Serious Question: Why are introverted people vilified?

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No one goes around calling themselves an extrovert

It’s always people that claim to be introverted( really socially awkward) talking about extroverts
You're speaking exactly like someone who has no idea how to think beyond themselves lmao.

I've been called an introvert 100x more than i've ever called myself an introvert. Literally the first time I was ever even introduced the concept was in a social studies class where the teacher explained introverts and extraverts, and two girls immediately pointed at me after he broke down introverts. It's a label that's stigmatized towards anyone who's quiet/keeps to themselves to the point where people conflate introversion with anxiety/awkwardness :yeshrug:

shyt, I've seen you bring up shyt about introverts unprompted constantly - you sound exactly like the type of person I'm talking about, getting aggy about people who keep to themselves out of some entitlement to their engagement/interaction
 

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Introvert =/= antisocial or narcissistic personality disorder

it just means I have a finite bandwidth for dealing with other people's bullshyt, before I leave the party

or I get overwhelmed @ the grocery store by bumbling idiots taking up entire isle or people damn near running into me with their baskets because they're not paying attention to their surroundings; and just saying "fukk it , I'll click list this shyt " and abandon the cart right there on the spot.

It's the reason I use to eat in the car on lunch breaks before the WFH life chose me


It's not that I dont like people or i'm such a misanthropist , It's that people 7/10, arent as charming, competent, or intresting as they think are and try to more or less force interaction upon others to the point it puts a drain on their mental energy.
 
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People just run with made up ass labels

Racist ass Carl Jung made up that term


The same man that said Black people were mentally inferior and below animals :childplease:
This as well, not saying intro/extraversion don't have their place but if I don't fukk with you nor care about something doesn't mean I'm introverted
 

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You're speaking exactly like someone who has no idea how to think beyond themselves lmao.

I've been called an introvert 100x more than i've ever called myself an introvert. Literally the first time I was ever even introduced the concept was in a social studies class where the teacher explained introverts and extraverts, and two girls immediately pointed at me after he broke down introverts. It's a label that's stigmatized towards anyone who's quiet/keeps to themselves to the point where people conflate introversion with anxiety/awkwardness :yeshrug:

shyt, I've seen you bring up shyt about introverts unprompted constantly - you sound exactly like the type of person I'm talking about, getting aggy about people who keep to themselves out of some entitlement to their engagement/interaction
No one cares

Grow up
 

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Introvert =/= antisocial or narcissistic personality disorder

it just means I have a finite bandwidth for dealing with other people's bullshyt, before I leave the party

or I get overwhelmed @ the grocery store by bumbling idiots taking up entire isle or people damn near running into me with their baskets because they're not paying attention to their surroundings; and just saying "fukk it , I'll click list this shyt " and abandon the cart right there on the spot.

It's the reason I use to eat in the car on lunch breaks before the WFH life chose me


It's not that I dont like people or i'm such a misanthropist , It's that people 7/10, arent as charming, competent, or intresting as they think are and try to more or less force interaction upon others to the point it puts a drain on their mental energy.
It means anti social
 

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It means anti social

Introvert doesn't mean anti-social at all.
There's plenty of introverted people that still enjoy the company of other human beings. What its about is their capacity to tolerate social situations and/or get energy from them.

Extroverted people get actively excited about the prospect of a social gathering. They look forward to seeing people or meeting new people or talking to groups.
Introverts can do those things, but feel drained after them. Or would prefer to chill at home (even if it is with one or two trusted friends).


The biggest lie about the intro/extra social spectrum is that introverts for some reason hate people and hate conversation. For many introverts they just hate small talk or pointless conversations.
 

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It means anti social
Oh okay, so you're just throwing shyt around without knowing what you're talking about :mjlol:

Anti-social is one of the most misused labels - anti-social means you have no feelings or emotions and see people as toys to manipulate.
 

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Introvert doesn't mean anti-social at all.
There's plenty of introverted people that still enjoy the company of other human beings. What its about is their capacity to tolerate social situations and/or get energy from them.

Extroverted people get actively excited about the prospect of a social gathering. They look forward to seeing people or meeting new people or talking to groups.
Introverts can do those things, but feel drained after them. Or would prefer to chill at home (even if it is with one or two trusted friends).


The biggest lie about the intro/extra social spectrum is that introverts for some reason hate people and hate conversation. For many introverts they just hate small talk or pointless conversations.
Right - like among my friends I'm actually one of the most talkative guys and have to get told to shut the fukk up sometimes...but when i'm outside of my friend circle I'm not trying to converse too much and small talk is agonizing.
 

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I think its because you are unpredictable, cause you arent giving out data about yourself like jehova witness pamphlets.


In the absensce of data, most people assume the worst.
 
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