Serious Question: Why are introverted people vilified?

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I avoid groups, especially at work. Going out with coworkers can be the WOAT experiences. :snoop: You get that gossip chatty patty talk which I hate. If you're someone I'm cool with I can't stand around to watch you get slandered while you can't defend yourself. It feels lame to talk shyt about people, If I got a problem with a person, I'll take them aside and hash it out in private. Another reason why I keep to myself.
On my life i hate gossip but i hate it more when im involved n i didnt do anything :francis:
 

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This is just something that has been on my mind for a minute and I really do not have anyone that is willing to have a serious discussion about it with.

Sometimes my friends say stuff like, "Before I met you, I thought you were stuck up/mean/weird/etc. because you were so quiet. But you're a cool guy!" :krs:

I'm just like :childplease:

Really? Really? Because someone is okay with not having to talk just to hear themselves talk, they are stuck up all of a sudden?

Even in the workplace, the people that usually get promoted are the ones with exceptional social skills. And the ones who actually know their job but are quiet are treated :flabbynsick:.

It's almost 12 PM and I'm already tipsy, so I figured I'd ask the Coli brethren and brethrenettes (?) about their experiences about this




being introverted, antisocial or quiet are three different things, and many people confuse one with the other...



9 times out of 10 some idiot that decides to go to his school/work with an ak47 and randomly kill everyone is an introvert...
 

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If I get comfortable around you I won't be so quiet but that takes a minute.
:ohlawd: my nikka you ain't never lie.

if i don't fukk with you, i don't know you, i am not comfortable around you i won't open up but once those things are cleared i will talk ya fauckin ear off


and it takes me a REALLY long time to warm up to people, anywhere from 6 months to a year
 

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Most of the time the flack I get is from people whose identities revolve heavily around cliques. They put so much work into building their image around being associated with people that it kills them to see those that are genuinely content with themselves.
 

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And also, being introverted doesn't mean that you are a quiet loner. It means that you prefer to be alone, like that saying that you "feel alone in a crowd full of people". Thought I should reiterate that.
This is kinda bullshyt y'all nikkas scarred to talk to people in person because if you preferred to be alone y'all wouldn't find yourselves on here interacting with folks. Y'all would be chillin offline solo. People are full of stuff nowadays
 
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