Sistaz are asking "why wont yall lead?"

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I be on here clownin lol

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I always ask this when this topic comes up on this forum and nobody ever has a decent answer.
What needs to be lead if you are a grown responsible person, other than if there are kids involved.

I don't get it either. What is it those black men aren't doing right?

Why do black women keep shacking up with those losers? Just stop giving losers time of day, its a simple concept.

 

[BaggerofTea]

the sort of the question you ask when you dont have a sense of direction for your own life.


id argue women like this need to embrace the barefoot in the kitchen, cooking, pregnant 24/7 life. That is their purpose.


Nothing wrong with being a mother and a homemaker.


Its an immensely important role in human civilization.

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

“When was the last time a man told you something and you didn’t cut him off, argue, debate or question him?”



As soon as they gave me their response…



“That’s why.”



“Y’all have a good night.”

 

[Shadow]

That table is filled with Sauerkraut and Suffering.

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

Bruh at a dinner party with journeymen globethotters

 

[Yaboysix]

"Banging the host".....

 

[nairdas]

I said it before and I'll say it again, women are giant ass children. WANTING to be lead just sounds like some kid shyt to me. You a grown ass woman so why the fukk another grown person gotta lead you for? Just sounds ridiculous to me and it's unnecessary pressure for the man.

 

[mson]

OP

You got to move with fitness playa or create a distraction.

You should have thrown a bomb and said, why is Kandi leaving that great man, and left the scene.

Who is Kandi?

 

[Tair]

you looking for a leader?


Take out that weave right now.

 

[Marlow Stanfield]

Chick at the bar asked me this question in front of my lady and my answer was simple:


"Go ask them nikkas that aint leading shyt "

You not about to rope me into that podcast circular conversation bullshyt.

 

[Marco Zen]

I said it before and I'll say it again, women are giant ass children. WANTING to be lead just sounds like some kid shyt to me. You a grown ass woman so why the fukk another grown person gotta lead you for? Just sounds ridiculous to me and it's unnecessary pressure for the man.

I understand what they're trying to say.. the problem is they're only repeating a talking point they got from some idiot on social media, not really understanding what it means because the idiot they got it from is only talking that "you need to leave him" nonsense...

Before I walked off I suggested to these ladies that maybe their expectations of the black man are a bit unrealistic and despite the shyt they hear online everything ain't always his fault, meet us halfway on some shyt, communicate better blah blah... Then they said

"see how hes gaslighting"
"Yep!! Thats what they always do"
"Boy bye"

I was dismissed again




Shawty still turned all the way around in her chair giving me the "you did good ima give you some when they leave"

 

[nairdas]

I understand what they're trying to say.. the problem is they're only repeating a talking point they got from some idiot on social media, not really understanding what it means because the idiot they got it from is only talking that "you need to leave him" nonsense...

Before I walked off I suggested to these ladies that maybe their expectations of the black man are a bit unrealistic and despite the shyt they hear online everything ain't always his fault, meet us halfway on some shyt, communicate better blah blah... Then they said

"see how hes gaslighting"
"Yep!! Thats what they always do"
"Boy bye"

I was dismissed again




Shawty still turned all the way around in her chair giving me the "you did good ima give you some when they leave"

The irony of them saying you're gaslighting when by saying that is exactly what they're doing.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I said it before and I'll say it again, women are giant ass children. WANTING to be lead just sounds like some kid shyt to me. You a grown ass woman so why the fukk another grown person gotta lead you for? Just sounds ridiculous to me and it's unnecessary pressure for the man.

bossy children aka “spoiled”


shyts getting confusing, that’s why. They need to make up their minds foreal

 

[Peter Popoff]

"No hablo bird" then walk away.