Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

[Bless't]

but most of the guys on here are under 28 and not established.. lol

their outlook is gonna reflect it

True. They should listen to some of their coli brethren and take heed then.

 

[semtex]

She better clean her damn plate if I do. :cmonjay:

 

[MikelArteta]

Court a woman who gave it up to the squad on the first night brehs

The selling price is so low.

Why would man court?

Women who have a selling price above the market avg get courted.

Those below get the bare minimum. It's simple market dynamics. Women have been tricked into a buyer's market where men exercise power.

The sexual revolution is the ultimate Pyrrhic victory for them.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

In this day and age, a man paying 100% of the time is foolish.

Keep your wallet in your pocket for a change, brehs.

exactly

the whole 'men should pay' comes from literally over a hundred years where women either couldnt work or were extremely underpaid compared to men.

in modern day where women can earn more than men no reason a man should always pay.

 

[Youseenmywork]

and get a hug and a you seem like a great guy text but.....

I think what troubles a lot of men is the fact that women just have way more options. Most of the time these women already know who they attracted to but yet and still go get free food with some guy they not even feelin like that. They give you that hug and but...while they go chase the guy they wont. To me its just not enough honesty in the game.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

men love gender roles until it comes to paying for a damn date I know most of the guys complaining got to be broke because if you have money dishing out money for a basic date aint that serious to you.

im not broke, but why should i always pay for a date? especially if she is the one that insinuated she wanted to go out. for what logical reason?

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

why do you think this? what is the foundation for your logic?

I think men should pay for dinner. But for every dinner he buys, I'd cook 3 meals for him.

 

[KinksandCoils]

im not broke, but why should i always pay for a date? especially if she is the one that insinuated she wanted to go out. for what logical reason?

my original post stated that women should pay too. I simply said men should pay more though.

 

[sayyestothis]

Men continue to lose, rolling out the red carpet and going all out like there taking a dignitary out for dinner. Like the woman is the prize and they are so honored to get this chance and opportunity to impress her. Pathetic.

While in essence more than likely she has a few other dinner dates lined up for the week, has ten dudes orbiting in her circle, If I wanted to pay for someone's time I might as well get a hooker.

^^^yeah I don't get the big deal about paying for a date. I mean if you can't afford to take a woman out then don't go. You act like I am suggesting buying every female a car.

Covering dinner for a wOman? Don't see where all the bitterness is coming from...

 

[MikelArteta]

I think what troubles a lot of men is the fact that women just have way more options. Most of the time these women already know who they attracted to but yet and still go get free food with some guy they not even feelin like that. They give you that hug and but...while they go chase the guy they wont. To me its just not enough honesty in the game.

its exactly what I'm saying, hese brehettes already know if they are goign to give you another shot, there all on that tingles, butterflies crap

but they will still let the dude pay, still give him a hug and be like text me when you get home etc., and then boom

when both parties pay there are no expectations nothing,just two people getting to know each other.

Like I said if were exlcusive that's different, if not

the same women who dont want men to judge them for sleeping around and their body counts because its old fashion this is a new age, yet want to hold onto to this

you dont say

 

[eufemism]

nikkaz wont even spend 50 bucks on a birthday gift for mommy or grandma, but will hand over that cash for a chick who doesn't even care about em and has 3 other dates lined up that week

 

[Floyd Pinkerton]

In this day and age, a man paying 100% of the time is foolish.

Keep your wallet in your pocket for a change, brehs.

The rare unironic use of brehs.

 

[mamba]

Stop commodifying women... We are people... Not objects to be bought, sold, collected, and traded

Sad that someone with such a developed mind has to be told this

Maybe women should carry themselves as human beings who think rationally instead of carrying themselves as commodities willing to be bought by the highest bidder.

My developed mind is thinking rationally about the situation. Your mind, on the other hand, is less refined by default and cannot grasp the simple concepts the brehs are articulating in this thread.

 

[Art Barr]

black women who are worth building a relationship with.
don't require dating and just require you to fall through.
women, who date in the black community and are not committed are roster builders and gold diggers.


Art Barr

 

[Art Barr]

Sometimes that happens. You're not going to be desirable to everyone and that's what dating is about...to narrow it down and find someone who is that great person you see yourself with.

you don't go out on a date unless you are intimate and close to committals with a woman.
any female requiring you to take her out, just to be social before intimacy is a roster builder.
who looks at you as a mark, and a free meal ticket provider kn her roster.

Art Barr