"Seeing me be loved out loud by a white man as a DSBW resonates with my community; it heals the world."

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You mad cuz big mama lied to you. That has nothing to do with the rest of us. I can assure you, every bm I've ever known, from 9 to 99, was about that mf'ing guap.

Tf? I mean, were you also unaware that money pays bills? :what:


'Dealing with' is whatever. Being the male version of that bytch is probably not what you want. You're over-correcting.


:mjlol: Because it's bullshyt. Do male c00ns override the existence of bm who love bw? The wm (and the wm's algorithm) will naturally boost that which he finds pleasing.

Let me explain a finer point that seems to have been neglected in your upbringing (no disrespect, I'm sure they poured into you in other ways, making you the man you are today). People in general don't 'stick with their race' out of a sense of martyrdom. People stick with their race for reasons of comfort and culture and family integration, but you still need money bc bills won't pay themselves.

Are you telling me that bm are being raised without this information? That actually explains a lot, like why bm get resentful when bw want what every other woman wants (security for the babies he surely intends to implant in her womb).
Listen I don't put Knowledge before Wisdom and I don't ever not put Black over white.

I don't know if you notice but I always capitalize Black and lower case white, If you look at random US writing usually you'll see it the other way around just like negative things are called Black and postive things are called white

That is a core belief of mines so no matter who I dated I couldn't do what this goof did even if I were married for 50 years.

As for things that Black Men were told by their momma's I never heard one brehette on here saying that they had or would date *not fukk a white boy. So if we were to take what brehettes say on here at face value as the truth it would be shocking to hear a Black woman talk like this which is why these threads always go plat,
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shyt even the brehette who doesn't seem to like Black Men on here claimed to never dated a white guy.
 

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I was coming back around to say this!!! Athletic Black boys have no issue dating white girls in school because everyone’s trained to see them as future pro athletes :mjlol:
Black girls aren’t getting dates because they made the volleyball team
but the vast majority never go pro. I walked on at my Division II school not one of us ever played professionally
 

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Black girls are sometimes called golddiggers for wanting the things that are offered as bare minimum to women in other groups.
I'ma be honest, I think we lack finesse in this area. Our culture is too upfront to be sneaky. We don't have the necessary guile to quietly 'turn his head.'I made a point to study and follow other women's model on this and I think I've been successful (to the degree that a Scorpio man can be 'herded', lol).

Bm don't realize how lucky they are. We could be a lot more dangerous. Instead, they run to the sneakiest bytches of them all, all the while announcing to the world just how thoroughly they were fooled. "Most loyal"??! :mjlol:
 

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It’s almost like they giving us infinite reasons to Pawg at this point:blessed:
Yo the sole reason this is even a discussion here is because of the need for the reachback.

If Black americans moved like Latin americans and white americans didn't move like latins Black women would be overcooked.

what saves them over here is proximity ( good luck on finding a whitey in 95% Black Qiubdo) and what saves them over here is shaming Black Men and secrecy in the states.
 

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:mjlol:

Sorry. Continue. :hubie:
We agree than Men and women are different. I don't want to argue and to the extent that you "get mad" ( I never heard you say anything) about pawging shyt don't matter. Accountable Commentary could say The Reachback 5million times most Black people who get married will be married to Black people and that's including Black women who are single mothers.

You got it.
 

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I'ma be honest, I think we lack finesse in this area. Our culture is too upfront to be sneaky. We don't have the necessary guile to quietly 'turn his head.'I made a point to study and follow other women's model on this and I think I've been successful (to the degree that a Scorpio man can be 'herded', lol).

Bm don't realize how lucky they are. We could be a lot more dangerous. Instead, they run to the sneakiest bytches of them all, all the while announcing to the world just how thoroughly they were fooled. "Most loyal"??! :mjlol:
Oh I know :russ:


I’ve said many times that Black women don’t have game. A lot aren’t taught how to use our “womanly wiles” until it’s damn near too late. It’s like it’s taboo for older Black women to talk to you about this shyt until you’re old yourself.


I had one aunt literally wait until I was like 30 to say “well you were born beautiful, you can just use your looks you’re fine”. Like, would it have been a crime to say that explicitly when I was like 18 or 20?! :deadrose:
Black folks don’t like seeing young Black women use looks and sexuality like other girls, but then wonder why so many fall for game and get knocked up by the wrong guys. SMH
 

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I'ma be honest, I think we lack finesse in this area. Our culture is too upfront to be sneaky. We don't have the necessary guile to quietly 'turn his head.'I made a point to study and follow other women's model on this and I think I've been successful (to the degree that a Scorpio man can be 'herded', lol).

Bm don't realize how lucky they are. We could be a lot more dangerous. Instead, they run to the sneakiest bytches of them all, all the while announcing to the world just how thoroughly they were fooled. "Most loyal"??! :mjlol:
I'd also say this is because a Black woman doesn't feel like she has to finesse a Black Man.

Shorty could have a "past" and 50 kids by white dudes and if she's halfway cute and got a phatty all will be forgiven,

That guile is when she deals with a MAGA screaming Make america great again with a smile.

No stop telling Black women to smile over there.
 
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Also just another example of why this "colorism" debate is pointless and should be ignored or taken with a grain of salt by BM.

At the end of the day, its been revealed that some of these women really just want validation from white men over all :francis:

They literally say it out loud, very openly, unprovoked. It's to a point where even other BW have started to recognize it and can't even blame BM anymore

Plus the whole setup is wild because she’s carrying on like a Make A Wish kid.
 

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but the vast majority never go pro. I walked on at my Division II school not one of us ever played professionally
I said trained to see you as FUTURE PRO ATHLETES

Cacs don’t know which one of yall that will be so you get a chance to crack Becky because her family is telling her you might make it one day :comeon::beli:
 

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If Black americans moved like Latin americans and white americans didn't move like latins Black women would be overcooked.

what saves them over here is proximity ( good luck on finding a whitey in 95% Black Qiubdo) and what saves them over here is shaming Black Men and secrecy in the states.
I don't ever not put Black over white.
:mjlol: Yes, I feel the love.

Ftr, this type of talk is what led to bw saying the most egregious, disgusting shyt I ever heard in my life (I won't repeat it.) You're very blithely calling every FBA woman a wildebeest who can only get men through chicanery, the very worst thing you could say about a woman. Do you even realize it? What you're doing is the equivalent of FBA women broadcasting to the world that yall got internationally-ranked small peen, when we know it's not true, and no such contest has ever been held. You're debasing us in the worst way.
 
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