, make that bytch show sum intitiative and take u out. Show her u can take care of u and her in the long run, but she got to do the work first cus u picky and not like the rest of these guys

Some bytches will bite, and u come out on top

This isn't "pimps up, hos down"..but I'm not in the mood to start powering up tonight.

 

[Kokoro]

Bbws can become addictive

U might replace ur whole starting lineup with heavyweights

That's a risk I'm willing to take for all them extra jiggly ounces

 

[agnosticlady]

Rule #1: Stop dating DC hoes.

Rule #2: If it ain't a fukk, then leave DC hoes alone. They will suck your pockets dry.

Rule #3: Start traveling and leave DC hoes alone.

Rule #4: If DC hoes is that important, get a female friend to hook you up with one of her friends who has your best interest. Otherwise, good luck but you likely to take L's.

At your whole post being about avoiding D.C. women I have a few female acquaintances that go to Howard university and they told me that a lot of women up there, especially from a certain crowd are very boujie and stuck up. I don't know how true this is though.

 

[The M.I.C.]

At your whole post being about avoiding D.C. women I have a few female acquaintances that go to Howard university and they told me that a lot of women up there, especially from a certain crowd are very boujie and stuck up. I don't know how true this is though.

VERY.

 

[Wild self]

Sounds like one of those women who go on lavish dates, use up a man's money and then move on to the next guy

Yep. Don't ever feed these broads.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

I don't mind a simple first date tbh. I wouldn't want a man to plan out an extravagant first date only to realize we not even feeling each other after 30 min

dap/future rep

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

These hoes fridges be full of left over food from Applebee's Outback, Cheddars and the like from sucka ass simp

I remember I met this bish off match at BJ's and this hoes was like 40lb heavier than her profile pics
I let her order appetizers and a sweet tea
Then I went to the bathroom
Told the waiter the situation
Paid for my sprite
Then dipped on her fat ass

 

[Wild self]

At your whole post being about avoiding D.C. women I have a few female acquaintances that go to Howard university and they told me that a lot of women up there, especially from a certain crowd are very boujie and stuck up. I don't know how true this is though.

It is true, though you gotta be swagged out with lots of social prestige and $$$ for some of the OD bad chick's to check you out. When I was in undergrad, I seen dudes pushing Beamers and Mercedes Benz while I was catching the metro.

That's some old black money that people don't know of.