Since gender roles are reserving anyway. Wouldn't it make sense for women to approach men?

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More women approaching would be nice with the new gender role movement, also paying for the entire date or going dutch. Handsome guys do get approached a lot by women so if a woman doesn't ask the guy out she may not be attracted to him. I saw it a lot more in college with my friends getting approached but even now with wedding rings on some women go for it.:dame:
 
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I've never been approached or rather I've been too oblivious to notice. It does happen and would be nice if it happened to guys more often. But it probably won't.
 
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Then those men don't want you enough.

A man who truly wants you would be appreciative that you liked him in the first place.
I was always told a man who wants me enough will approach.

That being said, I've approached 2 men ever and both resulted in relationships. They weren't randoms on the street, though.
 

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:patrice: I don't think it would be that easy.
It's not supposed to be easy. Not everything thats good for you in life is supposed to be easy. There are always plateaus. Thats the whole point of risks. The greatest woman who came into my life approached me and I blew her off first. Thats typical for any man when they approach women. If you truly catered to men as much as men catered to you, that "double standard" would go away. But yall only start the hunt when you're single moms looking for a provider.

I'm not shytting on women dont like approaching in general. I'm shytting on the ones who complain about gender roles but use theirs to benefit and be catered to.
 

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Women are cowards when it comes to approaching:russ: don't waste your time expecting them to approach...especially if your a good looking breh like me. I noticed up here (Seattle) women be shy of a nikka.


I have however begun to pickup on the dumbass signals some chicks do though:pachaha:
 

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The average woman would have a mental break down after getting rejected a few times. They're not mentally strong enough to handle the responsibility of approaching.

They would rather sit back and criticize men for not approaching enough than dive in themselves.

I've heard what women count as approaching is when they walk up to you with their good outfit and smile at you, maybe a little conversation. If you're oblivious to it then they go home and cry and count it as a rejection.
 

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It's not supposed to be easy. Not everything thats good for you in life is supposed to be easy. There are always plateaus. Thats the whole point of risks. The greatest woman who came into my life approached me and I blew her off first. Thats typical for any man when they approach women. If you truly catered to men as much as men catered to you, that "double standard" would go away. But yall only start the hunt when you're single moms looking for a provider.

I'm not shytting on women dont like approaching in general. I'm shytting on the ones who complain about gender roles but use theirs to benefit and be catered to.
You're reaching.
 
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