I keep reading/hearing black men and women complain about certain dynamics within the black family. "Black mothers raise their sons to be simps and subservient to the women in our community "- Black Men. "Black mothers coddle and enable their sons fukkboi behavior, treating them like princes who can do no wrong while daughters get treated like peasants"- Black Women. "Black fathers are extinct ". "Black fathers teach toxic masculinity to their sons ". "Black father's are too strict on their daughters which causes them to go wild and be thots when they get older/independent ". "Black parents are abusive" "Black parents don't discipline enough". I know all parents are not created equal and Every family has issues from time to time. It just seems like a lot of resentment from both ends. I just got finished reading an article where a black woman said that her mother raised her to be distrustful of other women and that's the reason why her relationships don't work out lol. It's kinda like a damned if you do and damned if you don't situation for the black family. Is it just me?.