Question to men in relationships who split the bills with their girl

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^^ I’ve mentioned this before. Lol


People don’t see the big picture.
So getting a real job, leaning on family, insurance policies, etc, don't exist, she just straight becomes a whore to survive? Yall nikkas is weird as hell.
 
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There's nothing dusty about accepting gifts, or accepting being catered to. If that's the case women wouldn't accept jewelry or flowers, candy. There's no indication that just because you accept gifts, or being catered to that your unable to provide for yourself. Everyone can open a door for themselves, yet we still hold doors open for others and appreciate when doors are held for us. That's life. Some people just have more to give or play the game with more chips.
Oh wait, you understand the dynamic right? The reason men provide gifts and nice treatment for the woman they want…? There’s a reason why traditionally women are given these things and catered to…
 

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That roommate shyt sounds like nonsense to me. You’re building a life together. That takes effort from both parties. I wouldn’t ever entertain a woman who thinks contributing means she’s living in a roommate situation. That sounds like bird talk to be honest.
 

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That roommate shyt sounds like nonsense to me. You’re building a life together. That takes effort from both parties. I wouldn’t ever entertain a woman who thinks contributing means she’s living in a roommate situation. That sounds like bird talk to be honest.

It is. Considering that the woman is a child's 1st teacher, and our black boys and girls can't even read at grade level.. Then some of these women believe its a teachers job to teach her kid how to read.:what: Nah..
 

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So getting a real job, leaning on family, insurance policies, etc, exist, sh just staright becomas a whore to survive? Yall nikkas is weird as hell.
I’m a woman, BTW. The point is those things don’t just start the moment a woman’s hubby passes. It’s not about becoming a whore overnight. It’s like y’all don’t see the REAL WORLD around you.

Why do you think welfare and those social programs exist? Everyone doesn’t have supportive family, or family that cares enough to try.

If you were jobless while married and not improving skills, didn’t have an education beforehand, etc you aren’t going to hop into a job/field that will allow you to support a household. The women who can do that seamlessly are the women already had that ball rolling while married.

Let’s be real- if more people were financially successful and responsible there wouldn’t be so much talk about finances and how difficult things are. Plenty of married couples/households are underinsured and “couldn’t afford a $1000 emergency”.
That’s precisely why majority of couples (ALL RACES) have both spouses working.

And Black folks are the brokest in this country. I’m in a fukking bubble and even I know most of the Black folks in this country are living worse than my family/peers.

Most SAHW are not in a position to survive financially if the unthinkable happens, which is why a lot of women end up dating someone new too quickly. NO- that doesn’t mean women start hoing. But it does mean some women factor in finances when they start dating as opposed to being in a position to not worry about that at all.
 

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It is. Considering that the woman is a child's 1st teacher, and our black boys and girls can't even read at grade level.. Then some of these women believe its a teachers job to teach her kid how to read.:what: Nah..
WTF does this have to do with the topic? You want a biitch to work, pay bills and then come home and teach your kids how to read and write? You want a bytch to make your life easier while you do nothing?
 

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*The Coli*

Random Black Woman on Twitter: "I can't be with a broke man that can't take care of all/most of the bills. I'm not tryna be a roommate."

Brehs: "She doesn't want an average man. She will die alone. That's why she'll never get married. Women like her belong to the streets."


:hula:


*Also The Coli*

Random Thread (Made by a man): "What should a couple's finances look like?"

Brehs: "A real man should pay all/most of the bills. Or else she's just a roommate and will never respect you."
 

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I’m a woman, BTW. The point is those things don’t just start the moment a woman’s hubby passes. It’s not about becoming a whore overnight. It’s like y’all don’t see the REAL WORLD around you.

Why do you think welfare and those social programs exist? Everyone doesn’t have supportive family, or family that cares enough to try.

If you were jobless while married and not improving skills, didn’t have an education beforehand, etc you aren’t going to hop into a job/field that will allow you to support a household. The women who can do that seamlessly are the women already had that ball rolling while married.

Let’s be real- if more people were financially successful and responsible there wouldn’t be so much talk about finances and how difficult things are. Plenty of married couples/households are underinsured and “couldn’t afford a $1000 emergency”.
That’s precisely why majority of couples (ALL RACES) have both spouses working.

And Black folks are the brokest in this country. I’m in a fukking bubble and even I know most of the Black folks in this country are living worse than my family/peers.

Most SAHW are not in a position to survive financially if the unthinkable happens, which is why a lot of women end up dating someone new too quickly. NO- that doesn’t mean women start hoing. But it does mean some women factor in finances when they start dating as opposed to being in a position to not worry about that at all.
You being a woman means what exactly? What's stopping her from seeing the real world around her?

Just as many people fleecing that system as their are people who need it. I'd even bet the people who need it ain't getting it.

So only unambitious, uneducated women become widows?

So if working families can't afford bills, single people can't afford bills. then something is wrong and it's not financial literacy.

Based on what?

You just said most married working couples dont have a $1000, So which is it?
 

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WTF does this have to do with the topic? You want a biitch to work, pay bills and then come home and teach your kids how to read and write? You want a bytch to make your life easier while you do nothing?

A bytch s*ck dikk and get nutted in for starters, why you marrying "b*tches"? .

And what the f*ck you mean "while I do nothing"? I've been paying the bulk of the bills in my household for over 20 years. :pachaha: My wife simply adds to whats already established. Im not the one.

It has everything to do with the topic because if she's not at home teaching your kids, what else could she possibly be doing?
 

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A bytch s*ck dikk and get nutted in for starters, why you marrying "b*tches"? .

And what the f*ck you mean "while I do nothing"? I've been paying the bulk of the bills in my household for over 20 years. :pachaha: My wife simply adds to whats already established. Im not the one.

It has everything to do with the topic because if she's not at home teaching your kids, what else could she possibly be doing?
All women suck dikk and get nutted on

If you paying all the bills, then you doing your part, but if you telling her she still needs to work and come and teach the kids, Thats a problem. Teaching the kids and being a homemaker should be her "job".
 

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if you splitting the bills with a woman, that's your roommate.

:hubie:
nikkas be wanting mommy figures out here, then in same breath say they want a woman to obey them and treat them like a king. Ol "baby you got $50 on that light bill, ass nikkas"
Right lol i'm not 'Obeying' someone that I make more than:heh: especially if they need help with their bills that's a scrub
 
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