Serious question for the married men on the coli...

[Clayton Endicott]

I should've put this in my initial post but I will as it now.

Do yall cheat on your wives or ever have?

No I don't or haven't cheated on her. She and my kids don't deserve that. No lie, I got a pretty good thing going with the old gal, and it would be pretty shytty and selfish of me to fukk all of that and my babies' lives over a nut with some strange. Now granted, I get hit on all the time especially at work but I take it in stride and KIM. It's a nice ego boost but that's waaaay too slippery of a slope since my job is notorious for fukking marriages up. It is nice to know the kid still got it tho

 

[Family Man]

How young?

Got married at 23. Been with my wife since 18/19. I'm 33 now.

 

[Giselle]

no.. this is how u don't get hurt.. cuz eventually you will get hurt dealing with bytches

So, that's a no you are single or no you aren't scary?

If you're still single, for you, that means you're still scary.

If you aren't single anymore, congrats! You're growing. How long did it take you to stop being scary and say something to her?

But Judging from the last part of your post, it sounds like you're still single and scary. lol

When will you be honest with yourself?

damn bro. tell us what happened. we are here for you

LOL

Nothing happened to him, he's just scared of girls and relationships. & rejection.

 

[Giselle]

Got married at 23. Been with my wife since 18/19. I'm 33 now.

Congrats! Your user name fits you well. lol

No I don't or haven't cheated on her. She and my kids don't deserve that. No lie, I got a pretty good thing going with the old gal, and it would be pretty shytty and selfish of me to fukk all of that and my babies' lives over a nut with some strange. Now granted, I get hit on all the time especially at work but I take it in stride and KIM. It's a nice ego boost but that's waaaay too slippery of a slope since my job is notorious for fukking marriages up. It is nice to know the kid still got it tho

Aww

My married life is full of drama, ups and downs, good times & bad times and even though it's hard at times, being surrounded by the women in my life and my kids at night make it all worth it. I can't tell another man if marriage is worth it because all situations are different but for me, it's the only thing.

Eww. I had to undap you. I just remembered who you are

I can't believe that your pregnant wife is still with you and living/taking care of you and your pregnant mistress.

 

[Quiet Magician]

After seeing what happened to my Uncle and older cousin getting raped in the divorce, ya I am going to take my time and not rush to get married.

 

[Mowgli]

Now I know there's this whole notion of GMB and HOH on this site, but that tends to come up when we read about a woman cheating on her man or one who takes all the money from him. My question is intended to "normal" married couples.

Do you recommend marriage? If you could back, would you still get married?

Not that I have a woman in my life. but the problem I have is almost every married couple I see seem "fed up". They argue over the dumbest things, constantly. They don't seem happy. Life is basically the same routine. They gotta wake up early to make lunches for the kid and drop them off at daycare, school, grandma, work etc. It seems there's nothing fun going on in the lives of the spouses. They don't got time for the movies, restaurant, vacation, get together with friends, etc. They're tired of life and just lay back at home. Just order the other one around to get milk and the diapers.

Not that I'm a super savage, but how do you wake up every morning for the rest of your life to the same woman? Both physically and emotionally? After a while she might fall off in looks, but importantly, 10, 15, 20 years from now... what are the chances she'll be the same person you chose to get married with?

Do you cheat on your wife or ever have?

Things that cross my mind.

I only recommend marriage if your woman


COOKS
CLEANS
AND OBEYS 90 PERCENT OF YOUR COMMANDS

And marry slim because having a handful of gut while getting no blow jobs is going to make you wonder where you went wrong in life


Trust me you gonna wanna shoot yourself if and be one of those married porn addicted losers in JBO acting like you don't have a million kids at home and a battle axe for a spouse while you lust after prostitutes you will never fukk.

If you want to fukk every woman you meet and actively try to do so don't get married because you will get divorced

Other then that it's great just take what I said to heart

 

[Techniec]

Now I know there's this whole notion of GMB and HOH on this site, but that tends to come up when we read about a woman cheating on her man or one who takes all the money from him. My question is intended to "normal" married couples.

