Of course...once I have determined that I am not a roster spot and We are in an established relationship, I have no problem doing so...
Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?
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Of course...once I have determined that I am not a roster spot and We are in an established relationship, I have no problem doing so...
Exactly. If she carries herself right and clearly shows she's not interested in free meals, but rather is more interested in ME, I have no problem taking that woman out. If it's some wanna be hustler who think she's entitled to meals for her time, she can find someone else to feed her.
Yeah exactly. She got all these social media accounts with these dudes making suggestive remarks and she's teeheeing, ain't no way I'mma be on some lets go to dinner. The reality is, if a woman really likes you, it ain't gonna require no dinners or dates to get to know her.
Ultimately, I see a dinner as something generous that I CHOOSE to do. I'll keep it pushing if some woman wants to make that an entrance fee.
More than anything, women are afraid to talk about their pasts, not solely because of the "number" of bodies per se.
It's all about the selling price. They will always lie about the number of bodies.
But, whether it's 2, 20 or 200, once a man finds out another man or men got it for free, his likelihood of wifing plummets. The amount of time, effort and money he'll put in to get it also plummets!
Revealing the selling price is what scares them.
capt_saveahoe
All Star
All women fukk someone they are sexually attracted to for free, they only try to make the guy trying to wife them pay for dates and jump through hoops.
Paying for dates is a waste of time, while you are wining and dining her some other guy is fukking her on your dime.
Paying for dates is a waste of time, while you are wining and dining her some other guy is fukking her on your dime.
True if a woman says ive been with 30 guys, why would a guy work or try to impress she's easy.
Its like when these brehettes are like all my exes were horrible they cheated on me, and I sit back and drop the but you tool them back right and majority of the time yes they did.
So you stayed with a cheater and guys who treated you bad for so long, why the hell should I then treat you good?
You don't value gold treatment
Its like when these brehettes are like all my exes were horrible they cheated on me, and I sit back and drop the but you tool them back right and majority of the time yes they did.
So you stayed with a cheater and guys who treated you bad for so long, why the hell should I then treat you good?
You don't value gold treatment
The reality of the matter is that a lot of dudes actually don't mind taking a woman on a date and paying, but it's the scandalous women that are ruining it. The type of women that are ruining it:
1) Go on a dinner date with one guy and at the end of the night, give him a peck and then invite some other dude over right after
2) Brags to her girls that she got some guy giving her free meals
3) Is a known freak of the week, but wants to roleplay like 'she's not that girl'.
4) Idiotic women that take kindness as something to exploit and think she's about to 'come up' because she sees a guy she thinks she can escalate on.
5) A woman that is talking to multiple guys in addition to me
The type of woman I'd take out to dinner is a girl that I've had several enjoyable conversations and she genuinely enjoyed spending time with me... I've assessed her conversation and how people respond to her and have used my best judgment to determine that she's not one of these easy 'go-getters'.
In other words, a high quality woman who was completely in to me and isn't trying to go tit for tat with me, but is just as willing to do an act of generosity without me prompting her. This kind of woman is quite rare, but then again, that's great since I don't want something common.
1) Go on a dinner date with one guy and at the end of the night, give him a peck and then invite some other dude over right after
2) Brags to her girls that she got some guy giving her free meals
3) Is a known freak of the week, but wants to roleplay like 'she's not that girl'.
4) Idiotic women that take kindness as something to exploit and think she's about to 'come up' because she sees a guy she thinks she can escalate on.
5) A woman that is talking to multiple guys in addition to me
The type of woman I'd take out to dinner is a girl that I've had several enjoyable conversations and she genuinely enjoyed spending time with me... I've assessed her conversation and how people respond to her and have used my best judgment to determine that she's not one of these easy 'go-getters'.
In other words, a high quality woman who was completely in to me and isn't trying to go tit for tat with me, but is just as willing to do an act of generosity without me prompting her. This kind of woman is quite rare, but then again, that's great since I don't want something common.
Exactly. Any woman that charges you for her time is a no go. The dinner thing is an act of generosity that I would choose on my own to do. Ain't no such things as roadblocks from a woman who really likes you.
...Why are y'all taking ungrateful scandalous women out on dates?y'all don't have a screening process? Is the packaging enough to get you dudes open?
This thread makes me appreciate the women in Chicago.
These women are sharks out here. They're so thirsty to show you how independent they are that they're whipping thier purses out to pay before the check even comes.
These women are sharks out here. They're so thirsty to show you how independent they are that they're whipping thier purses out to pay before the check even comes.
y'all don't have a screening process? Is the packaging enough to get you dudes open?
i think the reason most dudes do it is because they cant think of another way to spend time with the girl.
If you meet a girl in a place where youre likely to run into her multiple times such as the library, apartment building, work, through very good mutual friends etc then you can build enough of a connection that inviting her over just to chill isnt too forward or creepy.
but if you meet a girl in a store, mall, public transit, club etc...pretty much anywhere that its very unlikely for you to see her again then most dudes figure they gotta ask her out on a date because any smart girl isnt going to just visit a guys house when she doesnt know him well. They figure all guys want is sex so inviting a chick to the crib is out of the question. When girls ask what the date entails I suppose they figure it has to be something fun and money is gonna have to be spent.
ehhh, i don't mind paying half, or even covering small expenses. in fact i prefer it. if i dismiss the guy, he can't complain about his wasted money, etc.
now if a man who's into strict gender roles wants to split the billhasn't happened to me yet, but if he's the kind of boyfriend who thinks his girl should make him a sandwich on command, he better be paying for every date, opening doors and pulling chairs.
he can't complain regardless.
it's not like hes dropping 100K for dinner.
+ he's eating too.
A man should Always pay, unless you guys live together and share finances.
lol, I wish my daughter would spend 1 penny of her inheritance on taking a guy out or splitting bills
at the same time, i wish my daughter would make her man make his own plate during dinner
i wish i'd fail with my Only Daughter. 
ndthentherewasx
El Capitan
Why wouldn't yall wanna pay for a date 