Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

[Colicat]

So he has to pay to get to know you and you don't have to psy to get to know him

Pay to get to know me? Nikka if you ain't got it let me know... Your mentality is off... It's about bonding over shared experiences....

You do have to spend time... And sometimes shyt ain't free... And guess what.... When it isn't you are paying....

 

[MikelArteta]

From the mouth of a viper, mad because I don't fall in line to your ideologies

Long story short, you are bitter and full of shyt

 

[MikelArteta]

You work don't you?

My mentality isn't off, like I said if I'm exclusive with a female I'd happily pay.

If I'm not, I'm not going to.

You can sit there with your steak and mash potato giggle and laugh, and get to know me. But I ain't paying for it.

Pay to get to know me? Nikka if you ain't got it let me know... Your mentality is off... It's about bonding over shared experiences....

You do have to spend time... And sometimes shyt ain't free... And guess what.... When it isn't you are paying....

 

[Colicat]

From the mouth of a viper, mad because I don't fall in line to your ideologies

No viper and not angry... Just observant....

That post was filled with negativity and bitterness

 

[Colicat]

You work don't you?

My mentality isn't off, like I said if I'm exclusive with a female I'd happily pay.

If I'm not, I'm not going to.

You can sit there with your steak and mash potato giggle and laugh, and get to know me. But I ain't paying for it.

If you are struggling then I understand wanting to limit the cost of dating... If you have money to spend and don't want to spend it on your date, then you are obviously dating the wrong people...

 

[MikelArteta]

Realism and not falling in line = negativity and bitterness

Slavery is over a black man can express his views.

Look at all the men who paid for your first date yet you still single , whose doing it wrong

No viper and not angry... Just observant....

That post was filled with negativity and bitterness

 

[MikelArteta]

Not really, I've been on dates with doctors, lawyers and even broke chicks working retail and they all paid.

White women

Now that I'm back "home" I'll have to rewire these brehettes undeveloped minds what to expect when dealing with a real man

If you are struggling then I understand wanting to limit the cost of dating... If you have money to spend and don't want to spend it on your date, then you are obviously dating the wrong people...

 

[Colicat]

Realism and not falling in line = negativity and bitterness

Slavery is over a black man can express his views.

Look at all the men who paid for your first date yet you still single , whose doing it wrong

Express your bitter views, but don't get upset when folks call a spade a spade...

Still single? You haven't been paying... How's that worked out for you?

 

[Colicat]

Not really, I've been on dates with doctors, lawyers and even broke chicks working retail and they all paid.

White women

Now that I'm back "home" I'll have to rewire these brehettes undeveloped minds what to expect when dealing with a real man

Your attempt at sarcastic wit has failed miserably

 

[MikelArteta]

Except my views aren't bitter

I'm single because I don't settle for scraps.

I only date for a purpose.

I'm more concerned on finishing writing my book, hitting the gym and travelling than being a typical sexual aggressive puzzy is my only goal coli nukka

Express your bitter views, but don't get upset when folks call a spade a spade...

Still single? You haven't been paying... How's that worked out for you?

 

[MikelArteta]

:khom:

Your attempt at sarcastic wit has failed miserably

 

[mamba]

As @kevm3 stated, traditional women get traditional treatment.

If you're some new age smut slanging it around for free and expect me to pay, you've got to be out of your mind.

That's why it's always good to learn all you can about a woman's past so you don't get played, brehs.

"Past is past" type nikkas will be dropping major money on a chick who let the entire football team hit for free, a chick who let the nikka from Wal Mart smash after buying her one frozen drink at TGIF, or the bartender who gave her a few free drinks, etc.

Don't be a sucka. Once you learn a woman's previous selling price, don't go any higher.

 

[mamba]

Not really, I've been on dates with doctors, lawyers and even broke chicks working retail and they all paid.

White women

Now that I'm back "home" I'll have to rewire these brehettes undeveloped minds what to expect when dealing with a real man

Breh, you have your work cut out for you. A lot of rewiring needed!

 

[MikelArteta]

Don't be a sucka. Once you learn a woman's previous selling price, don't go any higher

 

[kevm3]

Pay to get to know me? Nikka if you ain't got it let me know... Your mentality is off... It's about bonding over shared experiences....

You do have to spend time... And sometimes shyt ain't free... And guess what.... When it isn't you are paying....

so you willing to pitch in on a party and reciprocate and get the next dinner?