Do you recommend marriage? If you could back, would you still get married?

Not that I have a woman in my life. but the problem I have is almost every married couple I see seem "fed up". They argue over the dumbest things, constantly. They don't seem happy. Life is basically the same routine. They gotta wake up early to make lunches for the kid and drop them off at daycare, school, grandma, work etc. It seems there's nothing fun going on in the lives of the spouses. They don't got time for the movies, restaurant, vacation, get together with friends, etc. They're tired of life and just lay back at home. Just order the other one around to get milk and the diapers.

Not that I'm a super savage, but how do you wake up every morning for the rest of your life to the same woman? Both physically and emotionally? After a while she might fall off in looks, but importantly, 10, 15, 20 years from now... what are the chances she'll be the same person you chose to get married with?

Do you cheat on your wife or ever have?

Things that cross my mind.

Bruh it all depends on YOU and the woman you CHOSE to be your WIFE

She can be your QUEEN, that great woman to hold you down and have your back

or she can be a bytch, who will destroy your life

That married life can be

Coming home to heavenly meals


Getting consistent p*ssy


That double income life


Having a best friend to have your back for life

 

[NoChillJones]

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Now I know there's this whole notion of GMB and HOH on this site, but that tends to come up when we read about a woman cheating on her man or one who takes all the money from him. My question is intended to "normal" married couples.

Do you recommend marriage? If you could back, would you still get married?

Not that I have a woman in my life. but the problem I have is almost every married couple I see seem "fed up". They argue over the dumbest things, constantly. They don't seem happy. Life is basically the same routine. They gotta wake up early to make lunches for the kid and drop them off at daycare, school, grandma, work etc. It seems there's nothing fun going on in the lives of the spouses. They don't got time for the movies, restaurant, vacation, get together with friends, etc. They're tired of life and just lay back at home. Just order the other one around to get milk and the diapers.

Not that I'm a super savage, but how do you wake up every morning for the rest of your life to the same woman? Both physically and emotionally? After a while she might fall off in looks, but importantly, 10, 15, 20 years from now... what are the chances she'll be the same person you chose to get married with?

Do you cheat on your wife or ever have?

Things that cross my mind.

It all depends, me and my wife have been married for almost 3 years now. But have been together for 10. We have had some drag out arguments and still do. But I wouldn't trade her for the world. Its good to know that if all else fails she will be there, and vice versa. Monogamy has never been an issue for me. I 've had my fair share of women. While some are better then others, p*ssy is p*ssy for the most part. And a lot of the tail I got there was no connection just mutual understandings and friend ships, which is cool. But when I fell on hard times, there was no one to pick a nikka back up, and I was missing that. So yeah, its a battle to stay married because there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Life can become stagnant, sex will decline, and life becomes all about money and work. But the pros are you get a life long partner that you know like the back of your hand. You know her weaknesses and her strengths. You know what moves her and what upsets her and you two get to grow together.

Whatever you do though, don't rush into it. Take the time to get to know who you are marrying. That way when you cross that threshold there is no surprises. You pretty much already know what you are getting. And if you can live with your woman for at least 2-3 years before you do it. I know so many people who got married like a year after they met. Never really lived with each other and things fell apart quickly. Because they didn't know who the hell they were marrying. Take your vows seriously. And commit to them for life. Regardless of the hardships, work to stay together. That's the key to a long marriage. Honor those vows.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Now I know there's this whole notion of GMB and HOH on this site, but that tends to come up when we read about a woman cheating on her man or one who takes all the money from him. My question is intended to "normal" married couples.

Do you recommend marriage? If you could back, would you still get married?

