Rare black female...

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Rare black female...I see the Locker Room still the Locker Room:mjpls:
 

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The shyt really ain't as rare as you think it is.

The main problem is most women you meet don't treat you a certain way cause you're just an average nikka who deserves average treatment :manny:
I keep telling these brehs...its like the platitudes keep getting shifted when I see nikkas posting on this site...yeah there are some bird ass females in this day and age that could burn water with how pitiful they are domestically...yeah they have no aspiration outside of the number of likes and followers on IG in addition to the plethora of other tomc00nery things I can rehash....but at the end of the day most nikkas are equally yoked because they don't set themselves up to any standard worthy of attracting the females we praise all the damn time...

with that said...i personally believe that its still difficult to find girls like this because smart nikkas that have their shyt together snatched them up and as you said...most of the rest of em are average :manny:

not me though... i'm :blessed: and :takedat::noah: at the same damn time:ahh:

:umad: @obarth you got any remixes for the cam smiley?
 

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No it doesn't:pachaha:. And i can think for myself, I dont need a man to lead me:ufdup:.

We both have to put in an equal amount of effort into a relationship and into a household. :manny: I'm about shared responsibilities and delegating tasks when need be :yeshrug:

you'd get thrown in the bushes oh so casually by any man with half a brain...

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Oh you new age women!!

Right!:pachaha: These bruhs want a woman who "knows her place" so they can feel better about themselves and not have to challenge themselves in any way. They want a female to be on some June Clever type ish. My thing is, If I'm just as busy as dude is, why am I the only person expected to cook and clean and do all of this "domestic" ish? I am not interested in a union of those sorts.:scusthov:
 

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Right!:pachaha: These bruhs want a woman who "knows her place" so they can feel better about themselves and not have to challenge themselves in any way. They want a female to be on some June Clever type ish. My thing is, If I'm just as busy as dude is, why am I the only person expected to cook and clean and do all of this "domestic" ish? I am not interested in a union of those sorts.:scusthov:
I don't totally agree with you but I don't disagree with you either. Like I said in another thread, being submissive is not the same as being subservient. And just because a woman is submissive doesn't mean she's being bossed around. I'm all for women being submissive though.
 

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For what? Because I want an equal and not someone who feels the need to exert dominance over me? :what:

has nothing to do with dominance. each gender has unofficial gender roles. if you are laying in bed with your husband and a robber kicks in the door, are you gonna get up, get the gun, and take care of business while your husband cowers under the covers? HELL no. you would EXPECT his ass to get up and get busy. and if he didn't, :camby:. you would EXPECT a dude to get out and change the tire on the car if you are in the car together, whether it's his car or yours. it's unofficial gender roles. we embrace them. and it's not that we want to control you, we just want you to stop fighting it and embrace your nurturing instinct. it's naturally in you to be caring and want to take care of others, but you fight it so you can be more like men. we are born to be protectors, providers, hunters, and leaders. you are born to bear children, be nurturing, and care for and help others. not saying that those roles can't apply to the opposite sex, but let's be real, you are wired by instinct and DNA to just automatically do certain things based on gender. whether or not you choose to accept it is your problem. but don't expect for a REAL man to be cool with it and wife you anyway. you will have to be happy with a punk ass man following your every word or a nikka that will beat you into submission. it would be easier if everyone just played their position. fukk equality....:camby:
 
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Great points. However, I would have to ask the man who is looking for a particular woman to see his value, what kind of woman is she? Yes, most people are shallow and cannot see beyond their own fickle desires. But there are people who appreciate the meat of things.

The things you mention are true, however, some men try to take women who obviously have a low value system and try to make them appreciate something that only a high value woman would appreciate. And a high value man should only spend his time with high value women. Trying to make a woman like K Michelle truly appreciate a Barack Obama would be a challenge, however a Michelle Robinson would fall into place and act accordingly.

I've just seen too many instances where dudes are trying to sell a product to a woman who is not meant for that product. Like selling an Audi A7 to someone who lives in the projects. For example, a lot of "good" black men will complain about black women only wanting thugs. However, if you really look at it, these dudes are trying to get at chicks who are just in a different mind state. Again, its like Barack Obama trying to get at K Michelle and then wondering why she's playing games.

Most of the "rare black female" issues that black men experience would be alleviated by:

1. Being a quality product - dressing well, being groomed, being self-made (own spot, own car, paying own bills, etc), being well spoken, being healthy, having standards and NOT BEING THIRSTY FOR P#SSY OR FEMALE ATTENTION. Now, how many black men fit ALL of these categories at once?

2. Knowing your target market - knowing who looks guys like you. If you're a corporate brotha, then just accept that chicks like Briana Bette, K Michelle and Maliah are not for you and you're not for them. The lifestyles and mentalities simply don't mix. Brothas have a hard time with that because no matter how high a black man gets, he always keeps a few n#gga tendencies i.e. f#cking with big booty hoodrats and attention whores

3. Only selling to your target market - why market an Audi to people who live in the projects? It's a waste of time, money and energy. Focus on the market, middle class and up, who can and will buy your product. These people will appreciate all that went into the making of the product and will have the wherewithal to maintain that product

Peace


Both sexes have their vain conquest.

For men, it's the physical beauty of females.Some dudes can't get pass a cute face and a phat ass.Men, from 50 Cent, to Tiger Woods, want the physically banging female.No matter if's he's corporate, d boy'in, swagged out, or geeked out.That's how you know the values are skewed more on the female side of the equation.Why can't the corporate brother who busted his ass to get where he is and be successful not have access to a Briana Bette or a Maliah? He's a quality product.Well dressed//well spoken//groomed/self made/healthy etc...Why would Briana Bette or Maliah shun a brotha like that? Because Maliah/Briana's value system has them mentally warped in the brain.They'd rather be a celebrity/ d boy side piece. At the same time,I wouldn't make ANY man feel guilty for being attracted to chicks like that.Based on a man's nature, it's only natural.There's nothing wrong with it.The most puzzling thing is why females like that don't see the quality brotha as a good catch?I ask that rhetorically because I already understand why, but why?Females ultimately are the chooser/rewarder.

It seems like every time we talk about this subject(not you, just in general), some people make the mistake of trying to "blur the lines" by equating a man's nature to a females nature.Men are perpetually thirsty!In any natural/straight man, the hunger for sex is damn near just as powerful as the hunger for food.It's something that we're born having to master/conquer.Men are constantly seeking sex/female attention.That's why it's wise to get a wife.It was natures way of giving females the power of persuasion.The problem comes when a man is all sex drive, but lacking cultivation in the more important areas of life.That being said, a man is acting in accordance with his nature if he is led to a woman through his sex drive.Will it keep him there? that's another story.That post nut clarity is a real eye opener.


Vain conquest for females is easy.It's attention seeking & deception(fake hair..eyes..ass..lips...breast..everything etc)/using sex as a weapon/ being attracted to throw away qualities.Having a list of requirements like

Swag
dress nice
"mysterious"
other bytches want him
good father

4 out of 5 of those are throw away "qualities"



The market is shrinking and collapsing in on itself.The masses are asses.The world got us crazy.I'm not saying it's everybody, but I'm starting to think the "path of vain conquest" is the path most traveled.The majority is treading down that muafukka, grass worn out.
 
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