Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
That can understandably be seen as a lady just being friendly
Since gender roles are reserving anyway. Wouldn't it make sense for women to approach men?
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That can understandably be seen as a lady just being friendly
He talking about how times changed from now versus how things were during our parents and grandparents era....where more women stayed at home, men had the top managerial jobs, women took care of the home....u know the traditional gender roles.How are we getting to live like men?
By working?
By being paid for the work?
By choosing who to have sex with?
Nowadays women have rights and don't need a man to survive hence the "independent woman" mindset.
what if your dream man is too shy and u miss out because u ddnt want to take the gamble?I'm totally kidding.
I've apporached in the past. I have nothing against women who approach. I don't do it now because I was always told it makes me look desperate, etc. I'm not good with flirting and "fukk me eyes" and all that BS with a man I don't know, so i prefer a man just get straight to the point and state his intention.
Black women have always worked. Y'all keep confusing yourselves with White people.
The Fade
I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
Thats my mindset, not every chick who talks to you automatically wants your dikk lol. I get told "levels to this shyt" stuff like this all the time though.
yup....if yall couldn't provide for yourselves that would force yall to submit to a man ....women have too much powerHow are we getting to live like men?
By working?
By being paid for the work?
By choosing who to have sex with?
AquaCityBoy
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No women don't understand that their "subtle" is the next girl's "normal."
Also, this thread is
Larry Lambo
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O and one more thing.
If this whole 80/20 exist like y'all claim it do then get ready to live lonely lonely lives if y'all waiting on women approaching
True, but at least brehs would know for 100% sure that women didn't want them, instead of all the "rah rah any dude can get dimes" speak that's going on.
You would know where you stood, and that would be that. Right now dudes are lost in the wilderness, because the attractive women of the world are telling them aren't desirable, but the rest of society is saying that they can get these women and it's based on confidence and/or effort.
But yeah, it wouldn't change the opportunities, in fact it would probably diminish them. But it would give dudes closure.
The Fade
I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
How so? If women are getting rejected and putting in the work as much as men, that doesnt make you slut or whore, therefore that double standard of women having a lot of sex partners is bad would be invalid. You are the catered to gender when it comes dating. Thats why it looks bad when yall have a lot of sex partners. It's not hard for you to go out and lose your virginity, it is for men though which is why they are congratulated for it.
Men aren't catered to when it comes to dating, if men don't sell themselves, they get nothing.
Voice of Reason
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Women already approach men they are attracted too 
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
True
Yet just realize that a good man is a good man whether you approach him or not.
A good man doesn't change into a bad one just becsuse a lady approaches him.
I see where this is about to go, so I'll see myself out. Y'all be easy.
