Six Reasons Why Men Are Avoiding Marriage

[thirdeye]

The problem a lot of guys here are focused on is that marriage will fail. They're not giving credit to their own abilities to make a marriage work

Bingo but it's all up to the woman because she wants to get married

Edit: Some are acting like their millionaires or something that these women are going to marry them then divorce for the money Normal people get married everyday, y'all.

 

[Jesus]

Average black man makes 32k

damn thought it was higher than that but the average house make 50k. Sounds reasonable.

 

[Mantis Toboggan M.D.]

That's what I'm saying breh, imagine if you was 15/16 and somebody walked up to you and said "Hey young blood, you get $1,400 to spend on your upkeep every month"

Youd have a closet full of shyt you didn't need and a brand new car sitting in the driveway.

Kids don't need that much money, kids don't have bills like that.

That's the big reason I'm delaying getting married.

Because if I woke up to goto work one day knowing that I have to hand over $1,400 to a woman that I'm not with, just so she can spend it on herself and hand me bills for the child, that I can't fukking see, I would honestly rather be in jail on a charge.

Bingo. That's when I face a murder rap

 

[Scuti]

brehs dont try to argue the concept of not getting married to a married man. they are trapped and will never see your point for what it is.
its like a muslim and christian debating, neither side will see the other's points.




even tho we right for sayin fuk marriage

 

[Turk]

I didn't ave any good examples of what marriage is growing up....so I'm like fukk it now

Plus I don't can't imagine being stuck with the same person for the rest of my life

 

[MikelArteta]

The problem a lot of guys here are focused on is that marriage will fail. They're not giving credit to their own abilities to make a marriage work

you have No control over someone else. YOu can be a loving faithful husband a great father and that means nothing.

 

[philmonroe]

The problem a lot of guys here are focused on is that marriage will fail. They're not giving credit to their own abilities to make a marriage work

They know they aren't worthy that's why they focus on failure. They feel their girl about to leave them for the next dude real quick cause they weak sauce lol. Not saying its not possible at all if you "alpha" but if you a top notch dude that does proper vetting chances of this happening are less likely. Most cats don't do proper vetting they just boo up any chick with a nice body that gives them a little p*ssy. They don't do any long term research on if this chick is worthy of being with them long term outside of sex. Also some of,these dudes need to improve their lives cause they talk from a place of insecurity with regards to relationships cause they know they don't have much to offer trying to get chicks to cop a Kia when they could get a Bentley lol.

 

[Mowgli]

Talk in words not faces. Im no undertanding what youre saying here.

 

[Jahmal]

They know they aren't worthy that's why they focus on failure. They feel their girl about to leave them for the next dude real quick cause they weak sauce lol. Not saying its not possible at all if you "alpha" but if you a top notch dude that does proper vetting chances of this happening are less likely. Most cats don't do proper vetting they just boo up any chick with a nice body that gives them a little p*ssy. They don't do any long term research on if this chick is worthy of being with them long term outside of sex. Also some of,these dudes need to improve their lives cause they talk from a place of insecurity with regards to relationships cause they know they don't have much to offer trying to get chicks to cop a Kia when they could get a Bentley lol.

More than half of marriages end in divorce. A man would be a fool not to focus on those stats.

You could be the most loving faithful husband in the world and your wife could wake up one day and decide she is no longer in love with you and take money away from your bank account. I'm not signing up for that.

 

[a murda]

Getting married biggest mistake of life

 

[ZEB WALTON]

i almost got married, bytch was down for me or so i thought, and she was for the first 3 years. she was also an emotional mess who flipped the switch on me 180. wasnt normal. ill never get married cause of that experience.she would have tried to ruin my life if i married or had a baby with her, she already has without it. the way i see women act as i grow older, na no way

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

marriage

 

[Mowgli]

I'm all for relationships, co habitation and having kids, just not adhering to some bs feminist marriage laws.

How does this prevent a woman from calling the court and putting paper work on you?

The end result is the same if the relationship fails

Dont get married - get taken to court for child support
Get married - get taken to court for child support
Have money and dont get married - get taken to court for child support and lose more money then a broke nikka
Have money and get married - get taken to court for child support, lose half assets and potentially alimoney if married for 10 years
Dont have money and get married - child support
Dont have money and dont get married - child support

The only people who should be taking the proper precautions in marriage are men who actually have money. Most black people, do not.

Your best bet is to choose your woman wisely and if need be, end things on amicable terms so you can provide the money that is needed to raise your child because if you piss a woman off, she has the resources to inconvenience you.

The solution to not have a family or kids i think its dangerous and to push that sort of thinking on the youth will acutally lead to MORE b*stard children since people will think fun fukking is how they can avoid having babies. Retarded.

 

[Mowgli]

i almost got married, bytch was down for me or so i thought, and she was for the first 3 years. she was also an emotional mess who flipped the switch on me 180. wasnt normal. ill never get married cause of that experience.she would have tried to ruin my life if i married or had a baby with her, she already has without it. the way i see women act as i grow older, na no way

Then your genes die with you because of a crazy bytch.

Thats power

 

[William F. Russell]

Please explain to me how this makes any sense, bruh.

So, what, are you going to pay the child directly, or have some institution pay the child directly? ("Here lil 3 y/o maurice, here's your 500$ payment for the month. Make sure you dont spend it all at chuck e cheese now"). If the mother is physically raising your child how on earth do you bypass her in this process?




"Do the knowledge" aka pull bullshyt claim right outta your ass with zero quantifiable data or empiricism behind it, in order to further this blind hate agenda you have against the group in question. There's no need to deflect here...Im directly talking about men in this very thread who find outrage over having to take care of the children they create, and in my estimation it seems reflective of a larger issue. Say what you want about this mythical, evil, black woman strawman you've created, but whatever mistakes were made in the creation process they are almost always committed to raising and taking care of their children.

So you're telling me that men should get married and compromise themselves legally for a "no fault" divorce institution that currently has a 50% divorce rate (with over 80% of divorces initiated by women)?

You're telling me that men should actively seek to get married when there's no tangible legal benefits for them in doing so?

You're telling me that in the cases of divorce, men should look forward to paying child support, alimony, and having their kids taken away from them?

Your simping knows no boundaries...