Not that I have a woman in my life. but the problem I have is almost every married couple I see seem "fed up". They argue over the dumbest things, constantly. They don't seem happy. Life is basically the same routine. They gotta wake up early to make lunches for the kid and drop them off at daycare, school, grandma, work etc. It seems there's nothing fun going on in the lives of the spouses. They don't got time for the movies, restaurant, vacation, get together with friends, etc. They're tired of life and just lay back at home. Just order the other one around to get milk and the diapers.

Not that I'm a super savage, but how do you wake up every morning for the rest of your life to the same woman? Both physically and emotionally? After a while she might fall off in looks, but importantly, 10, 15, 20 years from now... what are the chances she'll be the same person you chose to get married with?

Do you cheat on your wife or ever have?

Things that cross my mind.

Married after a year of dating. Figured I reached the pinnacle of my ability to attract a female.

I would not get married if I could do it all over again.
Nor do I recommend anyone else get married...There is way too much compromise.
I realize that the comfort and stability that I enjoy daily are all due to my wife's support and encouragement, but I've sacrificed all of my personal freedoms and personal life goals in order to be "married". The daily routine gets stale real fukking quick. You don't go out anymore, your friends leave, your family leaves, you can't be yourself, you can't just have a quiet moment, work becomes more fun than being home, being home is nothing but a chore or complete boredom, you have a permanent attachment to a boring person all weekend that's so bad that you yearn to go back to work on monday, the only thing you really have going for you after a while is being able to say you're with someone and stable.
Then once you're in you can't leave or you're back broke and poor or in jail for murder.
It's not worth it.
If you don't get married in the first place, you avoid all this bullshyt.

I would rather go back to making 40k a year and living in a ratty studio apartment, interacting with my blood family on the regular and enjoying all that life has to offer, rather than living a complacent safe excitement devoid life of stability and boredom.

I'm not driven by looks or p*ssy so I don't have any desire to cheat on my wife or give in to other females chasing me, I only want back what I was born with...

My fukkin freedom to live...

CONS:
I'm never going to get my college degree
I'm never gonna have a new car
I'm never gonna see the world outside of this country
I'm never gonna work the jobs I want to
I'm never gonna have sex again
I'm never gonna meet new people
I'm never gonna make new friends
I'm never gonna take another road trip
I'm never gonna do anything significant with my life from here on out

PROS:
Stability
Bragging rights over being married longer than anyone I knew
Someone has my back constantly
Love
My kid
Tax breaks

 

[Techniec]

Keys to marriage

- Open communication: Don't hide shyt, get it out in the open, confront and move on
- Deal with problems as they arise: You get mad at your woman and ignore her for more than a few hours,
- Keep the love making as exciting as you can (decline is inevitable)
- Make sure yall keep independent friends (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD MAKE SURE SHE GOT HER OWN FRIENDS)
- Make sure yall keep active and fit and have hobbies yall can do together and alone
- Be open to constructive criticism and be willing to always improve yaself

 

[Ghost Utmost]

@Wise don't waste your time Breh.

People are way too selfish to be married these days. All that sucky shyt is part of the territory but instead of gutting it out, y'all think that things should be perfect and comfy all the time so you flee.

I think it's the healthiest thing for kids, but no one cares about kids anymore. Just drop em off with whoever will take them for the weekend and pray the time goes slow.

 

[Phitz]

If I lived in America I wouldn't get married. When I was there, the relationships alone looked more competitive than companion. Alot of faulty connections.

 

[Verbal Kint]

Married after a year of dating. Figured I reached the pinnacle of my ability to attract a female.

I would not get married if I could do it all over again.
Nor do I recommend anyone else get married...There is way too much compromise.
I realize that the comfort and stability that I enjoy daily are all due to my wife's support and encouragement, but I've sacrificed all of my personal freedoms and personal life goals in order to be "married". The daily routine gets stale real fukking quick. You don't go out anymore, your friends leave, your family leaves, you can't be yourself, you can't just have a quiet moment, work becomes more fun than being home, being home is nothing but a chore or complete boredom, you have a permanent attachment to a boring person all weekend that's so bad that you yearn to go back to work on monday, the only thing you really have going for you after a while is being able to say you're with someone and stable.
Then once you're in you can't leave or you're back broke and poor or in jail for murder.
It's not worth it.
If you don't get married in the first place, you avoid all this bullshyt.

