On my life i hate gossip but i hate it more when im involved n i didnt do anythingI avoid groups, especially at work. Going out with coworkers can be the WOAT experiences. You get that gossip chatty patty talk which I hate. If you're someone I'm cool with I can't stand around to watch you get slandered while you can't defend yourself. It feels lame to talk shyt about people, If I got a problem with a person, I'll take them aside and hash it out in private. Another reason why I keep to myself.
This is just something that has been on my mind for a minute and I really do not have anyone that is willing to have a serious discussion about it with.
Sometimes my friends say stuff like, "Before I met you, I thought you were stuck up/mean/weird/etc. because you were so quiet. But you're a cool guy!"
I'm just like
Really? Really? Because someone is okay with not having to talk just to hear themselves talk, they are stuck up all of a sudden?
Even in the workplace, the people that usually get promoted are the ones with exceptional social skills. And the ones who actually know their job but are quiet are treated .
It's almost 12 PM and I'm already tipsy, so I figured I'd ask the Coli brethren and brethrenettes (?) about their experiences about this
my nikka you ain't never lie.If I get comfortable around you I won't be so quiet but that takes a minute.
This is kinda bullshyt y'all nikkas scarred to talk to people in person because if you preferred to be alone y'all wouldn't find yourselves on here interacting with folks. Y'all would be chillin offline solo. People are full of stuff nowadaysAnd also, being introverted doesn't mean that you are a quiet loner. It means that you prefer to be alone, like that saying that you "feel alone in a crowd full of people". Thought I should reiterate that.