Serious Question: Why are introverted people vilified?

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try to diagnose yourself with a medical disorder because u a scared loser brehs
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In some cases it's truly a mental issues though man :francis:

I had a heart to heart talk with my mom last night about going to see a psychiatrist :wow:

I had to tell my mother when my brother got :wow:

Has nothing to do with being scared...I legit find it hard to be around people for long or to care about their emotions. :francis:

This is kinda bullshyt y'all nikkas scarred to talk to people in person because if you preferred to be alone y'all wouldn't find yourselves on here interacting with folks. Y'all would be chillin offline solo. People are full of stuff nowadays
Too many black people have this type of thinking.



Black people aren't allowed to have mental issues..:francis:

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This is kinda bullshyt y'all nikkas scarred to talk to people in person because if you preferred to be alone y'all wouldn't find yourselves on here interacting with folks. Y'all would be chillin offline solo. People are full of stuff nowadays
Nobody is scared some people really dont like fukking with ppl like that
 

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Nobody is scared some people really dont like fukking with ppl like that
Sounds good but you can't do the same things the "extroverts" do but in a different way (aka being on here interacting with people) and claim your Ohhh soo different and don't like interaction. This is the same thing to me just a different medium. Also this is an online discussion nobody (esp another dude ime) gives a fukk if a nikka don't say shyt offline that they aren't already cool with. They don't care at all so that's another reason why this topic is funny on here when it comes up. I think a lot of cats imagining things tbh.
 

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Sounds good but you can't do the same things the "extroverts" do but in a different way (aka being on here interacting with people) and claim your Ohhh soo different and don't like interaction. This is the same thing to me just a different medium. Also this is an online discussion nobody (esp another dude ime) gives a fukk if a nikka don't say shyt offline that they aren't already cool with. They don't care at all so that's another reason why this topic is funny on here when it comes up. I think a lot of cats imagining things tbh.

That's a lie breh, nobody ever said introverts don't like interaction (everyone needs human interaction), introverts pick and choose their spots carefully when they interact with people. I'm an extreme introvert and I love interacting with other people, that's why I'm on here all the time. But the difference is that I only interact when there's something that I find interesting and then I'm done talking. If I don't feel like I have anything to add to a conversation then I won't interact. Extroverts interact just for the hell of it because they draw their energy from being around other people . :yeshrug:
 

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In some cases it's truly a mental issues though man :francis:

I had a heart to heart talk with my mom last night about going to see a psychiatrist :wow:

I had to tell my mother when my brother got his concussion a few months back I didn't really care and actually wanted to be left alone and not talk to him or her on the phone,and that I was dreading on coming home because i'd rather be by myself. :wow:

Has nothing to do with being scared...I legit find it hard to be around people for long or to care about their emotions. :francis:


Too many black people have this type of thinking.



Black people aren't allowed to have mental issues..:francis:

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To be honest you're allowed to have whatever you want the problem is cats think everybody has to agree with them. I don't and many black people don't have this type of thinking because this isn't even really talked about and or worried about either. Most people to,worried about theirselves to worry about why somebody wanna be quiet. They just don't fukk with them ime so that's why its confusing when people online have completely different experiences from anything most people experience offline. Now if you are at an event where people are supposed to be social I'll say then people might try more if they know you to interact more but a stranger or continually trying I don't see it. If you that type of person they just won't invite you out anymore. That's what happens way more often.


That's a lie breh, nobody ever said introverts don't like interaction (everyone needs human interaction), introverts pick and choose their spots carefully when they interact with people. I'm an extreme introvert and I love interacting with other people, that's why I'm on here all the time. But the difference is that I only interact when there's something that I find interesting and then I'm done talking. Extroverts interact just for the hell of it because they draw their energy from being around other people . :yeshrug:
You can't say its a lie when people in here like they rather chill with books, smoke, and not talk to people. That sounds of somebody that don't want interaction fam. Also all this stuff after the first sentence I already said myself regarding being on here. Also most people period are like what you described as far as interacting with cats so I don't get the point of trying to branch off. Lastly interaction is interaction no matter how you do it to me. If you love interaction you're not different than extroverts because you don't do it like them IMO.
 

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Your work colleague is just trying to be nice man. Although it comes off as being corny.
I guess what a lot of introverts don't know is that at a basic level --speaking to etiqutte in social situations -- sometimes you have to take the L and make an effort with people.
Being an introvert is fine but you should try to improve how you deal with people or rather how you interact with them. It only takes a little effort, and if anything that's the least you could do for other people. Imagine how you come across with this attitude that you need to go recharge instead of taking a little time to just say hello.

I definitely understand your point. Thing is, I do say "Hello" - all the time, and "How are you doing today". I just keep it at the pleasantries and move on.

The guy had a mocking, bitter undertone to the statement, though. Really rubbed me the wrong way.
 

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To be honest you're allowed to have whatever you want the problem is cats think everybody has to agree with them. I don't and many black people don't have this type of thinking because this isn't even really talked about and or worried about either. Most people to,worried about theirselves to worry about why somebody wanna be quiet. They just don't fukk with them ime so that's why its confusing when people online have completely different experiences from anything most people experience offline. Now if you are at an event where people are supposed to be social I'll say then people might try more if they know you to interact more but a stranger or continually trying I don't see it. If you that type of person they just won't invite you out anymore. That's what happens way more often.


You can't say its a lie when people in here like they rather chill with books, smoke, and not talk to people. That sounds of somebody that don't want interaction fam. Also all this stuff after the first sentence I already said myself regarding being on here. Also most people period are like what you described as far as interacting with cats so I don't get the point of trying to branch off. Lastly interaction is interaction no matter how you do it to me. If you love interaction you're not different than extroverts because you don't do it like them IMO.
Interaction is interaction I agree, but not everybody needs the same amount of it. That's where the difference between Extroverts and Introverts comes to play. :yeshrug:
An introvert may hang out with his friends but most of the time they prefer being home and to their self. While an Extrovert might stay in the house a few times but mostly they're out hanging with other people
 

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Interaction is interaction I agree, but not everybody needs the same amount of it. That's where the difference between Extroverts and Introverts comes to play. :yeshrug:
An introvert may hang out with his friends but most of the time they prefer being home and to their self. While an Extrovert might stay in the house a few times but mostly they're out hanging with other people
I guess my disagreement is yeah they may not go outside (I personally think they are shy and or insecure) but in the house doing the same thing almost as if your outside is no different. Just because you don't go outside if your like a lot of cats that are on here a lot and don't go outside this is the fix for "going out". Your still interacting in your own way so that's why I feel more often than not its that people are shy and or insecure and that's why they don't like interaction in the real world and prefer to get it online nowadays. That's what I think but most aren't going to admit they are shy and or insecure about stuff that would have them interact online instead of offline more.

At worst we can agree to disagree but appreciate having a back and forth that is civil.
 

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I definitely understand your point. Thing is, I do say "Hello" - all the time, and "How are you doing today". I just keep it at the pleasantries and move on.

The guy had a mocking, bitter undertone to the statement, though. Really rubbed me the wrong way.

ah okay fair enough. sounds like dude was patronizing you. fair enough. didn't know that b!
 
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