Serious Question: Why are introverted people vilified?

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Im a corporate trainer, and prolly one of the most introverted people you can encounter. Im charismatic as shyt and im incredible in the classroom, have bagged countless hoes after my sessions. However, I really cant stand most people. I don't have any social media shyt. I don't care about popular culture or whatever, don't care about phones new trends fads yada yada . I find that shyt trivial as shyt. I have a couple of friends and my regular girl who is also introverted. I like to talk about real life issues like history geography politics religion science nature etc. Because im young and handsome and a trainer, people think they can just approach me whenever and expect me to be "on" . But nah fukk that. So obviously, im labeled by my colleagues as a dikk, a twat, a c*nt, smug, arrogant, angry, what have you and it has limited my potential. I still make around 100K a yr so that's enough for me and I aint changing for nobody:pacspit:
 

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People are insecure with quietness. They want to know why you are quiet, why you don't want to talk to them. Some project their insecurities on you. "Oh he is quiet because he thinks he is better than me. Oh he must think I'm ____., He is over there silently judging me"

Also people are just nosy.
I heard all of this before. And it's funny because I don't even be thinking about these people in the slightest.
 

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Honestly most introverts I encounter get ignored by most people and are usually seen as weird. I use to be introverted but I actively took myself out it with a lot of effort. Life has improved tremendously. Being antisocial isn't an attractive trait no matter how you spin it.
Facts

Introvert is really cheating yourself
 

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Because people think introversion and social anxiety disorders are the same thing. Introverts go outside, experience life and talk to people etc. We just need peace, quiet and alone time to recharge, THAT'S IT. People make it so complicated when it's not
 

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I have never had an issue with introverts until they start barking up my tree. I’m an extrovert. I like talking to people, and it’s not because I’m in constant need of validation from others. Or pretending to be happy. I genuinely like conversing and getting to know people and vice versa. I can’t even begin to count how many times someone has struck up a convo with me, just based on the energy I give off. I smile. I’m polite. I ask questions. My wife is an introvert and while she hates how we can almost never go anywhere without me making a friend, but it’s one of the primary things that drew her to me.

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Everybody just do you
 

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Because they don’t know what we’re thinking :yeshrug:

I’m an introvert through and through, but I am able to communicate effectively. I just don’t like most people. I can get along with anyone on a surface level but I don’t have any friends anymore. Not to say that I necessarily feel lonely as I have my close family, but I guess that’s why I got a journal :russ:
 

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Because some extroverts think they're entitled to everyone's attention. Not all, just the ones who bytch about introverts.
No one goes around calling themselves an extrovert

It’s always people that claim to be introverted( really socially awkward) talking about extroverts
 

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Honestly most introverts I encounter get ignored by most people and are usually seen as weird. I use to be introverted but I actively took myself out it with a lot of effort. Life has improved tremendously. Being antisocial isn't an attractive trait no matter how you spin it.
How much effort did it require and how long did it take to become extroverted?
 

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Honestly most introverts I encounter get ignored by most people and are usually seen as weird. I use to be introverted but I actively took myself out it with a lot of effort. Life has improved tremendously. Being antisocial isn't an attractive trait no matter how you spin it.
antisocial doesn't equal introvert imo, introverts imo..
Because people think introversion and social anxiety disorders are the same thing. Introverts go outside, experience life and talk to people etc. We just need peace, quiet and alone time to recharge, THAT'S IT. People make it so complicated when it's not
is basically this. Being an incel or not coming outside ever is a sign of depression, not introversion.
 
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