I would rather go back to making 40k a year and living in a ratty studio apartment, interacting with my blood family on the regular and enjoying all that life has to offer, rather than living a complacent safe excitement devoid life of stability and boredom.

I'm not driven by looks or p*ssy so I don't have any desire to cheat on my wife or give in to other females chasing me, I only want back what I was born with...

My fukkin freedom to live...

CONS:
I'm never going to get my college degree
I'm never gonna have a new car
I'm never gonna see the world outside of this country
I'm never gonna work the jobs I want to
I'm never gonna have sex again
I'm never gonna meet new people
I'm never gonna make new friends
I'm never gonna take another road trip
I'm never gonna do anything significant with my life from here on out

PROS:
Stability
Bragging rights over being married longer than anyone I knew
Someone has my back constantly
Love
My kid
Tax breaks

Dog you've got 1 kid and sound like you hate your life. All those cons you listed have nothing to do with marriage and more to do with whatever messed up way you've structured your life. Marriage in no way stops you from doing any of those things and in many ways improves your ability to do them. Sounds like you just have a bad relationship tbh. I not only make new friends but I drive 5 hours home periodically to kick it with my day 1's. My wife and I have fun together but also give each other space to have fun apart from each other. We just went to Africa last summer with our first born. You just need to improve your relationship homie

 

[Elle Driver]

It all depends, me and my wife have been married for almost 3 years now. But have been together for 10. We have had some drag out arguments and still do. But I wouldn't trade her for the world. Its good to know that if all else fails she will be there, and vice versa. Monogamy has never been an issue for me. I 've had my fair share of women. While some are better then others, p*ssy is p*ssy for the most part. And a lot of the tail I got there was no connection just mutual understandings and friend ships, which is cool. But when I fell on hard times, there was no one to pick a nikka back up, and I was missing that. So yeah, its a battle to stay married because there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Life can become stagnant, sex will decline, and life becomes all about money and work. But the pros are you get a life long partner that you know like the back of your hand. You know her weaknesses and her strengths. You know what moves her and what upsets her and you two get to grow together.

Whatever you do though, don't rush into it. Take the time to get to know who you are marrying. That way when you cross that threshold there is no surprises. You pretty much already know what you are getting. And if you can live with your woman for at least 2-3 years before you do it. I know so many people who got married like a year after they met. Never really lived with each other and things fell apart quickly. Because they didn't know who the hell they were marrying. Take your vows seriously. And commit to them for life. Regardless of the hardships, work to stay together. That's the key to a long marriage. Honor those vows.

Why do you suggest living together for 2-3 years before marriage? It's folks who say the opposite

 

[TNOT]

Keys to marriage

- Open communication: Don't hide shyt, get it out in the open, confront and move on
- Deal with problems as they arise: You get mad at your woman and ignore her for more than a few hours,
- Keep the love making as exciting as you can (decline is inevitable)
- Make sure yall keep independent friends (FOR THE LOVE OF GOD MAKE SURE SHE GOT HER OWN FRIENDS)
- Make sure yall keep active and fit and have hobbies yall can do together and alone
- Be open to constructive criticism and be willing to always improve yaself

Listen to this man

Little things make all difference in your sex life. Don't be afraid to tell your wife your fantasies and encourage her to share hers with you .


Having kids changes a lot, especially sexually. You have to be patient, really patient, lol

No more sex all over the house, especially when they start walking


Want to get that midday quickie in while the kids are napping

"Is the monitor on? Close the door!

Crossing your fingers while smashing, hoping your five year old don't open the door and ask for a squeezie yogurt

You got to be flexible brehs