Six Reasons Why Men Are Avoiding Marriage

[IShotTheSheriff]

Wait a chic did this

Women AGAINST feminism

I'm so happy right now... So happy

 

[philmonroe]

More than half of marriages end in divorce. A man would be a fool not to focus on those stats.

You could be the most loving faithful husband in the world and your wife could wake up one day and decide she is no longer in love with you and take money away from your bank account. I'm not signing up for that.

Yeah its a lot of people catching diseases from fukking but people ain't focusing on them stats so yeah you going to have to come up with a better example. Regarding the divorce part shyt happens but a pre nup will solve most of that. Like I said if you not having kids cool but with what we know about kids from out of wedlock them cats should probably get married.

 

[Jahmal]

We haven't even mentioned Retirement yet. A man making 35K and paying child support and/or alimony for 2 kids will have to work until he dies. He will never be able to happily retire.

 

[William F. Russell]

Yeah its a lot of people catching diseases from fukking but people ain't focusing on them stats so yeah you going to have to come up with a better example. Regarding the divorce part shyt happens but a pre nup will solve most of that. Like I said if you not having kids cool but with what we know about kids from out of wedlock them cats should probably get married.

Pre-nups get voided in courts everyday, b....especially if the courts determine that they're unconscionable or that a party (I.e., the wife) had NO IDEA what she signed...

 

[O.G.B]

Nah bredda' I live in Hyde Park: Chicago,Il, look up the real estate costs/costs of living for my area, my compensation is the real middle class figure, not the one posted on that chart in the other thread.



Did you not read my first post in here? I'm dating an Asian woman right now, and Im thinking about going all in, I'm just nervous.

Don't do it breh! A marriage isn't a precursor to having a successful relationship! All marriage does is provide financial security & benefits for women if they decide to leave or if the marriage doesn't work, even if you're not at fault or the reason behind the marriage dissolving.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

number 1 was stupid but the others....



kinda a wack video tho

 

[ZEB WALTON]

Then your genes die with you because of a crazy bytch.

Thats power

since when do u need tobe married to have kids

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

Yall really in here arguing on marriage with of the year no bammer weed and a poor mans Mr Somebody married to an asian

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

More than half of marriages end in divorce. A man would be a fool not to focus on those stats.

You could be the most loving faithful husband in the world and your wife could wake up one day and decide she is no longer in love with you and take money away from your bank account. I'm not signing up for that.

This. Make a huge life decision based on a woman's fickle emotions brehs.

 

[AtomicUse]

Please explain to me how this makes any sense, bruh.

So, what, are you going to pay the child directly, or have some institution pay the child directly? ("Here lil 3 y/o maurice, here's your 500$ payment for the month. Make sure you dont spend it all at chuck e cheese now"). If the mother is physically raising your child how on earth do you bypass her in this process?
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Okay judge, how about you don't automatically give my child to the mother by default, as is 90% likely to happen?

Let me get this straight judge: I'm competent enough to go to work and hold down a job that can allow me to pay this amount you're ordering me to pay to this woman, but I'm not competent enough to raise my child?

So I'm just a fukking work horse to you?

I'm just some dimwitted brute who can't do shyt but be a sperm donor and a cash cow?

All I'm good for is my wallet and my dikk? You're denying me my intellect and fatherhood potential.

fukk YOU!

^I know myself and Id say/do that for real in a courtroom and be in jail for contempt/disorderly conduct.

Unless you're mentally challenged or some kind of touring musician/artist, you should have joint custody of your children and be able to communicate expenses regarding the child so that they're taken care of, WITHOUT INVOLVING THE COURTS.

The court literally does NOTHING that two people can't work out between themselves, unless one of them is a deadbeat. In those cases, go ahead and get the court order for support.

But how the fukk do you put a man on papers and essentially charge him a fee to see his own children?!?

How Sway?!?

 

[O.G.B]

How does this prevent a woman from calling the court and putting paper work on you?

The end result is the same if the relationship fails

Dont get married - get taken to court for child support
Get married - get taken to court for child support
Have money and dont get married - get taken to court for child support and lose more money then a broke nikka
Have money and get married - get taken to court for child support, lose half assets and potentially alimoney if married for 10 years
Dont have money and get married - child support
Dont have money and dont get married - child support

The only people who should be taking the proper precautions in marriage are men who actually have money. Most black people, do not.

Your best bet is to choose your woman wisely and if need be, end things on amicable terms so you can provide the money that is needed to raise your child because if you piss a woman off, she has the resources to inconvenience you.

There will always be extra finances involved if one is married and then there is a divorce such as: additional lawyer fees, having to split or give up material assets earned within or before the marriage (property(s), car(s),etc), alimony payments just to name a few. So even if the unmarried man has a child or children with a woman but it doesn't work out, it still will cost him much less in the long run than than the divorced guy with child/children.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

So you're telling me that men should get married and compromise themselves legally for a "no fault" divorce institution that currently has a 50% divorce rate (with over 80% of divorces initiated by women)?

You're telling me that men should actively seek to get married when there's no tangible legal benefits for them in doing so?

You're telling me that in the cases of divorce, men should look forward to paying child support, alimony, and having their kids taken away from them?

Your simping knows no boundaries...

These questions of yours have zero relationship with anything Ive said thus far. You've made these strawmans up, and completely avoided anything I have to say. You display a consistency when it comes to living in your own world of delusions, and outside of reality.

If one chooses to not get married, more power to you. The world aint gunna stop.

The black community doesnt have much of a divorce problem, but we damn sure have a niccas aint taking care of their kids problem. This maladaptive culture was reflected in the quick responses by some of the black men in this thread, who view the hypothetical situation of taking care of the children they personally create with anger and hostility. This is a red flag Im pointing out. Thats all.

 

[Ohnoits]

Getting married in 61 days...

 

[Mowgli]

There will always be extra finances involved if one is married and then there is a divorce such as: additional lawyer fees, having to split or give up material assets earned within or before the marriage (property(s), car(s),etc), alimony payments just to name a few. So even if the unmarried man has a child or children with a woman but it doesn't work out, it still will cost him much less in the long run than than the divorced guy with an child/children.

Solution. Have a family but dont marry her. Good luck.

 

[Mowgli]

since when do u need tobe married to have kids

IF you can have the structure of a true family without marriage, more power to you, but good luck.