Real Talk, the only kind of woman worth settling down with, is a "pick me."

[Dad]

What's a "pick me"

Some bullshyt only used on the internet

 

[Wild self]

What is the definition of a "pick me" woman?

A woman that spends money on a man

A woman that is cool chilling at the crib

A woman that pays 1/2 of the mortgage and never complains

A woman that never gives into social media trends or engage in ratchedness

 

[HARLEM AL]

She's not direspectful and understands the importance of a man but she advocates for women's rights and doesn't like disrespectful things that attribute to women

She's not disrespectful as long as you are useful to her as a man.

They can't be both. Pick me is what some would say a traditional woman. It was coined as something negative by women to say to another woman. Why grown ass nikkas in here doing mental gymnastics about it I dont know. Stop believing it's about woman just being a servant to a man.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Pick-me's sound good in theory. In the beginning, it starts off the way OP and others imagine it to be but in due time some of them become very controlling, obsessive, and potentially psychotic on some Glenn Close fatal attraction or Lynn Winfield shyt especially if you aren't returning that same kind of obsessive love and attention back.

 

[Aceofspades404]

So you afraid if a man gets with a female simp, it would force all other women to step up? By all means men in general will step up, but a woman tricking on a man will only increase on the loyalty.

This literally doesn't happen in real life
You really think an attractive woman with options would trick on a man? like do you live on earth?

 

[Wild self]

This literally doesn't happen in real life
You really think an attractive woman with options would trick on a man? like do you live on earth?

That never happens?

Because I'm a living testament of above average look in women giving me money cause they really liked me.

Go outside of America. They exist. And Even within America, they are cherished.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Na, i won't. Just say you like fake characters.

A chick who act like she aint got her own mind is a dangerous bytch. I know better...
But like i said yall can love on them sneaky hoes if u want

That's not what a pick me is.

But I know better than you. I believe women will do whatever it is they FEEL. If she feels like being a good woman she will. If she feels like being a bytch she will. Knowing that I choose to deal with women when and how I deal with them. I'm neither hate them or love them. I just accept women for who they are. If a dudes wants to have himself a shorty I'm all for it. Just get with someone that compatible to what it is you want to do.

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

Scared that a woman that spends $$$ on a man gonna make you look bad?

If you were a “high value male” getting tricked on wouldn’t even be a foreign concept to you. Cuz boss bytches drop racks on fly nikkas all the time. Look at Ari and Jayda.

Y’all just be telling on y’all selves and where you stand in life, based on the topics y’all talk about.

 

[African Peasant]

if a woman is using 'pick me' in a derogative way, bush her.

They label a pick me any women who act traditionally aka understands her role.

 

[TNC]

This was something my ex didn't understand. She hated that I watched KS and oshay vids. I told her she wasn't marriage material, she wasn't bad she just wasn't wife oriented. Come to find out she has two solid brothers in committed relationships and her father was in her life. She dated solid brothers so I didn't understand where this resentment came from.

KS has a video on this, basically the warped psychology of some women believe that submitting to a man is akin to losing.

 

[Wild self]

If you were a “high value male” getting tricked on wouldn’t even be a foreign concept to you. Cuz boss bytches drop racks on fly nikkas all the time. Look at Ari and Jayda.

Y’all just be telling on y’all selves and where you stand in life, based on the topics y’all talk about.

You seem mad for me even making this topic.

 

[HARLEM AL]

This literally doesn't happen in real life
You really think an attractive woman with options would trick on a man? like do you live on earth?

But they do though.....

 

[Wild self]

But they do though.....

People are brainwashed into thinking that men gotta be slaves to p*ssy.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

We have to be clear on what a pick-me is

"I enjoy staying at home and doing housework instead of working in corporate America. I value my relationship with my husband and I agree with his decisions and trust his decision making. That works for me"

That isn't a pickme.

A pickme would be more like:

"I almost feel sorry for you stank hoes with no man. Real women wear makeup to look good for their man, and never ever talk back to him. You bitter bytches stay mad that a man wants a woman who ain't busted it open for the world to see or who ain't had trains run on her lol"

The issue is the pickme finds it necessary to shyt on other women to make themselves more interesting. Its the same as those simps who claim they are better men because they have no problem raising a kid who isn't theirs or they don't ask questions when a woman is gone overnight and doesn't tell him where she went.

 

[Arithmetic]